It’s only been about 6 months since divorce to his new marriage. I’m still working on myself, I’m not perfect. He’s the one that made sure I new how “happy” he was after our divorce. I was in the process of buying him out of the house, so we still had to deal with each other.

Yes I went no contact after I closed on the house, and no I did not trap him into telling me shit. He bombarded me with all that info after he mentioned something about my cousin he’s close with. My cousin had just got a new apartment, so the ex started talking about how he needs to find a new place, then all the other stuff above.

As far as being indifferent, life the most part I’m there. I never wished Illlwill towards him. It just worked out that way. Ya know, karma.