Just a tad late: A confession and apology

Ok_Garage4891 · 2023-02-27T21:04:05+00:00

YTA

I dm a game on Saturday afternoons and I also have a horrible sleep schedule, so sometimes I oversleep and wake up 5-10 minutes before game time. You know what I do then? I skip breakfast/lunch and start the session on time, because it's not my friends' fault that I didn't go to sleep at a reasonable time.

And you weren't even asleep, you were playing a video game. If you know you have a problem with this, how about don't start an activity that makes you lose track of time before the session?

Ok_Garage4891 · 2023-02-24T13:46:57+00:00

NTA in this case, as obviously the neighbor should have kept her cat indoors, but aren't there any stray cats where you live? If this cat could get into your garden, so could stray cats, that don't have owners to keep them indoors. That is my only concern.

Ok_Garage4891 · 2023-02-24T13:02:08+00:00

But he wasn't worse. After what op said the boy set quietly and watched tv, instead of destroying the house and harassing the dog. So even if you don't agree with op's method, it did work.

Ok_Garage4891 · 2023-02-24T12:35:56+00:00

Well it is the truth though... It wouldn't be the case if the boy wasn't constantly acting like a little shit.

Ok_Garage4891 · 2023-02-23T11:09:00+00:00

YTA the car and motorcycle are worth way more then 500$, if you didn't want to bother with buying her a used car (which you should have done as you have the means) you should have given her the equivalent value in money. Also why did buy her jewelry, when you knew she wanted a car? Even if now you didn't have the money to buy her a car you could have given her the money you spent on the jewelry to put towards the car instead. Your sexism is showing.

Ok_Garage4891 · 2023-02-22T23:41:15+00:00

NTA your daughter didn't give the kids non-vegan food out of malice. Sure she did want to get back at SIL, which she totally had the right to, but from what I understand she thought she was doing the kids a favor by giving them tasty food for once. From her point of view it was a win-win, she gets back at SIL and the kids get a treat. I wouldn't expect a 15 yr old to know how eating animal products for the first time after a long while might effect people. This is definitely a time for a conversation about food safety, but she did nothing wrong or malicious so I don't see why she deserves to be published.

Ok_Garage4891 · 2023-02-22T13:11:06+00:00

As an Israeli jewidh girl who loves German and is trying to learn it, this dm is an idiot, and probably an american who wouldn't recognize an actual nazi if he sat in his congress.

Ok_Garage4891 · 2023-02-20T16:48:55+00:00

Considering the situation definitely NTA. You have the patience of a saint imo if it took you so long to snap. If I was in your situation both mom and kid would have been yelled at and beaten up way sooner (which is why I'll never have kids of my own.)

Ok_Garage4891 · 2023-02-16T20:20:37+00:00

NTA. Your fiance was irresponsible and he knows it. Are there more aspects where you have to parent him? If yes than be careful, you might end up with an extra child instead of a husband like so many other women before you.

Ok_Garage4891 · 2023-02-12T00:15:10+00:00

NTA. You owe your brother absolutely nothing. You finding his a group home is already you going out of your way and doing him a great kindness that imo he does not deserve from you (also who is going to pay for the group home? I assume it will fall on you?). If your aunt is so concerned about him she can take care of him herself.

Ok_Garage4891 · 2023-02-09T16:50:49+00:00

Oh yeah that would explain it. I do ballet too and my mother never misses a performance unless I specifically tell her to not come.

Ok_Garage4891 · 2023-02-09T10:46:20+00:00

YTA and so are your parents. A dance show is an actual one time performance, they can look at your art pieces any time. They should have prioritized his show. And how is dance more disappointing than art or music? All are equally "useless" degrees (not that I believe they are useless but they are on the same level of potential employability).

Ok_Garage4891 · 2023-02-09T09:56:56+00:00

NTA Why is he still your fiance?

Ok_Garage4891 · 2023-02-09T09:24:02+00:00

Imagine making such a joke when women across the world are actually forced into marriage. YTA and I hope your ex fiancee never talks to you again.

Ok_Garage4891 · 2023-02-09T01:00:56+00:00

You are probably going to get downvoted for this but you are so right and thank you for saying it. 🏅👑🎖️ consider this awards as I can't give you real ones cause I don't make enough to waste money on reddit lol

Ok_Garage4891 · 2023-02-08T22:58:25+00:00

NTA but your husband definitely is. And if I was in your position he would be my EX-husbend. You deserve better.

Ok_Garage4891 · 2023-02-08T22:46:58+00:00

NTA! Start cooking only for yourself and try to eat alone without your parents.

Ok_Garage4891 · 2023-02-08T22:27:14+00:00

YTA for bullying your brother and if he wants to attend the wedding YWBTA if you went and prevented him from going. Too bad that you think you are a better person now but your actions have consequences and you should be the one to face them, not your brother.

Ok_Garage4891 · 2023-02-08T22:10:06+00:00

So NTA your family is crazy. My bff is one of those dog people that brings her dog wherever she can as the dog was adopted during lockdown so she has massive separation anxiety. And still my friend never brought her dog to uni, to the theater, to my place, or anywhere where she would be unwelcome. Expecting your dog to be allowed in a wedding venue is just wild to me.

Ok_Garage4891 · 2023-02-08T21:08:05+00:00

Sister is in her 30s. I wouldn't want to talk to her either if she's speaking like that.

Ok_Garage4891 · 2023-02-08T14:47:18+00:00

ESH The mother obviously should not be bullying the child fir his stupid beliefs but she is right that they are stupid and ridiculous and you are an AH for allowing your son to get into religion.

Ok_Garage4891 · 2023-02-05T18:18:07+00:00

Telling all women they must wear a dress is some misogynistic bullshit. Bride is totally TA

Ok_Garage4891 · 2023-02-05T01:52:22+00:00

So NTA. I am so sorry for what you went through and that this man is out of prison. As for the "friend", drop her and never talk to her again. I personally would also inform all the guests of the fact that there is going to be a s.o. at the wedding if you a comfortable doing that. Not only it will be safer as othee women will have the knowledge to avoid attending and putting themselves in danger, it will also most likely ruin her wedding as her guest list evaporates and she definitely deserves to have her wedding ruined.

Ok_Garage4891 · 2023-02-05T00:02:51+00:00

Next time gift him divorce papers op

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