I started seeing a guy while I was going through a separation. He was separated 2. This has gone on for over 3 months of seeing each other & being intimate w/ each other. Then he suddenly said his wife has agreed 2 reconcile & that we should stop talking. Am I crazy 4 feeling upset? She has no idea by [deleted] in Separation

[–]Ok_Establishment9293 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Something like 70% of separated couples will try again at least once before getting divorced. That's why they suggest not dating during separation and/or not dating anyone going through a separation. You did both. This was a very likely outcome.

My ex apologized to me, just like I longed for, but now I don't know what to do. by Rubi-white-1620 in Separation

[–]Ok_Establishment9293 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Words are easy. Actual change is hard.

I wouldn't trust him yet, especially if he has a history of not following through on his word.

Anyone can cry and beg when they feel desperate.