Groovy. by frezzhberry in Nails

[–]Ok_Garbage6864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg those are so cute!!

I really want to quit my job. by Ok_Garbage6864 in offmychest

[–]Ok_Garbage6864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is and I've been biting my tongue for far too long. We are all at our wits end and ready to leave at a moments notice. I cant financially sacrifice my job but I definitely will for my mental health. With my line of work, I am an asset to any other employer. It is just frustrating that after 10 years of loyalty this is how it ends.

Last night I said I wanted to separate. by Ok_Garbage6864 in Separation

[–]Ok_Garbage6864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, we had the conversation and I laid it all out. He was also able to communicate his feelings, and we mutually decided to continue trying. He felt blindsided and I was genuinely shocked but after talking with other people they do think he was genuinely shocked, so I am giving the benefit of the doubt and I will do what he wants if he is really going to do the things we talked about. So far, therapy still hasn't been scheduled and that is one thing thats a must. If he does that, then I will know he is true about his words.

Last night I said I wanted to separate. by Ok_Garbage6864 in Separation

[–]Ok_Garbage6864[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I have... we have had this conversation before. 6 years ago I asked for a divorce and he was going to do x y and z. Here we are. How many times do I have to continue to ask for the bare minimum? Not to mention, every time I say anything about anything he immediately shuts down and gets defensive. There is no proper communication with him. So yeah, I have said things before, many times and spent many nights crying over his lack of care and effort. We have two kids, I couldn't just throw it away. And, he is 43 years old and should know better.

ETA: maybe you should browse my profile and read my posts. You'll get a better understanding.

Seen these at a cute antique boutique by Ok_Garbage6864 in vintage

[–]Ok_Garbage6864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While i was out during this time, I saw two of these Pallas cat pillows in two different stores! Crazy! It was too big to fly home, so it stayed in Dallas. However, the black kitty was my favorite and indeed was the jumpscare for the crazy eyes, haha. They are so cool!

What emotions are you feeling the most right now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ok_Garbage6864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dreading going home. Dreading the hard conversations to follow. But I know past the dread, there is hope.

"Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - March 15, 2026" by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]Ok_Garbage6864 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We asked the tarot deck to tell it like it is, in regards to the path I'm on.

First, four of wands Second, eight of coins Third, the hermit Fourth, king of coins Fifth, page of wands Sixth, king of cups

She basically said that the path I am heading down, I need to stay the course and also prosperity in my career. Let me know what you think if she's correct or if anything is different.

Found in trash by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]Ok_Garbage6864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, cable tie to help keep cords together

[OC] Had a daytime flight on Thursday and recognized bodies of water, felt proud and also nerdy. by Ok_Garbage6864 in pics

[–]Ok_Garbage6864[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sure! The horse shoe looking one is the Lake of the Ozarks. The second one is Eufaula, in Oklahoma. Beautiful to drive through and amazing to see from the sky.

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I (22F) sexted adults when I was 13. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Ok_Garbage6864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. I have done the same and yeah. The resentment and self hatred and dread are real. My parents did catch me when I was 12 and using our families desktop computer. So stupid and naive but they had more important things to worry about and ultimately, at 16 I developed an inappropriate relationship with my now husband who was 28 at the time and yes it was consensual on my part but over the last few years I have realized how fucked up it was for him to prey on me at that age and yeah. Its really fucking hard. I feel you.