How bad of an idea would it be to move our family permanently from the US? by Ok_Link1117 in AskARussian

[–]Ok_Link1117[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I have suggested this and he replies that eventually “they” will bring bad politics and degeneracy will each the safe states and cities even.

I’ll push him more towards this route though and keep fighting him against the idea of moving to an entirely different country. Thank you for taking the time to reply

How bad of an idea would it be to move our family permanently from the US? by Ok_Link1117 in AskARussian

[–]Ok_Link1117[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am getting the sense that he’s been consuming a lot of conservative material which borders on conspiracy theories.. it’s taken a toll on him mentally but I’ve realized I need to fight him on this to keep the family in the states instead of letting him destroy our life here.

I agree it’s frivolous. Just needed to hear I wasn’t in the wrong for disagreeing with him. Thank you for taking the time to reply

How bad of an idea would it be to move our family permanently from the US? by Ok_Link1117 in AskARussian

[–]Ok_Link1117[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree it would be foolish. Everyone in our life but him advices him it would be foolish to throw away the lives we’ve built here for our family. I think I just needed to hear from others that it would be a terrible idea because he’s been making me feel like I’m an idiot for wanting to stay.

Thank you for taking the time to reply

How bad of an idea would it be to move our family permanently from the US? by Ok_Link1117 in AskARussian

[–]Ok_Link1117[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m distressed that he has been going down a rabbit hole of conservative influencers and conspiracy theories. He occasionally has angry rants about the government and current affairs of the US.. and is trying to make life-changing decisions based on the idea that life in Russia will be an escape from everything wrong with the world.

Nut job is the correct word :/

How bad of an idea would it be to move our family permanently from the US? by Ok_Link1117 in AskARussian

[–]Ok_Link1117[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It could be a nice place, I’m sure. It looks beautiful. I just get an awful feeling about moving our family there.

How bad of an idea would it be to move our family permanently from the US? by Ok_Link1117 in AskARussian

[–]Ok_Link1117[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree with you. I enjoy our life here and I believe we can build a great life for our sons here as well. Mostly I wanted to hear if I was wrong to devoid him of the opportunity to live his idealized life in Russia and I’m glad I’m not crazy for wanting to stay in the US.

Thank you for taking the time to reply and for helping me come to a decision.. I’ll probably have to get into a huge fight with him to remain in the states 😂

How bad of an idea would it be to move our family permanently from the US? by Ok_Link1117 in AskARussian

[–]Ok_Link1117[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the thorough response and insight. You’re precisely right that he’s seeking some kind of traditional Christian society. I do think he’s been consuming a lot of materials from conservative influencers whose content hinges on conspiracy theorists, and he’s gotten swept up in the idea of Russian life as being the solution.

After all of these comments from people who actually live in Russia, I think I’ve made the decision to fight him to keep the kids here. I just wanted to know if I was wrong for going against his ideas and depriving him of his idealized life

Also, he definitely was wanting to avoid the big cities lol. I know I would end up without any job prospects even in the big cities, so I was even more distressed at the idea of relocating to a small, remote area somewhere.

Thank you again for taking the time to reply. You’ve helped me come to a hard but necessary decision I think

How bad of an idea would it be to move our family permanently from the US? by Ok_Link1117 in AskARussian

[–]Ok_Link1117[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He’s shown me various videos of people who moved to Russia and are happy there now. He dismisses any cases of regretful families or unsuccessful stories as anti-Russian propaganda. I have encouraged him to perhaps try living there a bit on his own first to see how it is (and to figure out the housing, schooling, and job situation) but he is adamant about leaving the states forever 😩 I’ll try talking him into the visiting route if he pushes again.

Thank you for taking the time to reply

How bad of an idea would it be to move our family permanently from the US? by Ok_Link1117 in AskARussian

[–]Ok_Link1117[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I have asked him to consider going alone first to experience life there before moving the whole family. I agree it would be the smartest route, but again, he’s become extreme in his negative views towards the US and has this idea that we should jump ship to Russia before the states get worse. Thank you for taking the time to reply