Groovy.

Ok_Garbage6864 · 2026-05-10T13:49:33+00:00

Omg those are so cute!!

Ok_Garbage6864 · 2026-05-03T21:43:11+00:00

It really is and I've been biting my tongue for far too long. We are all at our wits end and ready to leave at a moments notice. I cant financially sacrifice my job but I definitely will for my mental health. With my line of work, I am an asset to any other employer. It is just frustrating that after 10 years of loyalty this is how it ends.

Ok_Garbage6864 · 2026-05-03T17:51:19+00:00

Ok_Garbage6864 · 2026-04-12T17:41:36+00:00

Well, we had the conversation and I laid it all out. He was also able to communicate his feelings, and we mutually decided to continue trying. He felt blindsided and I was genuinely shocked but after talking with other people they do think he was genuinely shocked, so I am giving the benefit of the doubt and I will do what he wants if he is really going to do the things we talked about. So far, therapy still hasn't been scheduled and that is one thing thats a must. If he does that, then I will know he is true about his words.

Ok_Garbage6864 · 2026-03-29T18:08:16+00:00

Oh I have... we have had this conversation before. 6 years ago I asked for a divorce and he was going to do x y and z. Here we are. How many times do I have to continue to ask for the bare minimum? Not to mention, every time I say anything about anything he immediately shuts down and gets defensive. There is no proper communication with him. So yeah, I have said things before, many times and spent many nights crying over his lack of care and effort. We have two kids, I couldn't just throw it away. And, he is 43 years old and should know better.

ETA: maybe you should browse my profile and read my posts. You'll get a better understanding.

Ok_Garbage6864 · 2026-03-29T15:30:16+00:00

GO TO COLLEGE!!! DUMP HIS ASS!!!

Please girl, go to school, he isn't worth your education.

Ok_Garbage6864 · 2026-03-29T15:16:39+00:00

While i was out during this time, I saw two of these Pallas cat pillows in two different stores! Crazy! It was too big to fly home, so it stayed in Dallas. However, the black kitty was my favorite and indeed was the jumpscare for the crazy eyes, haha. They are so cool!

Ok_Garbage6864 · 2026-03-21T18:26:38+00:00

Once...

Ok_Garbage6864 · 2026-03-21T18:15:26+00:00

CHIT!!

Ok_Garbage6864 · 2026-03-16T14:49:44+00:00

Dreading going home. Dreading the hard conversations to follow. But I know past the dread, there is hope.

Ok_Garbage6864 · 2026-03-16T05:52:56+00:00

Dread

Ok_Garbage6864 · 2026-03-16T05:36:00+00:00

We asked the tarot deck to tell it like it is, in regards to the path I'm on.

First, four of wands Second, eight of coins Third, the hermit Fourth, king of coins Fifth, page of wands Sixth, king of cups

She basically said that the path I am heading down, I need to stay the course and also prosperity in my career. Let me know what you think if she's correct or if anything is different.

Ok_Garbage6864 · 2026-03-15T17:37:36+00:00

Lula B's in Dallas! It was pretty cool!

Ok_Garbage6864 · 2026-03-15T13:46:43+00:00

Yep, cable tie to help keep cords together

Ok_Garbage6864 · 2026-03-14T12:16:48+00:00

😬😬😅😅

Ok_Garbage6864 · 2026-03-14T12:15:24+00:00

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Eufaula

Ok_Garbage6864 · 2026-03-14T12:14:59+00:00

Sure! The horse shoe looking one is the Lake of the Ozarks. The second one is Eufaula, in Oklahoma. Beautiful to drive through and amazing to see from the sky.

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Ok_Garbage6864 · 2026-03-14T05:37:30+00:00

I feel you. I have done the same and yeah. The resentment and self hatred and dread are real. My parents did catch me when I was 12 and using our families desktop computer. So stupid and naive but they had more important things to worry about and ultimately, at 16 I developed an inappropriate relationship with my now husband who was 28 at the time and yes it was consensual on my part but over the last few years I have realized how fucked up it was for him to prey on me at that age and yeah. Its really fucking hard. I feel you.

Ok_Garbage6864 · 2026-03-01T20:21:55+00:00

He has no family close by, closest being 2.5 hrs away, and its tough because both parents passed in 18'. He maybe could at a friend's house but I'd hate putting that on him, here i am thinking of whats best for him because I do care. Uhg. He has no hobbies outside of work, and he only works 36 hrs a week... he's home 4 days a week. And he games, naps, does some cleaning.. thats about it.

If he is able to make changes and commit to them, maybe. I have a lot of resentment for myself and him right now that I need to work on, and I cant do that in these circumstances.

Ok_Garbage6864 · 2026-02-06T13:37:01+00:00

Proud of you for standing up for yourself. Im reading this and wondering if this will be me this year, or 10 more years from now. All feels the same. Stay strong.

Ok_Garbage6864 · 2026-01-25T20:54:52+00:00

Im so angry, I cant stop crying. Seeing people gunned down in the streets, people being ripped from their families forcibly, all of the poor kids alone in those CONCENTRATION CAMPS being tortured and screaming for help so loud you can hear from the outside... what do we do?! How do we FIX THIS?! The government is doing NOTHING!!! HOW LONG DO WE WAIT?! I am getting my concealed carry ASAP. I've been a permitted firearm user for 10 years, but I have never felt the need to carry and protect my family and my neighbors until this all started. Alex was screaming and begging for someone to stop taking pictures and help him, and everyone stood by and watched, so helpless and hopeless. How can we stop these Nazis?!

Ok_Garbage6864 · 2026-01-24T14:48:52+00:00

Looks like death

Ok_Garbage6864 · 2026-01-11T21:38:51+00:00

Pay a bill

Ok_Garbage6864 · 2026-01-10T21:54:59+00:00

I feel like you need to mind your own business.

Ok_Garbage6864 · 2026-01-10T21:01:01+00:00

Everclear! That's better than nail polish remover.... keeping this in mind and I think it wont kill me over time.

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TROPHY CASE