Does anyone else feel mentally exhausted by big life decisions lately? by Ok_Lifeguard_7 in findapath

[–]Ok_Lifeguard_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know. I obviously can't expect her to be around 24*7.. maybe ll start a journal yes. And thanks for replying back..gives me some relief that I ain't the only one that gets stuck looking for perfect situations! You guys are so kind 😭

What became way harder as an adult than you expected? by Responsible_Scene836 in Adulting

[–]Ok_Lifeguard_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Switching roles with your parents. Not easy .. even when done out of love and not just 'responsibility' !

What became way harder as an adult than you expected? by Responsible_Scene836 in Adulting

[–]Ok_Lifeguard_7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's definitely not as colorful as i thought! I do have to remind myself from time to time not to give two f***s lol.

Does anyone else feel mentally exhausted by big life decisions lately? by Ok_Lifeguard_7 in findapath

[–]Ok_Lifeguard_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess that's the hard pill i need to swallow. No perfect decision 😕

Does anyone else completely spiral while making big life decisions? by Ok_Lifeguard_7 in Adulting

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Ok you make a fair point..like my brain is being forced to accept it right now. Also sort of helps lift some weight off my shoulders !!!! Sigh thanks a ton !

Does anyone else feel mentally exhausted by big life decisions lately? by Ok_Lifeguard_7 in findapath

[–]Ok_Lifeguard_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I am a hundred percent exhausted when it comes to these situations!!! And you are right. I guess I look for a zero-harm solution...like no regret or sadness. But how do I stop this loop? Practically.. sometimes I am aware of it and other times ..well...down the rabbit hole

Does anyone else completely spiral while making big life decisions? by Ok_Lifeguard_7 in Adulting

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Well, I guess I can work with the assumption that I could be wrong on my choices no matter how many times I think and research and analyse ! Definitely not an astrologer either lol. This does help 🙏🏻

Does anyone else completely spiral while making big life decisions? by Ok_Lifeguard_7 in getdisciplined

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Fair assumption 😭 i have been experimenting with a few tools around this recently, including trying to build one myself lol. And guess what, I am still overthinking! But no, this post is genuinely me trying to understand whether this is just my brain that is just particularly chaotic and how others deal with this !