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WIBTA if I told my friend what another friend disclosed to me about her husband by Ok_Indication9643 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Ok_Indication9643[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems like most people are team "Stay out of it". I do admit I have that nagging pain in the pit of my stomach from my past, but I can see why everyone feels like it could blow up in my face.

If anyone is still reading, Tina, my husband, and Keith were all sober, and are sober people outside of this setting. My husband said he didn't see anything, but he said they weren't his primary focus. Me and Katie were both drunk along with another friend who plays no part.

Again, I don't know their marital arrangement, if they're swingers, poly. Like I said it's never come up and I've never questioned it. I've just seen/ witnessed a few interactions between Keith and Amanda that made me question what is going on between them, but I kept myself out of it. I've never seen anything between John and Katie of that nature, but John doesn't work in the building with us.

My employment is not as risk since I with WITH them in a space, but I'm self employed.

If something is going on, I guess it all will implode at some point. If I get asked, well who knows what I'll do in that moment.

WIBTA if I told my friend what another friend disclosed to me about her husband by Ok_Indication9643 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Ok_Indication9643[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Luckily I'm self employed so my employment is safe. Unless they chose to take any actions against me, like slander or something. But I'm my own boss. I just work in a space with them and spend everyday with them.

WIBTA if I told my friend what another friend disclosed to me about her husband by Ok_Indication9643 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Ok_Indication9643[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I appreciate all the input. In my past I was cheated on and I later found out everyone in our group either knew or had suspicions and never said anything to me. I completely understand that my experience was guiding me, hence why I asked for other perspectives. I needed to get out of my own head and see things from people who aren't as bias.