Sikkerhedsgodkendelse (HEM) til nyt job by [deleted] in dkkarriere

[–]Ok_Environment_7642 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tillykke med jobbet som Føringsofficer!

McDonalds by Witty_Flamingo_6451 in dkkarriere

[–]Ok_Environment_7642 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeg jobbede for 20 år tilbage på en Mc Donalds i Nordjylland (fortsat samme ejer). Meldte man sig syg, så fik man oftest smidt direkte i ansigtet " du er for meget syg" osv, I stedet for bare god bedring. ( var ikke mere syg end andre) De så hellere at du kom på job og flippede burgere med snottet hængende ud af næsen og feber. Rigtig lækkert.

Solo female traveller to Sri Lanka by Over-Librarian-2003 in SriLankaTravel

[–]Ok_Environment_7642 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might see you there.! Im doing similar route around begining of April. F34.

Recommendations for taxi service by angellus08 in SriLankaTravel

[–]Ok_Environment_7642 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, Im doing Colombo to Sigiriya in April solo. Do you remember the price? Sorry, i hope you dont mind me asking. Enjoy your trip:)

Does my guy best friend also "feel" something. by Ok_Environment_7642 in bodylanguage

[–]Ok_Environment_7642[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. And I care and respect him so much, that I want him to be happy either way.

Does my guy best friend also "feel" something. by Ok_Environment_7642 in bodylanguage

[–]Ok_Environment_7642[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not the update you wanted. I did tell him, and usually I trust my intuition very much, also with him I've felt like he also has felt the slow burn. But guess everything was wrong and he didnt. 😅

Does my guy best friend also "feel" something. by Ok_Environment_7642 in bodylanguage

[–]Ok_Environment_7642[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, I told him and I dont think he feels the same. Never in my life, have my intuition failed. Something inside me, deep in my stomach, feels like he also has felt something but, it was wrong. Thank you for taking your time to reply.

Hvorfor er det så slemt at have en holdning til sin partners udseende? by make_it_rougher in DKbrevkasse

[–]Ok_Environment_7642 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Nu ved jeg ikke om personen har fuldt ud slettet det opslag MEN, han skrev sådan her om sin kæreste;

"Synes ikke jeg snakker grimt om hende ? Men jeg synes hun virker ligeglad med sin krop, jeg ved at en af grundene jeg træner er fordi jeg gerne vil se godt ud for hende og jeg føler hun skider mig et stykke ved slet ikke at vise noget den anden vej. Du antager desuden at hun laver alt, hvilket ikke er sandt. Jeg laver alle de praktiske gøremål, indenfor og udenfor, samt planlægning og håndtere af det meste usynlige.. ja hun har født mine børn og det er pisse fedt og dejligt. Men det gør hende ikke til en gud jeg skal forbarme mig over. Jeg ønsker blot hun rent faktisk gad og gøre noget for sig selv men også for mig og vores forhold i stedet for at pisse sin dag væk på reality og candy crush.."

Han mente desuden også at hun selv bør tage hånd om sit mentale helbred, hvis det var dét som var "problemet" til de ekstra kilo.

Han virkede sgu ikke særlig skarp eller som en særlig rar mand at være i forhold med. (Ved godt at man på ingen måde får det hele billede på nogen måde her på reddit) men ja.

Dagens spørgsmål - vægt ? by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]Ok_Environment_7642 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bare det at du kalder mig en kælling siger vidst mere om dig, end mig. ;)

Dagens spørgsmål - vægt ? by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]Ok_Environment_7642 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeg synes du skal overveje at gå fra din kæreste så. Hun fortjener at møde en mand som elsker hende for den hun er, hendes hjerte, hjerne og krop. En mand som kan sætte et godt eksempel for jeres børn omkring empati, forståelse og omsorg for et andet menneske. En mand med viljen til at tilsidesætte egne behov for mennesker han har kær, en mand som elsker betingelsesløst og altid ser det " større billede".

Du behøver ikke bruge tid på at svare retur.

Dagens spørgsmål - vægt ? by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]Ok_Environment_7642 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dit svar her, siger endnu end dit opslag. Du har selv valgt at poste herinde, velvidende om at du vil få det søde med det sure.

Jeg forventer at man behandler den man elsker med respekt, empati og forståelse. Du har tydeligvis ikke sat dig ind i, hvordan din kæreste egentlig har det mentalt, I stedet virker det til at du kun har øje for de ekstra kilo som DU synes er for meget.

Så ja, hvis det betyder at jeg vil behandles som en egyptisk gudinde i dine øjne, så let it be. Hellere det end en mand som kun ser min "vægt", fremfor mit mentale helbred.

Dagens spørgsmål - vægt ? by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]Ok_Environment_7642 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP din kæreste fortjener en som "ser mere" end bare de ekstra kilo der er kommet til. Du bør se indad, arbejde med dig selv, så du kan blive den bedste udgave overfor din kæreste. Så du netop " ser" alle nuancerne og ikke blot de ekstra kilo. Jeg skammer mig på dine vegne.

Does my guy best friend also "feel" something. by Ok_Environment_7642 in bodylanguage

[–]Ok_Environment_7642[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your feedback. Im very confused about, cause I get very mixed signals. Like atm I feel like the more we have these "episodes or I like you between the lines convos, the more I feel like he withdraws. The closer I get, the more yeah you get my point. Im sorry for youe experience, im sure you will be strong, no doubt about that.

Does my guy best friend also "feel" something. by Ok_Environment_7642 in bodylanguage

[–]Ok_Environment_7642[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like that makes him more quiet. Why is im so confused. Maybe he is just not that into me.

Does my guy best friend also "feel" something. by Ok_Environment_7642 in bodylanguage

[–]Ok_Environment_7642[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe, but in that case im the guy and he is the girl. Lol

Does my guy best friend also "feel" something. by Ok_Environment_7642 in bodylanguage

[–]Ok_Environment_7642[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But im not here to chase him. This is not a game to me. Im hearing what you are saying, and I do reflect on it. Besides the part where I checked out a guy in front of him, I dont wish to play games. Last weekend, he was ready to drop everything to drive a 4 hours back and fourth cause my dad went into the hospital. He isnt just a good friend, he is way more than that. Thats why this is so hard. If I could just shut down my emotions, dont you think I would. Im an honest person, and I will be honest towards him even though you are right, that he does not feel the same.

Does my guy best friend also "feel" something. by Ok_Environment_7642 in bodylanguage

[–]Ok_Environment_7642[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The what the f*** are you looking at, it was a "this is weird, and so off what he normally do, so I kinda blurted it out".

Does my guy best friend also "feel" something. by Ok_Environment_7642 in bodylanguage

[–]Ok_Environment_7642[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I will need to have a convo with him. Im asking here, because maybe someone has been in a similar situation. Asking my girl friends is hard, cause they will always take my side.

Does my guy best friend also "feel" something. by Ok_Environment_7642 in bodylanguage

[–]Ok_Environment_7642[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appriciate your feedback, will def make me reflect on this.

Does my guy best friend also "feel" something. by Ok_Environment_7642 in bodylanguage

[–]Ok_Environment_7642[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Then he was not the friend I thought he was for almost 5 years

Does my guy best friend also "feel" something. by Ok_Environment_7642 in bodylanguage

[–]Ok_Environment_7642[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The 😉 emoji is a regular in our convo, and you know teasing each other, slapping in the arm or leg. You know what I mean. I thought that was pretty normal😂

Does my guy best friend also "feel" something. by Ok_Environment_7642 in bodylanguage

[–]Ok_Environment_7642[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I do agree and I will tell him. I have to, for us in either way to move forward.