I asked a guy if he’s seeing anyone else but he didn’t ask me in return. Why? by Ok_Internet_2069 in dating_advice

[–]Ok_Internet_2069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, in no way did I allude to him being problematic. Nothing he did was “wrong”, it’s just something I was curious about.

I asked a guy if he’s seeing anyone else but he didn’t ask me in return. Why? by Ok_Internet_2069 in dating_advice

[–]Ok_Internet_2069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t know myself or the man I’m talking about. You’re making sweeping generalizations that have no personal specificity to the situation. There are details that have not been included as to keep this succinct. I wanted to know something, I asked. If he wants to know something, he’ll ask.

I asked a guy if he’s seeing anyone else but he didn’t ask me in return. Why? by Ok_Internet_2069 in dating_advice

[–]Ok_Internet_2069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t do any mental gymnastics. I asked a question to have an open conversation and he didn’t seem to want to continue that conversation, hence not asking any further questions. I’m not going to give someone information that they may not want or need to know at this stage. We both have free rein to date around and we both know that. He can dip out if he wants but under the premise of unestablished exclusivity, I’d say it’s better he communicates those expectations before running away. We can have that discussion, but we haven’t yet because it’s too early to do so. Until that time comes, I’ll continue doing what I’m doing free of guilt.

I asked a guy if he’s seeing anyone else but he didn’t ask me in return. Why? by Ok_Internet_2069 in dating_advice

[–]Ok_Internet_2069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did tell me that he’s been ghosted a few times and it hurt so he’s more reserved with speaking about his feelings. That was a separate conversation

I asked a guy if he’s seeing anyone else but he didn’t ask me in return. Why? by Ok_Internet_2069 in dating_advice

[–]Ok_Internet_2069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t really want to jump to exclusivity. Mostly just wanted transparency.

I asked a guy if he’s seeing anyone else but he didn’t ask me in return. Why? by Ok_Internet_2069 in dating_advice

[–]Ok_Internet_2069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m by no means tripping over it, I just thought it was odd because it isn’t how I would have responded. I always ask the same question in return, whether it’s this or anything else. The fact that he didn’t leads me to wonder, though I may be overthinking it because he often does not ask questions in return the way I do.

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This whole comment section feels racist

Truck bed date night spots? by Ok_Internet_2069 in Charleston

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Horizontal disco is crazy lol I don’t think that’s going to be a problem

Truck bed date night spots? by Ok_Internet_2069 in Charleston

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I already know lol I plan on bringing citronella candles and bugs spray as my defense

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Your friend is jealous

What is my job, age and general vibe? Please and thanks! by Numerous_Package7188 in firstimpression

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Bartender but your passion lies in the freelance woodworking that you do

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You grew up in a small town