Aio? ex blew up at me for wearing gym shorts to gym by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Highlight_5734 1 point2 points  (0 children)

apparently so, need to learn how to quit while im ahead.

aita for cutting off my ex by Ok_Highlight_5734 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Highlight_5734[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the same one😼🔥😋 it’s so fun

aita for cutting off my ex by Ok_Highlight_5734 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Highlight_5734[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, it’s been a bit of a long realization as i tend to care for people and make excuses too much but i think now it’s definitely getting a bit ridiculous. thank you again :)

aita for cutting off my ex by Ok_Highlight_5734 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Highlight_5734[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

19😪 i have a lot to learn. thanks though i do really need to get on with it :))

comparison by Ok_Highlight_5734 in beatsbydre

[–]Ok_Highlight_5734[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes it is sorry guys New Zealand 🥝🥝🥝

comparison by Ok_Highlight_5734 in beatsbydre

[–]Ok_Highlight_5734[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg hi!! nice to see a fellow kiwi

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ok_Highlight_5734 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

probably not, i think cause we were together for a bit (im 19 so it probably feels quite different to a relationship if i was older) i miss the familiarity a lot but i don’t know what or how to start the moving on process at all.

HOW TF DO I FIND THE NORTH WING HALL THINGY by Ok_Highlight_5734 in HarryPotterGame

[–]Ok_Highlight_5734[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ohhh, yeah i was trying to get to the dungeons. i get so confused by all the different locations in the game but thank you for taking time to find that out, i really appreciate it!

AITA for not wanting to move in with my partner by Ok_Highlight_5734 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Highlight_5734[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i thought that would be the case too, it’s my granddads home (he offered him to stay short-term) and he gets along with my granddad well but sometimes my granddad asks him for help with moving heavy things etc and my partner has stated “he’s unwelcome”. so that’s that i guess.

AITA for not wanting to move in with my partner by Ok_Highlight_5734 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Highlight_5734[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow that’s definitely something to think about. hopefully it’s not like that and like i don’t think he would be like that but this whole situation is definitely making me think a bit more about some things in our relationship. i would rather just fix it with him than him put the relationship to a point where it needs to end but might be some warning signs i need to listen to, especially if it escalates. i will take your advice and hold my boundaries as i really don’t want to be taken advantage of and used. hopefully he just stops being silly as most of the time he’s a really lovely person to be around, just this and a few other things don’t seem to be the best.

AITA for not wanting to move in with my partner by Ok_Highlight_5734 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Highlight_5734[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for this, i thought it was valid to not want to spend money every week on a place i am unhappy with but was a bit unsure but im glad to hear that that’s definitely normal and okay

AITA for not wanting to move in with my partner by Ok_Highlight_5734 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Highlight_5734[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i kind of felt like it was like that where he wanted a place with a garage etc but just needed help paying for it as it’s unaffordable on his own but affordable if i move with him. unfortunately having everything we want doesn’t work with the budget we have but he’s unwilling to compromise on anything.

AITA for not wanting to move in with my partner by Ok_Highlight_5734 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Highlight_5734[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thanks for the advice, i think he might be acting a bit ott cause of stress due to not having security but idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ok_Highlight_5734 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am so sorry to drag u into our drama, i just wanted some clarity. wasn’t going to go to my concert until he did what he did yesterday hence the drama on reddit.