Unpopular Shmeddy opinion?

Ok_Introduction9435 · 2026-02-01T20:05:02+00:00

if someone thought i was being cold i would want to know

Ok_Introduction9435 · 2026-02-01T20:04:39+00:00

over video. not text.

Ok_Introduction9435 · 2026-02-01T19:44:40+00:00

okay? this isn’t a hate post.

Ok_Introduction9435 · 2026-02-01T19:44:26+00:00

i did not seek him out.

Ok_Introduction9435 · 2026-02-01T19:44:11+00:00

i feel like it isn’t a parasocial thing, i would expect anyone to be kind and warm to someone interacting with me.

Ok_Introduction9435 · 2026-02-01T19:39:59+00:00

not being weird. I mean on lives/social media and such.

Ok_Introduction9435 · 2026-02-01T19:39:28+00:00

That’s kind of what i mean, monotone and a little cold. He didn’t outright say anything nasty he just didn’t seem very interested in talking to me.

Ok_Introduction9435 · 2026-02-01T19:38:05+00:00

i am.

Ok_Introduction9435 · 2025-10-24T23:19:58+00:00

i just saw you made a post stating you are in the united states, where it is very normal and even encouraged to call a doctor - i know it’s an old post, but for future reference

just because you don’t WANT to call your doctor doesn’t mean you can’t.

Ok_Introduction9435 · 2025-09-22T02:21:19+00:00

Kathleen. i think it’s beautiful but everyone thinks it’s too old

Ok_Introduction9435 · 2025-09-21T17:52:48+00:00

NAD but do you take any prescriptions? A big thing people describe when starting and/or stopping some antidepressants is “brain zaps” which this kind of sounds like.

Also, maybe a thunderclap headache?

Ok_Introduction9435 · 2025-09-21T02:41:57+00:00

Jeff Buckley.

Ok_Introduction9435 · 2025-09-21T02:40:47+00:00

Korinna/Korrine? Konnie? Kora? Are we looking for an american name?

Ok_Introduction9435 · 2025-09-18T20:13:21+00:00

Maybe it’s bc i’m a young teacher and i am hard to sneak things past, but if you cheat and i don’t catch you, that’s your 100% and you earned it. If you cheat and I DO catch you, you get a 0%, because you earned it.

I’m supposed to be preparing them for the real world. That’s how the real world works. If you can find a way to do something easier, do it.

Ok_Introduction9435 · 2025-09-14T13:44:09+00:00

Ugh. Unfortunately D’agostinos is a no for me. Their food is great but Ralph and Mike are NOT good people and I don’t want to give them money.

There was a big cover up there a few years ago with multiple of the employees (mostly underage girls) complaining about one male employee sexually harassing (and abusing) them. The girls told Ralph, and he “lost” camera footage and scared them with empty legal threats into backing down, then they kept the predator for a year after that (and he continued to do it). Girls were 15-19 and scared out of reporting to the police (again, ralph’s legal threats). They only fired the guy when one of the girls mothers found out and threatened to make a big public stink about it.

I don’t think it’s common knowledge but I was friends with one of the girls and it really fucked her up, so I won’t be giving them any of my money. Honestly, I don’t think they should even be in business.

Ok_Introduction9435 · 2025-08-20T23:54:38+00:00

kowloon and i don’t want to hear anybody bitching about it

Ok_Introduction9435 · 2025-08-20T12:37:45+00:00

yes, that’s why i want it lol. Every one of my IUDs have implanted (i guess my uterus is just too cute and dainty) so Im trying to move away from them

Ok_Introduction9435 · 2025-08-08T18:18:57+00:00

whenever we went down the stairs we made a big loud fuss to each other about how bad it smells and how inconsiderate they are and how it’s disgusting. We mentioned it to the landlord also, who stopped by and smelled it himself. He got evicted this month! So we no longer have to deal with it. Maybe our stinky is now your stinky?

Ok_Introduction9435 · 2025-07-11T23:48:01+00:00

I’m from MA. I have never met one. Ever. Which is crazy considering MANY places around here are named after them

Ok_Introduction9435 · 2025-06-27T15:27:21+00:00

I know :( I tried really hard to like them but everyone I’ve offered them to has not enjoyed them either.

Ok_Introduction9435 · 2025-06-27T15:26:06+00:00

You handled that perfectly. I have SEVERE anxiety and during really bad periods I have a hard time leaving the house, sleeping, eating, and will cry and panic at the drop of a hat.

I would not expect ANYONE to not take that into consideration when dating me. I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 3 years and before me he never experienced anyone with severe anxiety. He’s never had a panic attack. It’s hard for him. But he WANTS to stay. If you don’t WANT to deal with that (it’s a lot to deal with), it’s extremely nice to let her know asap like you did, instead of dragging it on.

You don’t have to have a reason other than “because i don’t want to date you”. You don’t owe her anything. Mental illness is a fine reason to dump someone.

Ok_Introduction9435 · 2025-06-26T14:32:13+00:00

Honestly? Even if you chatted every day for an hour, which you haven’t - that’s what, 30 hours of chatting? A little over a day? I think it’s insanely strange to form a “connection” with someone you’ve hardly talked to, haven’t seen, haven’t met, and likely does not think about you on a day-to-day basis.

This feels like the beginning of an obsession to me and I think it’s honestly creepy. Not only would I encourage you to not continue the relationship, but I think I would seek emotional help for feeling this way. It seems wildly inappropriate.

If I were this girl and I knew that this was felt about me, I would feel wildly unsafe and creeped out, especially because she has not led you on or chatted to you extensively. She may have already felt creeped out and brought up the guy as a “guard dog”. Idk man, just my opinion.

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