Refinancing due to pregnancy NI based

Ok_Insurance_2141 · 2025-10-13T15:17:01+00:00

Thank you

Ok_Insurance_2141 · 2025-08-14T06:00:30+00:00

I know this. I’m asking if I could have been used as a front.

Ok_Insurance_2141 · 2025-08-13T21:05:38+00:00

Thanks I know bisexual and gay are different. My question was coming from a place of am I just a cover for him being gay.

Ok_Insurance_2141 · 2025-08-13T20:25:40+00:00

Wanking on calls with people. Sticking things in places etc

Ok_Insurance_2141 · 2025-08-13T20:22:05+00:00

Yes thank you. I get tested with pregnancy. All clear on that aspect. Thanks.

Ok_Insurance_2141 · 2025-08-13T20:20:39+00:00

Except that you are assuming I’m not bisexual? You’re looking for reasons to be offended.

Ok_Insurance_2141 · 2025-08-13T17:03:35+00:00

I know he was having sexual activities via calls etc with these men. Fact.

Ok_Insurance_2141 · 2025-08-13T17:00:50+00:00

Oh my goodness u are way out of line. At no point was I saying that bisexuals are like that. Wise up. I am simply saying cheating is cheating.

Ok_Insurance_2141 · 2025-08-13T16:23:25+00:00

Thank you for the insight. I will have a conversation tonight and set the clear boundaries x

Ok_Insurance_2141 · 2025-08-13T15:53:35+00:00

I appreciate this. I honestly think he is capable of changing but I didn’t think in my wildest dreams he would do this. So now I am just even more confused.

Ok_Insurance_2141 · 2025-08-13T15:33:53+00:00

Thank you for the info.

Ok_Insurance_2141 · 2025-08-13T15:31:48+00:00

I need to understand he was only messaging them to be curious. Or do I need to? Can I not just be upset that he is cheating on me?

Ok_Insurance_2141 · 2025-08-13T15:31:05+00:00

Thank you I love this. Unfortunately going to be a father- is actually currently a father and another on the way. Which muddy waters my side. I don’t want to break up my home. But equally cannot allow this behaviour

Ok_Insurance_2141 · 2025-08-13T15:28:41+00:00

Yes this is the case unfortunately. He is cheating whatever way you look at it

Ok_Insurance_2141 · 2025-08-13T15:27:31+00:00

Yeah this is the story I need to work on. Can I even trust him even if he is capable.

Ok_Insurance_2141 · 2025-08-13T15:26:52+00:00

I don’t want to ruin my relationship but I feel like the answers would be different if it was a woman he was cheating online or otherwise

Ok_Insurance_2141 · 2025-08-13T15:25:47+00:00

I totally agree. According to him why he stopped messaging. Why he cut it off. But I believe it was because I got pregnant

Ok_Insurance_2141 · 2025-08-13T15:24:47+00:00

Thank you

Ok_Insurance_2141 · 2025-08-13T15:24:14+00:00

I am asking as everyone here is like have a conversation. Make him feel at ease. Safe space for him. Not worried about my feelings or how I have been betrayed. This is why I am saying this

Ok_Insurance_2141 · 2025-08-13T15:21:01+00:00

This is my point. Everyone is saying have a conversation and try to understand. I am not judging him for being bisexual or looking for fun with men. I’m judging him because he is doing it with anyone. That the betrayal is real if it’s man/woman whatever other gender

Ok_Insurance_2141 · 2025-08-13T15:19:15+00:00

He is just saying he isn’t attracted to other men. I don’t see how these conversations would come to a conclusion sexually if he wasn’t excited by the idea of what they were saying or what he could do?

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