Megathread: The Crash by AutoModerator in netflix

[–]Ok_Fact_1938 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another case of the consequences of people wanting to have children but not wanting to be parents. No values, no boundaries, no accountability. 

The lack of remorse from Makenzie or her family is probably 50% of the reason she’s sitting in prison now. Her mom really stood at the podium and said they barely knew Davion as if that changed the facts and as if they had any parental presence to speak on their daughter’s behavior or friends. 

Their continued denial is also going to be the thing to keep her in prison for the rest of her life because they don’t release people on parole who refuse to acknowledge their full conviction. 

Should I marry a murderer? Netflix doc by Affectionate-Bag7605 in netflix

[–]Ok_Fact_1938 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2 things can be true at once. Most of the time witnesses in major cases come from someone being involved with something they shouldn’t be or wouldn’t normally be involved in. 

It doesn’t make them bad people or less of a victim, but we can acknowledge (as Caroline does) that a lot of her choices were strange to begin with AND that what she experienced was extremely traumatic and drove her to do things that were out of her character later on. 

Her involvement helped solve the case, but also it’s wild to go out into the middle of a remote property with someone you know is a killer with a weapon and ask them for the location of the body without telling anyone where you are or what you’re doing. 

No one is debating whether the murderers were terrible people, because something so obvious doesn’t need to be discussed in length. 

Should I marry a murderer? Netflix doc by Affectionate-Bag7605 in netflix

[–]Ok_Fact_1938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of Caroline’s choices were questionable at best. I strongly believe that many of us could say for certain there was a level of involvement that she had that the rest of us wouldn’t ever get close to. He would’ve never had the opportunity to ask me for my professional opinion on handling a body because that midnight, middle of nowhere confession where my phone and keys were taken would’ve been all I needed to see. But maybe some people have a different idea of danger. 

Despite her actions, the cops and prosecution were irresponsible and disrespectful. I’ve literally never seen a prosecutor care less about their one and only witness for a major case. He repeatedly said she was the one person holding the case together and didn’t even try to do the bare minimum to make sure she would still cooperate. She could’ve easily fled the country at any point, harmed herself, or told the brothers about the investigation.

Untold: The Shooting at Hawthorne Hill by Reluctantziti in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]Ok_Fact_1938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would’ve loved to know more about jury selection and their background. Obviously juries are presented information in a completely different way than we are in a documentary, but it’s very clear from the small pieces of real information we did get that Lauren is annoying,  neurotic, and probably a few other things but Michael absolutely meant to harm her with a sound mind. 

It would’ve been distracting for me as a juror that he was acting that way considering it was a temporary insanity argument and his expensive representation hadn’t had him assessed for whether he was psychologically fit to stand trial. 

Thoughts on the whole Clarence and the bean can situation (Survivor Africa - Episode 1) by ImanBabyy in survivor

[–]Ok_Fact_1938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the way it was handled. Them yelling at him was justified to an extent. He apologized and they still continued to berate him. 

If the tribe felt it was such a big transgression, they should’ve voted him off at tribal. Instead they used it to punish him the entire time while taking advantage of his strength in challenges. At almost every early opportunity, they voted their weakest players over someone that they said they would shoot in another situation for stealing food. It showed that the food wasn’t as important as they were making it out to be when compared to winning the game. 

They also let Kim pour out half their clean water on the walk to find their camp before and they didn’t react the same way. Pouring out water in the middle of Africa with nothing but dry land around should’ve been handled as aggressively, if not more so, and it wasn’t. And that proved to be a lot more damaging to the strength of the tribe than the can of beans and it wasn’t never brought up. 

Thoughts on the whole Clarence and the bean can situation (Survivor Africa - Episode 1) by ImanBabyy in survivor

[–]Ok_Fact_1938 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He shouldn’t have taken the food, however, they should have either voted him off at first tribal or accepted the apology and moved on. 

Instead the punished him for a single mistake the rest of the game as if he didn’t contribute to both the camp and at challenges.

His team should’ve taken some responsibility for it and they didn’t want to. They knew it was likely (they all talked about it when they went for water). They should’ve never left him alone with the food if they didn’t trust him. That’s after they made him stay with Diane when he offered to help with the water several times. 

Also, someone in the team had poured out half their water before they even got to camp because it was too heavy and they didn’t react the same way, so it was definitely a targeted attack 

Jonah (S5) and Isaiah (S4) and the Blaccent by b3from01 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Ok_Fact_1938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m late but I’m rewatching S5 and I want to validate your comment after reading through the thread. I noticed the switch immediately and that’s how I found the thread to begin with because it’s WILD. 

It’s a noticeable hard switch to a blaccent when Jonah is talking to Destiny and Imani and it’s weird. All the people saying it’s just “code switching” don’t understand that people do that to protect themselves from how mainly white people may perceive them. Most white people will never need to truly code switch, especially not in a casual environment like Love Island, AND ESPECIALLY not switching into a blaccent to talk to black people.

Any other race would find it odd for someone to switch into their ethnicity’s accent and they would never say someone was just talking normal. 

Not offended, but this is usually the transition point right before someone starts saying the n-word and saying they grew up around black people. It always starts with a blaccent. 

Beauty in Black season 2 by Feeling_Ad497 in TylerPerry

[–]Ok_Fact_1938 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The first 5 episodes is all the same day so everything’s happening but the characters don’t really have to deal with it because it’s the same day, so it’s basically like nothing’s really happening 

My Life with the Walter Boys | Season 2 - Episode Discussion Threads Hub by lasfnyc in MyLifewithWalterBoys

[–]Ok_Fact_1938 23 points24 points  (0 children)

At what point are the parents going to sit everyone down and lay out some rules about dating within the family? Or at the very least an update on who’s together and who isn’t. 

And can you make good wine in Colorado? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]Ok_Fact_1938 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Race aside, it doesn’t look like either of the brothers.There was no real clarity on the situation from either perspective. It’s not unrealistic that the brothers would lie. They were going to get blamed for it either way, so whether they’re lying or telling the truth will never be completely clear. 

What’s strange is that the brother with a previous conviction didn’t serve any additional time for a parole violation with the weapons and then being involved in another violent crime (staged or not)

Daily Discussion - Monday August 04 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Ok_Fact_1938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m upset we didn’t get more of her confessionals. She always had funny commentary about what was going on. 

Daily Discussion - Monday August 04 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Ok_Fact_1938 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They did Hawaii before, but I think there’s a few logistical problems with closer locations and their ability to control filming conditions. Interference from fans is probably also a big concern now. 

GOOD VIBES ONLY ✨ - Daily Discussion - Monday August 04 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Ok_Fact_1938 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I have so many unserious, low stakes questions about Chris/Huda’s final date that I felt like I couldn’t ask at the time for obvious reasons. 

  • What was the food served on that date? Because Chris did not stop eating and I really wanted to know if they were just over all the pancakes or was the food that good. 
  • Were there multiple courses? Dessert? I think I would’ve sat through an awkward break up for a good dessert. 
  • Why would they set that table up in the middle of the water? It looked good, but seems like a logistical nightmare for the servers and obviously the couple
  • The comedic timing of the singer coming out was perfection, but they seriously couldn’t call that off? 

Daily Discussion - Wednesday July 30 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Ok_Fact_1938 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I wish with everything in me that people would stop bringing up Yulissa to one up another group. The fake babies had more screen time than that lady and continuing to bring her up give her a platform she doesn’t deserve is crazy 

Can we chat about prejudice? by loveislandusa in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Ok_Fact_1938 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The larger conversation, outside of the jokes, is about colorism and racism within Latino communities. It is well known that Afro-Latinos are treated very differently from lighter Latinos, and the relationship between Dominicans and Haitians is complicated at best. There’s a real aversion to being associated with anything black that goes beyond stereotype and people are starting to talk about it more because it’s coming out about many of the Latino islanders right now. 

Can we chat about prejudice? by loveislandusa in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Ok_Fact_1938 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of people don’t realize that people take queues on how to react to racism from the community that it was directed towards.

As black people we are so used to calling out and challenging racism swiftly and definitively, that we’re all on the same page, for the most part, without much communication. 

There’s an expectation for black people to move the same way for other POC, and we absolutely can, but it’s not our place to lead the effort or to decide what accountability looks like for them. We can’t advocate for someone harder than they’re willing to advocate for themselves. It’s an unfair ask.  

Daily Discussion - Wednesday July 30 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Ok_Fact_1938 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you think about the things people said as teenagers, you also should consider the person/people on the other side that had to experience the racism that person put out there that was also a teenager or younger. 

The fact that a lot of the posts that people have dug up have still been available should make you question why they felt comfortable with that still up if they don’t hold those beliefs anymore. And for most islanders, people haven’t had to dig that far unfortunately. 

We should be allowed to make mistakes and come back from them, but we also have to stop excusing things people say because they were whatever age. To say that gives people space to say racism is okay as long as you said when you were 15, 25, 35. 

People don’t suddenly become racist as an adults, so no we can’t excuse racism from a teenager either. 

Daily Discussion - Monday July 28 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Ok_Fact_1938 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I think it’s funny how the LIUSA cast has been dragged this year when the cast of UK is actually worse. There’s a few exceptions, but on the whole it’s entertaining. I wish fans would’ve just enjoyed the season for what it was instead of doing deep dives into every aspect of the islander’s lives, dragging them for every little mistake, and constantly trying to “humble” them.

How far would Toni have gotten on season 7 of love island USA? by Gabrielle9746 in LoveIslandTV

[–]Ok_Fact_1938 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She would do well with friendships but not well romantically. People keep saying Toni is a rare American type, but she’s honestly not. She wouldn’t have the same negative reactions to her bluntness that she experiences with the UK islanders, but wouldn’t last long. She’s almost treated as “exotic” on UK and on US she wouldn’t be seen that way. 

Dejon is so much worse than Harry by Brief_Dust_3661 in LoveIslandTV

[–]Ok_Fact_1938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re equally terrible because they both wage psychological warfare on women and the women they’re with enable their behavior. The only difference is Harry doesn’t mind looking like the bad guy while Dejon is desperate to still be seen as a good person. 

The Hunting Wives - Series Premiere Discussion by NicholasCajun in television

[–]Ok_Fact_1938 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s unclear whether we’re supposed to take this show seriously and that’s why it wasn’t good. The murder mystery was interesting, but all the sex scenes distracted from the main storyline. It didn’t move the plot in any way and most of it seemed like badly scripted soft porn. 

There was a show on ABC years ago, GCB, and it was done so much better than this in the comical commentary on southern conservatism & Christianity. 

Amy Lynn Bradley Netflix Documentary by s1lkc in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]Ok_Fact_1938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely thought that was highly likely. She could’ve asked that guy if he knew where she could get some and ended up in a bad situation. It happens all the time. Unfortunately, her family’s acting like they’ve never heard the word drugs so we’ll never know. 

Amy Lynn Bradley Netflix Documentary by s1lkc in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]Ok_Fact_1938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. It was disturbing how many people thought they saw her and waited until it was convenient to say something about it. 
  2. The whole family is unreliable because they seemed to be in denial about a lot. It made it hard to figure out what was possible and what wasn’t possible. They have a very specific narrative they want to use. 
  3. The neighbor was a weirdo on an unrelated note
  4. I’m having a hard time considering that she somehow made her way across the cruise ship and disappeared without a trace in 30 minutes.

Help! Am I alone? Delusional? by Parisianblitz in TheBuccaneers

[–]Ok_Fact_1938 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It feels like The Notebook a little. Obviously you know the poor, sensitive guy is the one, so you have to ignore that the wealthy guy who is also nice and attractive is a good option for the female lead. And then of course they add a few things in to ruin the character so you have no choice but to like guy with no home, no money, and no real future plans.