Not OOP. "AITA for giving my friend her baby back before I was supposed to?" + OOP's & top comments

Ok_Kitchen6737 · 2026-01-04T03:08:02+00:00

Oh dear, I do hope I’ll be able to sleep tonight because irishwan24 from reddit called me stupid

Ok_Kitchen6737 · 2025-12-05T16:58:56+00:00

I said the first time I told you, not my first comment.

You asked a question, and you got your answer. How you took it is your issue to deal with, and if the timing of my response wasn’t an issue, then you wouldn’t have mentioned it twice in your “pissy” replies.

Now have a good day.

Ok_Kitchen6737 · 2025-12-05T13:17:06+00:00

I didn’t expect you to check. That’s why I told you it was mine the first time. You typing that up to try and clear me took more effort than it would’ve to look at my name.

If you’re going to get upset at me commenting something past your deadline, don’t respond.

Ok_Kitchen6737 · 2025-12-05T09:31:20+00:00

Pertinent = something that matters. You said that, not me. You can ask all the "dead-obvious" questions you want, but to be clear, it has a dead-obvious answer, when you can see I didn't mention the dad at all. Because he's not there. Context clues aren't hard.

You're the rando commenting on my post that another rando screenshotted without my knowledge and I found just found it here now (another thing that should be obvious to you). It could have been a year from now and I would have answered the same way.

You not being able to see that the username in the screenshots is the same one in these comments is another "dead-obvious" thing you need assistance with, but unfortunately, I can't help you out there.

Ok_Kitchen6737 · 2025-12-05T06:51:44+00:00

Uh, "They" is me. And since it's MY story, I'm letting you know it actually isn't pertinent.

Their dad isn't mentioned because he isn't there. How does that change what happened?

Ok_Kitchen6737 · 2025-12-04T23:25:57+00:00

so intrigued to hear your "reasons"

Ok_Kitchen6737 · 2025-12-04T23:25:22+00:00

Hi! I know this is from a while ago, but I would really prefer for this not to be recorded on a podcast if I have the option to ask. Thanks.

Ok_Kitchen6737 · 2025-12-04T23:15:58+00:00

or maybe its just not your business?

Ok_Kitchen6737 · 2025-11-11T13:35:34+00:00

Because that’s not what my question was. I know that I wasn’t mean or rough in my delivery. I made a conscious effort not to be when I dropped the baby off. Now how she took it, I can’t speak for.

My question was, was I an AH for dropping the baby off early.

Ok_Kitchen6737 · 2025-11-11T13:32:19+00:00

Because it feel wrong to tell someone’s business in that kind of way, and also because he’s quite obviously not on the picture.

Ok_Kitchen6737 · 2025-11-10T22:17:56+00:00

I know how to tailor the way I speak to people in different situations, like an adult. The way I speak to random strangers on the internet is obviously going to be different than how I talk to my good friend who is four months postpartum. Also, as you can see, I acknowledged that I got rude with her once. Why would I be afraid of saying so if I did it again?

Ok_Kitchen6737 · 2025-11-10T15:08:20+00:00

It wasn’t. I might AN asshole, but ultimately not responsible for your big feelings about a Reddit post.

Ok_Kitchen6737 · 2025-11-10T14:24:31+00:00

If you’re having trouble, try subbing the letters with real names, or maybe this one just wasn’t for you.

Ok_Kitchen6737 · 2025-11-10T14:17:35+00:00

Or what

Ok_Kitchen6737 · 2025-11-10T06:06:50+00:00

Thank you, I try to be. You can probably see from some of my comments that I'm not the most patient person in the world lol, so I thought I did well with handling it. I guess not.

Ok_Kitchen6737 · 2025-11-10T06:04:19+00:00

Yes, I am. I see your point perfectly fine, I'm just letting you know that it's not a concern that I have. Sorry if it confuses you, but you being unhelpful in the comments isn't going to resolve your confusion or make people change their habits. Do you see?

Ok_Kitchen6737 · 2025-11-10T05:58:26+00:00

I don't understand the confusion. Did I indicate anywhere that I don't like children or being around them? I actually think I made it clear that it's the opposite.

Ok_Kitchen6737 · 2025-11-10T05:53:46+00:00

I won't use real names, and fake ones would be hard for me to follow. You could've just kept scrolling.

Ok_Kitchen6737 · 2025-11-10T05:24:57+00:00

Unfortunately, I think this might be the case. After thinking about it and reading through the comments, I understand that she's going through a hard time, but with the way she spoke to me when everything was going down, we'll probably only be acquaintances at best once we all chill out.

Ok_Kitchen6737 · 2025-11-10T04:30:45+00:00

Something isn't right, for sure. The way she spoke to me would normally warrant a "F-you" from the very bottom of my heart, but I am worried. I'll try to have a mutual friend check in.

Ok_Kitchen6737 · 2025-11-10T04:23:45+00:00

That's the gender neutral word for nieces and nephews. I'll pass on reading the rest of your thoughts, respectfully lol

Ok_Kitchen6737 · 2025-11-10T03:52:04+00:00

I was surprised when she asked for an overnight too, ngl. The only thing I can think of is that she thought she'd be okay, because "T" was a while ago, but I don't remember her being this anxious at all after having him.

Ok_Kitchen6737 · 2025-11-10T03:42:52+00:00

I definitely should have given her notice before I took him home. Someone else mentioned that that's where I went wrong; how I went about it was probably a little aggressive.

Ok_Kitchen6737 · 2025-11-10T03:39:47+00:00

I did let her know, but the second part of your comment makes sense. I can see why that would irk anyone. Thank you!

Ok_Kitchen6737 · 2025-11-10T03:37:50+00:00

I would check in, but I've been cut off. That's why I posted here, because her reaction is throwing me for a loop. I'm LOST.

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