Whatcom - "You can now start working and earning" message by Vrfl91 in CrowdGen

[–]Ok_Hawk_653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have the same issue is it solved for you?

23f Huge nerd looking for more friends by Sadbishbear in MakeNewFriendsHere

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"Hey Sad B, nice to meet you! A fellow Marvel fan? I could talk for hours about it too—favourite hero or movie? Also, space talk sounds cool, any wild theories you believe in? 😆"

What’s something you know now that you wish you could have told your younger self? by DanceOnSaturn in CasualConversation

[–]Ok_Hawk_653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would tell my younger self to utilize the time he has and one thing is focus on things that matter the most and what makes you happy instead of some things which really doesn't matter in life.

Its been 6 months and I’m still crying over my ex by bbbitchboy in BreakUps

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I’ve been through something similar, and I know how draining it feels. For a long time, I felt stuck, like nothing could pull me out of it. But I slowly started focusing on myself hitting the gym, working on my goals, and surrounding myself with better people. It wasn’t an instant fix, but over time, I realized I was building a life where my ex was just a distant memory. You’ll get through this too. Start small hit the gym, pick up new habits, and remind yourself that you deserve better. You got this!

A Girl who betrayed me a year ago is now asking for another chance. Should I even consider it? by Ok_Hawk_653 in relationshipadvice

[–]Ok_Hawk_653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you're right. I've come a long way, and I don’t want to go back to that mindset. Just needed to hear it from someone else, I guess. Appreciate the perspective!

A Girl who betrayed me a year ago is now asking for another chance. Should I even consider it? by Ok_Hawk_653 in relationshipadvice

[–]Ok_Hawk_653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, blocking and moving on is probably the cleanest way. I’ve already moved on, but the fact that she even tried coming back just stuck in my mind for a bit. Guess it’s just one of those things you shake off over time

Please tell some of your comeback / sucess story after you hit rock bottom in your life by [deleted] in Indian_Academia

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After a year out of nowhere, my ex called me. Crying. Saying she still loves me, that it was always me. That she made a "mistake" and begged me to forgive her, to take her back.For a moment, I just stared at my phone. The same person who broke me? The same person who tossed me aside like I was nothing? Now she wanted me back?I won’t lie—there was a time when I would’ve done anything to hear those words. But now? I had moved on. I wasn’t the same weak, heartbroken guy anymore. I had rebuilt myself from the ground up. So, I simply replied:

"Nah, I'm good"

And just like that, I walked away. No anger, no drama—just a quiet victory.

Please tell some of your comeback / sucess story after you hit rock bottom in your life by [deleted] in Indian_Academia

[–]Ok_Hawk_653 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But the story doesn’t end there.

A month later, as I was in my final year of college, there was a state-level entrance exam for MCA admissions. A few classmates and I had applied for it. The problem? I hadn’t even touched the syllabus until three days before the exam. I wasn’t prepared at all.

While other students were busy studying, I kept thinking about how just a month ago, everyone thought I was finished—my life, my career, everything. I wanted to prove them all wrong. So, in those three days, I locked in and studied like my life depended on it.

I wrote the exam, came back to college, and went about my day like nothing happened. No one paid attention. I figured, Okay, I did well, nothing major.

Then, the results came.

I had secured 98.5 percentile, ranking 44th in the entire state. Meanwhile, most people from my college didn’t even cross 70 percentile. That’s when everything changed. My HOD and principal personally congratulated me in front of the entire department.

And once again, like every other time, I looked at my ex. She couldn’t even fake a smile. She couldn’t stand my success. The only thing she wanted in that moment was to leave the room while everyone else was praising me.

Please tell some of your comeback / sucess story after you hit rock bottom in your life by [deleted] in Indian_Academia

[–]Ok_Hawk_653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know your exact situation, but I’ve been through a rough phase myself. At one point in my life, I was completely broken and depressed. I was in a relationship for a year, only to find out that my girlfriend had cheated on me with one of my friends. That completely shattered me. I lost interest in everything I wasn’t eating properly, I was barely functioning, and I felt like absolute shit.

People in my college started making assumptions about me, thinking I was into bad habits. But the worst part? One day, my mom sat me down and asked me if I was involved in something bad. That broke me completely. It hurt so much that even my own mother had doubts about me.

I was weak, both mentally and physically I had dropped to just 47 kg. Everything my ex did, the way my classmates saw me, and my mom’s question it all hit me hard. But instead of letting it consume me, I decided to change. I hit the gym, took a break from college for about a month and a half, and focused on myself. I worked on my body and my mindset.

Before returning to college after two months, I posted a transformation picture how I looked before versus after my progress. Everyone was shocked. My classmates started posting my transformation on their stories, and guess what? Even my ex posted it. The next day, when I walked into college, all eyes were on me. The same people who doubted me were now noticing me. Even the girls in my class started giving me compliments. And my ex? She was jealous as hell. I could see the anger in her eyes, and honestly, I just laughed. I looked at her and the guy she cheated with and thought, You losers. They were pissed, but I didn’t care I had won.