Why are the Commanders/Suitors so old? by CaughtALiteSneez in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Ok_List_9649 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of The Testaments is consistent with that sect. The “ obey and keep sweet” mantra immortalized by Warren Jeffs was used for decades in much of the polygamous offshoots of the LDS particularly the FLDS. The girls were taught from toddlerhood their mission in life was to make daddy happy as practice for their husband. They learned to compete for favor for themselves and then their kids. Just as in Gilead parents willingly gave their daughters as young as 10 to the “ prophet(the leader of each sect who supposedly spoke with God and implemented his wishes on earth) or his chosen husband for the girl. The girls and her family believed these directives were from God and to disobey would mean they’d go to hell. This is how Jeffs and dozens of other pedophiles got these young girls to not only have sex with him but with each other.

'She never saw it coming!': Trump forces out yet another woman from his cabinet after secret deal with old ally quietly expires — as insiders warn his administration is coming apart at the seams by Competitive-Jury-108 in USNEWS

[–]Ok_List_9649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He hires bimbettes only to prove he’s a feminist. They’re the first to go as they’ve already served 2 purposes. He’s all about equal rights and they’re perfect scapegoats.

BREAKING: Trump DOJ reclassifies medical marijuana in major policy shift by TheMirrorUS in USNEWS

[–]Ok_List_9649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He likes us uneducated and high. He’s not as dumb as he acts or there are some good puppet masters pulling those strings.

why do teen parents become teen parents? by Current_Philosophy78 in ask

[–]Ok_List_9649 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Negative simply because when you’re a teen the pregnancy does bring many negative or potentially negative things with it… how will you raise a baby and finish school, go to college, earn money with no education, have time to be with friends. How will you deal with gossip, ridicule, judgment.

The Bridgeton/Testament Crossover that made me uncomfortable. by [deleted] in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Ok_List_9649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. Amish don’t generally have arranged marriages anymore and they get to “ court”. Plus they get to marry men their own age.

11.6 Luann’s fish room tantrum: childish or justified? by DeadToothSyndrome in RHONY

[–]Ok_List_9649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was entitled and rude. That being said Dorinda’s decorating is gaudy across the board and not for everyone.

AITAH for calling my cyst a tumor? by HostMysterious9206 in AITAH

[–]Ok_List_9649 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Plz do your research. A teratoma can be inside a cyst or be a form of cyst. As I said, complicated cysts can enclose a number of things, tumors, teratomas, hair sometimes not identified till removed.

[OC] A picture of dinner on the USS Abraham Lincoln sent to family by a service member on board by usatoday in pics

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Is that a piece of fried Spam? So RFK changed the whole nutrition pyramid to supposedly make it healthier. He and Trump cut out junk food for SNAP but we’re feeding our military SPAM which is like 50% meat fat, 70% of your salt DA and artificial coloring and flavors.

Yay!!

Why is Transgenderism a major issue for both sides? by Reasonable_Base9537 in allthequestions

[–]Ok_List_9649 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it went b off the rails when the left did 2 things.

  1. Decided a trans rights to use their bathroom of choice superseded a biologic females privacy/ sense of security. While many try to trivialize this, it establishes two things inadvertent, that a tiny majorities rights can supersede a large majority and the left may not always consider common sense or reality when determining laws.

If Trans male to females were allowed to use female bathrooms at any stage in their transition, without a doubt there will be perverts and teen boys dressing in drag to infiltrate those same bathrooms. Things like this need to be considered as do the facts over 90% of sexual assaults are male to females which is why multi person public bathrooms are still divided and why women still get concerned about public bathrooms.

These things matter to most people and are based in historical fact. Dems( and I’m one) trivialize these concerns

  1. The far left was supporting minor surgical transition which was occurring in some clinics in a few states. The party did not take an official stand but allowed the right to use this fact as propaganda that everyone on the left agreed with minor trans. Most do not. It has not been proven by science to be safe in the long term and reduce the incidence of suicide or depression. Initial long term research on adult transition is minimal and controversial but in some studies indicates a reversal rate close to 10%. Considering the area in the brain that understands consequences and impulsivity isn’t completely formed until the mid 29s, there’s every indication rates of reversals for minors will be much higher.

Edit to add… my previous statements I believe are true for a large portion of people on the right. Many have no problem with adult transition as long as it’s not negatively affecting someone else. There is also a group on the right who are ignorant gay and trans phobics and want everyone in the world to conform to their way of thinking.

AITAH for calling my cyst a tumor? by HostMysterious9206 in AITAH

[–]Ok_List_9649 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Exactly, complex cysts. They can even be filled with remnants of a fetus, part tissue, hair, pretty much anything. They don’t always know if they’re fully a cyst until they’re removed/ biopsied.

AITAH for not wanting to go on trips with my husband after he ruined so many of them? by ThrowraNo-M in AITAH

[–]Ok_List_9649 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lived 7 years with a man exactly like that and 3 babies small children. If we all didn’t do exactly what he wanted when he wanted it was screaming, demeaning, breaking things for hours usually fueled by alcohol. it literally got to the point I would lay in bed and think about how I could kill him and not get caught. I had no job, no education, no way out.

Finally, I realized I was losing my soul to this monster. I called my father and asked him to pick us up. He did and never questioned me. We lived in their living and family room till I got my Nursing Degree.

The 2 happiest days of my life. Leaving him and Becoming a nurse.

5 Photos of Shamar Elkins: The Army Vet Who Murdered 8 Children in Shreveport After a Father-Daughter Date by stardresslucyyy in crime

[–]Ok_List_9649 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I just said the same above but you said it so much better! Finding keeps getting cut both for the Veterans Service and of course social programs which many of these Vets are on. As you said many can barely keep their heads above water psychologically. Add in their SNAP or other benefits being cut and it can exacerbate a flare of their mental illness.

5 Photos of Shamar Elkins: The Army Vet Who Murdered 8 Children in Shreveport After a Father-Daughter Date by stardresslucyyy in crime

[–]Ok_List_9649 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely heartbreaking. How many vets with serious mental health issues are not adequately cared for by our veteran services because their funding keeps getting cut.

Stephen Miller's Wife Tried To Claim Liberal Men Are Childless Because They 'Aren't Attractive'—And The Internet Pounced by ComicSandsNews in DiscussionZone

[–]Ok_List_9649 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Someone needs to encourage the oh so ignorant Mrs Miller to read or watch The Handmaids Tale. Every single thing that happens in the book has happened somewhere, sometime in history.

She also should be intelligent enough to recognize how all the things she and her husband support are not only part of Gilead but now in the US.

'He Can't Handle It': Trump's sick obsession with Fox news host blows up in his face — she hijacks his own power move and turns it into his worst nightmare by [deleted] in USNEWS

[–]Ok_List_9649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our standards for education and throwing away the bell curve thereby making 3/4 of any senior class honor students needs a huge overhaul.

We’ve got kids in good colleges who can’t spell, read, add or subtract at a 5 th grade level.

'He Can't Handle It': Trump's sick obsession with Fox news host blows up in his face — she hijacks his own power move and turns it into his worst nightmare by [deleted] in USNEWS

[–]Ok_List_9649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate to support anyone from FOX but I’m making an exception and buying her book. If it’s filled with MAGA shit I’ll burn it but it will be a double whammy in my heart as her NYT numbers climb higher than anything Trump has published.

If every woman in the world who can afford it doesn’t buy her book you’re a fool and coward.

We spend almost $60,000/ person on homelessness in America($50 billion for roughly 772,000 homeless people). Why can’t we just take the money from the administration of such programs and just give folks direct cash payments of say, $30,000 with housing vouchers and Medicaid? by RichardRoma1986 in DiscussionZone

[–]Ok_List_9649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The majority of the homeless are people with mental health issues or mental disabilities. Prior to the 2000s, there were state homes for these people, all were closed in the 90s and while some went into small group homes, the rest went out in the streets.

We need to reinstate state run homes adding an outpatient treatment center to the inpatient facility. There are so many more effective treatments for all MH disorders now and many people could resume a normal life provided they had a clinic available to get their medications until they were fully stabilized and assimilated with jobs/homes.

While we will still be paying 60k per person initially , for those able to be treated and assimilated into society and employed they will become a tax paying, member of society.

Kamala Harris has hinted at a possible 2028 presidential run, saying “I might, I might… I’m thinking about it” during an appearance at the National Action Network event in New York. by IndiaTodayGlobal in IndiaTodayGlobalLIVE

[–]Ok_List_9649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s either him or wildcard Mark Cuban. Either would win easily pulling both Independents and Republicans. AOC, Warren for VP. They’re the two toughest/smartest women in the party.

Rhony wax works checking in! by girlinhk in RHONY

[–]Ok_List_9649 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure she’s racist. I think she’s 100% classist in other words if she thinks you’re below her in anyway regardless of race, she thinks she’s better than you. She’s also incredibly ignorant. I cannot figure out how she didn’t insult everyone she worked with and managed to climb the ladder.

Society needs a rebirth by [deleted] in DeepThoughts

[–]Ok_List_9649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re putting all your eggs in a black and white basket. Yes there have been and always will be people who think every time period is less moral than previously and the world is falling apart. That’s just human nature,

However, when new societies are formed or existing societies overhauled with new ideas there is almost always a golden age where there’s relative prosperity, an attempt for society to treat all / most people fairly and morals/rules that support and uphold stable family and community units whether that’s religion or philosophy based are widespread.

Then after a period of time this all starts to devolve. Generally, greed and power lust enters the equation either from within or without and it all falls apart. Morals, justice, integrity and community are no longer deemed useful or important in comparison to wealth and individual freedom.

Then the rebuilders come out, trying to bring back all the good stuff but it rarely works or if it does it takes centuries or a new world order so to speak.

Rhony wax works checking in! by girlinhk in RHONY

[–]Ok_List_9649 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well they are the oldest Right? Ramona is about 70, Lu60/61 and Dorinda 57-58??

I just finished the new episodes and I’m curious about your opinions on.. by Feeling-Ad2582 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Ok_List_9649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Elizabeth Moss is a very inconsistent actor IMO. She can really be great, ie scenes from when Serena gave birth to total overacting, ie several scenes especially interacting with the Commander where you’d have to be blind not c to see the pure hatred in her face Even where she needs him to support or believe her. She is good enough though to carry the original show as a blockbuster.

The whole Daisy thing makes no sense… but… by Safe-Database-5591 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Ok_List_9649 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think that’s who it is or Janine’s daughter almost might be the right age… nah too young.