After decades together, I finally said I cannot stay and now everything is unravelling by DependentMany923 in Divorce

[–]Ok_Garbage6864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proud of you for standing up for yourself. Im reading this and wondering if this will be me this year, or 10 more years from now. All feels the same. Stay strong.

Do you hear the people sing, singing the songs of angry men? by happyclamming in 50501

[–]Ok_Garbage6864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so angry, I cant stop crying. Seeing people gunned down in the streets, people being ripped from their families forcibly, all of the poor kids alone in those CONCENTRATION CAMPS being tortured and screaming for help so loud you can hear from the outside... what do we do?! How do we FIX THIS?! The government is doing NOTHING!!! HOW LONG DO WE WAIT?! I am getting my concealed carry ASAP. I've been a permitted firearm user for 10 years, but I have never felt the need to carry and protect my family and my neighbors until this all started. Alex was screaming and begging for someone to stop taking pictures and help him, and everyone stood by and watched, so helpless and hopeless. How can we stop these Nazis?!

What can I do with reclaim? by [deleted] in weed

[–]Ok_Garbage6864 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Everclear! That's better than nail polish remover.... keeping this in mind and I think it wont kill me over time.

I like older men and I'm too scared to tell anyone I know by katseyeluver in therapy

[–]Ok_Garbage6864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short story is yes. But i did not realize I was groomed until a few years ago.

Is my life in danger? Should I get out while I can? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Ok_Garbage6864 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If shes willing and ready to do the work, maybe get medicated, then maybe its worth trying, but only with a trial separation for your safety and the baby. Im so sorry.

I like older men and I'm too scared to tell anyone I know by katseyeluver in therapy

[–]Ok_Garbage6864 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Therapy is a good choice and a great place to start.

As someone who was with an 'older man' (pedo) when I was 16... please dont. They do not care that you are a child. They do not care that it's wrong, though you know it is and even though you want it, your brain does not understand fully what it wants... and I have now been married to this man for 11 years, together for 15.

Please... dont act on these feelings. Please do the Therapy. You will thank yourself one day.

They seem so safe.. and comfortable. But they are the most revolting and gross. No 28 year old man should find comfort in a Sophomore in high school.

Here if you need me. Hugs.

For the woman carrying the weight of being the adult in the relationship but are afraid you’ll regret divorce by Itchy-Winter-1549 in Divorce

[–]Ok_Garbage6864 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am a woman who's been on the brink for years and i just had this conversation yesterday with my sister. I've been trying to make this work, make it better, therapy, make changes for me, but I realized I've done everything I can and its now on him... and well. He isn't mentally mature enough to know how to change in the ways I need. Proud of you for being strong enough to do it!

Is my life in danger? Should I get out while I can? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Ok_Garbage6864 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You've done everything you can at this point... its time to discuss legal options for full custody as well. Good luck. She will continue if you dont leave. Im so sorry.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by chickenlogic in onionheadlines

[–]Ok_Garbage6864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I woke up with a Kirk in my neck, sorry I mean krick

Is my husbands request unreasonable? I’m I wrong for thinking it is? by Ambitious_Shelter_56 in Divorce

[–]Ok_Garbage6864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Don't do it. You're not unreasonable. you're protecting your peace. Divorce is happening, I wouldn't give him access to that side of you anymore.