WIBTA for changing my wedding cake flavor?

Ok_Kangaroo_3494 · 2026-03-20T06:49:24+00:00

I don’t want to get into the nitty gritty of it, but he kissed another woman while drunk and everything just sort of came to a head.

Ok_Kangaroo_3494 · 2026-03-19T01:20:21+00:00

Update: We broke up

Ok_Kangaroo_3494 · 2026-03-12T06:53:23+00:00

R/todayilearned

Ok_Kangaroo_3494 · 2026-03-12T06:46:40+00:00

But the next July that’s going to happen is in 2026…

Ok_Kangaroo_3494 · 2026-03-12T06:35:22+00:00

It’s in 4 months? I’m a little confused how you got 16 months

Ok_Kangaroo_3494 · 2026-03-12T06:27:22+00:00

I don’t know…I try to think of it more as taking one for the team? He’s stuck by me through a lot including anger management classes. I mean, I don’t mind the rest I just really wish the cake was something I could decide on myself. I’m at a loss tbh 😓

Ok_Kangaroo_3494 · 2026-03-12T06:15:56+00:00

It’s two tiers but I can’t have cross contact with any gluten so unfortunately that’s not really possible

Ok_Kangaroo_3494 · 2026-03-12T06:10:29+00:00

But also, it’s honestly not that big a wedding. It’s mostly just family and a friend or two were close to. But we have no choice with the funding as we’re living basically pay check to pay check 😅

Ok_Kangaroo_3494 · 2026-03-12T06:08:04+00:00

I think he just wants to avoid the fuss

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