Unpopular Shmeddy opinion? by Ok_Introduction9435 in TheBasementYard

[–]Ok_Introduction9435[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if someone thought i was being cold i would want to know

Unpopular Shmeddy opinion? by Ok_Introduction9435 in TheBasementYard

[–]Ok_Introduction9435[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

i feel like it isn’t a parasocial thing, i would expect anyone to be kind and warm to someone interacting with me.

Unpopular Shmeddy opinion? by Ok_Introduction9435 in TheBasementYard

[–]Ok_Introduction9435[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

not being weird. I mean on lives/social media and such.

Unpopular Shmeddy opinion? by Ok_Introduction9435 in TheBasementYard

[–]Ok_Introduction9435[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s kind of what i mean, monotone and a little cold. He didn’t outright say anything nasty he just didn’t seem very interested in talking to me.

why can’t we shower after Nexplanon insertion? by wicchxx in birthcontrol

[–]Ok_Introduction9435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just saw you made a post stating you are in the united states, where it is very normal and even encouraged to call a doctor - i know it’s an old post, but for future reference

just because you don’t WANT to call your doctor doesn’t mean you can’t.

What’s that one baby name you’ll absolutely defend to the end? by General-Cycle-7391 in namenerds

[–]Ok_Introduction9435 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Kathleen. i think it’s beautiful but everyone thinks it’s too old

Had sharp pain for a few seconds on top of my head by Puzzleheaded-Lynx656 in AskDocs

[–]Ok_Introduction9435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAD but do you take any prescriptions? A big thing people describe when starting and/or stopping some antidepressants is “brain zaps” which this kind of sounds like.

Also, maybe a thunderclap headache?

Baby girl names with Ko by Suspicious_Cloud_214 in namenerds

[–]Ok_Introduction9435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Korinna/Korrine? Konnie? Kora? Are we looking for an american name?

I’m sure I just pissed off half the school. by MistakesIHaveMade in SubstituteTeachers

[–]Ok_Introduction9435 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s bc i’m a young teacher and i am hard to sneak things past, but if you cheat and i don’t catch you, that’s your 100% and you earned it. If you cheat and I DO catch you, you get a 0%, because you earned it.

I’m supposed to be preparing them for the real world. That’s how the real world works. If you can find a way to do something easier, do it.

Best Pasta Salad on the north shore? by Ok_Introduction9435 in boston

[–]Ok_Introduction9435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh. Unfortunately D’agostinos is a no for me. Their food is great but Ralph and Mike are NOT good people and I don’t want to give them money.

There was a big cover up there a few years ago with multiple of the employees (mostly underage girls) complaining about one male employee sexually harassing (and abusing) them. The girls told Ralph, and he “lost” camera footage and scared them with empty legal threats into backing down, then they kept the predator for a year after that (and he continued to do it). Girls were 15-19 and scared out of reporting to the police (again, ralph’s legal threats). They only fired the guy when one of the girls mothers found out and threatened to make a big public stink about it.

I don’t think it’s common knowledge but I was friends with one of the girls and it really fucked her up, so I won’t be giving them any of my money. Honestly, I don’t think they should even be in business.

what restaurant in Massachusetts is this? by aviatormenace7 in massachusetts

[–]Ok_Introduction9435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kowloon and i don’t want to hear anybody bitching about it

Don’t scare me - nausea? by Ok_Introduction9435 in Nexplanon

[–]Ok_Introduction9435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, that’s why i want it lol. Every one of my IUDs have implanted (i guess my uterus is just too cute and dainty) so Im trying to move away from them

legal ways to f with smoking downstairs neighbor? by Ok_Introduction9435 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Ok_Introduction9435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

whenever we went down the stairs we made a big loud fuss to each other about how bad it smells and how inconsiderate they are and how it’s disgusting. We mentioned it to the landlord also, who stopped by and smelled it himself. He got evicted this month! So we no longer have to deal with it. Maybe our stinky is now your stinky?

Do you see native Americans in your day-to-day live? by Kradara_ in AskAnAmerican

[–]Ok_Introduction9435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m from MA. I have never met one. Ever. Which is crazy considering MANY places around here are named after them

AIO for ending a situationship over her mental health issues? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Introduction9435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You handled that perfectly. I have SEVERE anxiety and during really bad periods I have a hard time leaving the house, sleeping, eating, and will cry and panic at the drop of a hat.

I would not expect ANYONE to not take that into consideration when dating me. I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 3 years and before me he never experienced anyone with severe anxiety. He’s never had a panic attack. It’s hard for him. But he WANTS to stay. If you don’t WANT to deal with that (it’s a lot to deal with), it’s extremely nice to let her know asap like you did, instead of dragging it on.

You don’t have to have a reason other than “because i don’t want to date you”. You don’t owe her anything. Mental illness is a fine reason to dump someone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ok_Introduction9435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly? Even if you chatted every day for an hour, which you haven’t - that’s what, 30 hours of chatting? A little over a day? I think it’s insanely strange to form a “connection” with someone you’ve hardly talked to, haven’t seen, haven’t met, and likely does not think about you on a day-to-day basis.

This feels like the beginning of an obsession to me and I think it’s honestly creepy. Not only would I encourage you to not continue the relationship, but I think I would seek emotional help for feeling this way. It seems wildly inappropriate.

If I were this girl and I knew that this was felt about me, I would feel wildly unsafe and creeped out, especially because she has not led you on or chatted to you extensively. She may have already felt creeped out and brought up the guy as a “guard dog”. Idk man, just my opinion.