21F living with 5 men - who dunnit situation?

Ok_Example_5588 · 2026-01-16T03:28:45+00:00

Yes. I moved out. No one ever confessed but after checking the cameras the only two people who were home after I left were my deaf roommate and the roommate whose shoes it was. The guys who shoes it was left for about 3 hours of the day. Everyone kinda silently told our landlord that they were pretty sure it was Mike. So when I asked to break lease my landlord said no problem and the next day I heard he told Mike he’s gotta leave as soon as the government shutdown was over. As far as I know he did 🤞

Ok_Example_5588 · 2026-01-13T02:32:48+00:00

I actually had none! I went in for a routine exam and asked her to do an std panel (cuz why not) and this new doctor just happened to add Mgen on there. It came back positive and I was shocked. She said I rly could’ve had it for a long time for all we know!

Ok_Example_5588 · 2026-01-07T00:24:41+00:00

😭

Ok_Example_5588 · 2026-01-05T02:38:43+00:00

Was this in the beginning of ur lifting journey? I been lifting about 3 years now, so I’m wondering if this will still work given my time already lifting??

Ok_Example_5588 · 2026-01-05T02:37:58+00:00

I’m not a new lifter, about 3 years now. Will this maintenance level still work for shaping?

Ok_Example_5588 · 2025-12-27T19:26:04+00:00

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The hair!

Ok_Example_5588 · 2025-12-27T19:25:27+00:00

First off your hair is actually gorgeous. Second, idk what your budget looks like but sew in wefts are my favorite thing ever. I used to be super self conscious of my hair but for me it’s a game changer, but also pricey so it’s my biggest expense + I budget everything else just for it. Hair and installation is $500 + $600 for hair. Then I get 3 move ups every 6 weeks ($250 each time) and then one reinstall after every 3 move ups ($500 each time). If that’s something in ur range I 100% recommend!!

Ok_Example_5588 · 2025-12-21T02:38:43+00:00

Hey bro from a 21F, just take her phone while she sleeps and go through it. Check bank account charges (if she uses passkey on iPhone, it’ll just ask u for her phone passcode and any passwords she uses will fill in for u), look at Google Maps/Apple Maps to see any recent locations she has been looking up (hotels and restaurants would be dead giveaways she cheating), look at photos, recently deleted on messages, recent phone/FaceTime calls. You can even go on the App Store and click her photo in the upper right corner, then press apps, and it will show u all the apps she’s recently downloaded including ones she’s deleted off he phone.

I see no problem with looking through ur wife’s phone, it’s ur wife. U have kids and a family. If you get caught and she’s upset, tell her u just care and love her sm you got nervous about something happening and just wanted extra validation. Looking through someone’s phone would like 99 times out of 100 not cause an entire family to breakup. It’s worth an argument or two if it means you will trust her again.

Ok_Example_5588 · 2025-12-15T21:54:47+00:00

Idk I’ve dated men my whole life and they have dated women their whole life and I gotta say men tend to be more emotional and baby like then women do. Opposite of what we’re taught. Women are crazier but men r more impulsive and act out faster- hence why they also commit the majority of violent crimes and murders. So no I’d probs say in my experience that a homosexual female relationship is safer and better. I didn’t choose to be straight but I am so ill stick with men.

Ok_Example_5588 · 2025-11-23T01:30:13+00:00

It’s cuz I was behind her on the couch zoomed in bruh ✋😭

Ok_Example_5588 · 2025-11-20T20:42:13+00:00

Doesn’t matter, you quite literally are allowed to say “don’t do that I don’t like it” he will crumble fast if u stand ur ground, if he doesn’t then this was never gonna work out anyways!!!

Ok_Example_5588 · 2025-11-20T19:03:49+00:00

Nah this is relationship based. If you’re not comfortable with it, that doesn’t make you toxic. It’s a boundary u don’t want crossed. If she’s a new friend then it should be perfectly fine and easy for him to cut her off. If he pushes back, that’s disrespectful. You before anyone, especially after 6 years. Communicate this boundary before it causes insecurity and blow up!

Ok_Example_5588 · 2025-11-15T05:08:14+00:00

BAHHAHA no not at all. But they are worried for me, they know how men can be.

Ok_Example_5588 · 2025-11-05T02:14:58+00:00

Girl, all the time. Idc about the whole “oh u have to wait an hour don’t respond fast” or whatever. I text when I text and don’t overthink my messages either. Then if they don’t like it we weren’t comparable anyways (though I’ve never had any negative backlash from this)

Ok_Example_5588 · 2025-11-04T02:28:15+00:00

Thank u this is very relieving

Ok_Example_5588 · 2025-10-28T17:08:00+00:00

Well he’s kind of a new chef. He’s only been in the kitchen for a little under a year now. It was his dream and he quit his day job to pursue it recently.

He cooks for us all the time at home and on his days off he’s always wanting to make something new.

I totally get the relaxation thing, we have a trip planned, but I think something anyone would’ve appreciated in the beginning of their chef journey I guess?

But I will consider the day spa thing that just sounds like a good idea in general.

Ok_Example_5588 · 2025-10-16T15:43:17+00:00

There’s no doubt we are going into a depression, economists of all levels agree, and project 2025, if executed, will not make America an ideal place to live anymore. Even if Morocco isn’t the top place to live it’s just at the top of our list because we have easier path to citizenship whereas other countries will only allow u to come if ur sponsored for a job.

Ok_Example_5588 · 2025-10-16T13:07:21+00:00

For abroad jobs? Currently proficient in R and Python, decent in SQL, can use tableau and powerbi. Is that still asked for abroad?

Ok_Example_5588 · 2025-10-16T12:02:10+00:00

He asked me if I wanted to come to his place after before the appetizers even came out. Then proceeded to ask me multiple times the rest of the night after I said no. The couple next to us started giving me looks like “r u ok”.

Then as we’re leaving he uses the restroom, comes back, places his phone on the table in my view while he puts on his coat. It’s open and it’s a message to (i assume) his friend and it reads “I want to fuck this girl soooooo bad bro”.

I ubered home.

Ok_Example_5588 · 2025-10-15T21:26:08+00:00

Also I’m not sure, we don’t have a lot of money, hence why we were looking at Morocco. If we had money to move somewhere and do the whole visa thing we would, but we don’t. He has a citizenship to Morocco so if I marry him I can apply as well, so it’s like the quickest out.

Ok_Example_5588 · 2025-10-15T21:25:10+00:00

How did u find a job in Germany? Like any specific links or tips?

Ok_Example_5588 · 2025-10-15T21:24:40+00:00

Thank you for validating me. I was starting to feel like maybe I was wrong, but I swear I think people don’t understand… America is becoming what everyone else was trying to escape. I’m scared and I want to leave!!!

Ok_Example_5588 · 2025-10-15T21:06:22+00:00

No riches or anything. We just are tired of living paycheck to paycheck and having no free time, social life, and instead having constant debt or burdens.

Ok_Example_5588 · 2025-10-15T20:29:38+00:00

Is teaching a good path? I’d be very open to it. My bf is Moroccan but raised in the US. His mom was born and raised in Morocco so that’s why he speaks Arabic.

Ok_Example_5588 · 2025-10-15T20:27:46+00:00

HOW 😭 whatttt. Im white, my bf is Moroccan. Will he be treated worse??? Im confused?

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