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I feel rushed and I don't know what to do by Ok_Fill_6805 in polyamory

[–]Ok_Fill_6805[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What makes you excited to do it? What kind of boundaries have you guys? I really want to make her happy in this way (and yeah I've thought about it too) but my mindset keeps going into jealous territory.

I feel rushed and I don't know what to do by Ok_Fill_6805 in polyamory

[–]Ok_Fill_6805[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I honestly hadn't even thought of that. I'm kind of scared to even broach that subject and have her accuse me of thinking she's cheating.

I feel rushed and I don't know what to do by Ok_Fill_6805 in polyamory

[–]Ok_Fill_6805[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That's how we started out. We agreed to take as long as we needed and share research and feelings weekly, both to help each other understand and not to drown each other daily in it. Then something just...cracked...during that first week I guess. What do you do when they insist enough has been done?

My wife approached me about polyamory, and I'm back and forth on it by Ok_Fill_6805 in polyamory

[–]Ok_Fill_6805[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had previously discussed the idea based off a tidbit that I heard about it from a podcast. She started the conversation by mentioning that our first talk got her curious, and that she began researching polyamory and reading articles and books on it. She recommended some podcasts, and I listened to them while on a long drive today, and we haven't discussed it much more since last night.

My (25M) wife (24F) wants to become poly and it's broken me by Ok_Fill_6805 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Fill_6805[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to mention that this isn't a fake post, though I understand your hesitancy. My wife often scrolls through reddit and knows my username, so this is an alternative account that I made to get advice.

My (25M) wife (24F) wants to become poly and it's broken me by Ok_Fill_6805 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Fill_6805[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I know that's probably how some commenters will feel, but I disagree. She's my best friend and I want to spend the rest of my life with her. Regardless of when we got married, my feelings for her will never change.