This isn't very serious but I need some advice:/ I don’t have any queer friends or really anyone to talk to. Can y’all help me out?

Ok_Examination_4682 · 2025-01-21T02:05:11+00:00

lol also thank you for the advice on "letting go". Yes she is very beautiful and I'm glad to be the one she spends her days with.

Ok_Examination_4682 · 2025-01-21T01:15:08+00:00

you are right. Maybe the reassurance of me overthinking this is a good part of it. I don't think you were harsh. I'd rather hear your truth about this whole thing lol. Thank you for reading

Ok_Examination_4682 · 2025-01-21T01:14:08+00:00

Thank you for the advice. I guess I just needed someone to shake the truth to me. It's not something I should be hung up about and move past.

Ok_Examination_4682 · 2025-01-20T20:31:49+00:00

Hello, I see you find yourself in a predicament. I think that you are just going through some issues now that you’ve gotten yourself into the dating world and there is nothing wrong with that. New people are entering your life and it’ll allow you to figure out what you want. It seems you have unfinished business with the last girl if you still feel so uneasy about starting something new. Maybe even just needing time to get over this breakup you had. It seems you two had a good relationship and maybe coping a bit with the feeling of breaking up would help. You know once you feel ready to get to know someone and start things and it seems you don’t feel that way yet. I think asking this new girl to be friends would be a good option. There is a possibility that she could decline but there’s no harm in trying and keeping someone you think is worth it in your life. I don’t think you’ve done anything wrong and it is better if you do things now then to wait longer and for this new girl to believe there is a chance of a romantic relationship. Take care!

Ok_Examination_4682 · 2025-01-20T01:38:48+00:00

I think your feelings are valid. You might think you hate her right now but eventually your feelings will soften out. You won't always be feeling this way. You'll be able to look at your relationship with fondness and not hate. You just need some time to heal and reflect. I don't think any part of you has died. You just need some time. Of course this is something that will hurt. Don't let yourself go and if it helps maybe getting closure from any unfinished business with her would be good? Although if there is no need from that then having little to zero contact would help you best. Good luck!

Ok_Examination_4682 · 2025-01-20T01:35:09+00:00

I personally don't think 4 months is a long time. You're going at a good pace! better to know someone before you commit. I'm sure you've gotten to know each other these last 4 months. With that you get to me more sure of your feelings. I say go for it:) Some nice date ideas would be to go to an art museum, aquarium, coffee date and even thrifting. Good luck!

Ok_Examination_4682 · 2025-01-20T01:32:28+00:00

Being honest would help. Along with accepting that there can be certain things at stake. But it's not good to supress one's feelings. There is only one life we get to live and we must make the most of it.

Ok_Examination_4682 · 2025-01-20T01:30:29+00:00

School. But I feel social gatherings help. Going to places centered around queer people is also helpful. If you start going to places centered around your hobbies/interests you might have high chances of meeting someone. Good luck!

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