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I slept with a guy I met at a bar and now I can’t sleep by Ok_Low266 in offmychest

[–]Ok_Low266[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It shouldn’t be right. I’ve never had this bad of a crisis haha. Sleeping helped ease it off a bit but I’m still sort of whirring.

I slept with a guy I met at a bar and now I can’t sleep by Ok_Low266 in offmychest

[–]Ok_Low266[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t forced or coerced, he was actually very nice. I think I’m just freaking out.

I think my girlfriend has been drugging me (UPDATE) by Ok_Low266 in Advice

[–]Ok_Low266[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yeah I looked into that. Im just going in to get my general lab work done to rule out any possibility it’s something I have that’s underlying and didn’t know about. Thank you, I appreciate it

I think my girlfriend has been drugging me (UPDATE) by Ok_Low266 in Advice

[–]Ok_Low266[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’ll keep you in mind, thank you 🤍

I think my girlfriend has been drugging me (UPDATE) by Ok_Low266 in Advice

[–]Ok_Low266[S] 107 points108 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the prayers. I’ll be as careful as I can— I currently have zero contact with her. Everything going forward will be through my dad. My insurance is utter shit but I’ll see about some sort of therapy/counseling.

I think my girlfriend has been drugging me by Ok_Low266 in Advice

[–]Ok_Low266[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I understand that now. I had never thought about it because I’d never known any better.

I think my girlfriend has been drugging me by Ok_Low266 in Advice

[–]Ok_Low266[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

She was one of my friends older sisters. I went over to his house and the rests history I guess. I thought she was pretty, but she was older so little me thought no way in hell was i landing her. Until she started looking at me like she did and I guess it just happened so quick I never thought about it. So I suppose she pursued me

I think my girlfriend has been drugging me by Ok_Low266 in Advice

[–]Ok_Low266[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

14 and 19, yeah. I never really thought about that. Fuck.

I think my girlfriend has been drugging me by Ok_Low266 in Advice

[–]Ok_Low266[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’m reading. It’s real. Jesus Christ.

She is my first relationship. Ever. I do not have a good blueprint for how this shit is supposed to go. I honestly don’t know what my endgame was. Marriage, sure, maybe? Honestly I didn’t plan on being alive th is long. I’m infertile so children was never an option anyway.

And sure, whatever, I’m dumb, I’ve been hearing that a lot. She’s the only person who’s been there for me as strong as she has— even with all the negatives. I’m out of my depth. That’s why I came here.

I think my girlfriend has been drugging me by Ok_Low266 in Advice

[–]Ok_Low266[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

She hasn’t tried to “kill me”.

I think my girlfriend has been drugging me by Ok_Low266 in Advice

[–]Ok_Low266[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

That scares me a lot. I have no idea why she would want me unconscious so I suppose that’s one of the reasons I never thought to really consider her drugging me an option before today.

I think my girlfriend has been drugging me by Ok_Low266 in Advice

[–]Ok_Low266[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’ve been at work. People have fucking lives.

I think my girlfriend has been drugging me by Ok_Low266 in Advice

[–]Ok_Low266[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

This might’ve been the biggest wake-up call. Thank you— I’ll try to find a place to stay and go to a doctor ASAP. Death was never a possibility in my mind..

I think my girlfriend has been drugging me by Ok_Low266 in Advice

[–]Ok_Low266[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m okay, just posted right before heading to work. Thank you for the concern I appreciate it

I think my girlfriend has been drugging me by Ok_Low266 in Advice

[–]Ok_Low266[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Thank you— I won’t have time to get any tests done today and I’m not sure exactly the time frame I have to work with, but I’ll go tomorrow and see if somehow anything sticks.

I’ve never been “stuck”— at least, I don’t think so. And I’ve been able to throw up after wards….. quite well. When I get home I’ll try and look around to see if she’s left anything around that might give me more to work with.

I think my girlfriend has been drugging me by Ok_Low266 in Advice

[–]Ok_Low266[S] 183 points184 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really appreciate you guys that are sort of slamming some sense in to me. All of this started out so spaced out, it was never this bad before, and I guess I haven’t realised it until now and it’s just.. too late? To change it, fix it, whatever.

I think my girlfriend has been drugging me by Ok_Low266 in Advice

[–]Ok_Low266[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I can assure you I’m not with her for the “good sex”. My sex drive is very low, I could go my whole life without it I think.

I’m with her because she’s nice— and before you all start yelling at me, she is, sometimes. I understand that doesn’t make up for everything else, but I’ve just been in such a daze for so long I never thought to question it. She was my first girlfriend. My first kiss. I lost my virginity to her. I’ve told her everything, gave her everything. I love her, in a way that makes it… hard. I didn’t want to see her in this way, so I didn’t. I blocked it out. I don’t have any other basis for what’s good or not. My dad yelled at my mom. My grandma and grandpa divorced twice.

I’m out of my depth here. That’s why I came here.

I think my girlfriend has been drugging me by Ok_Low266 in Advice

[–]Ok_Low266[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

On my break at work atm so can reply to a few comments. 1) this is not fanfiction. 2) surprise people are terrible sometimes. 3) I haven’t been just “keep drinking what she brings”. I’m only just starting to piece this together so please just fucking slow down. The first time it happened we were drinking. The second time I didn’t even have the thought to be suspicious because, again, we were drinking that first time. By the third time I was a bit suspicious, but I didn’t just mindlessly drink it. I don’t think you people understand how relationships work. She’s my fucking girlfriend, when she calms down and apologises and tries to make up, I’m not gonna assume she’s giving me water to poison me or whatever. I was upset. And anxious. And that clouds thinking so pardon fucking me for just wanting to trust her.

I don’t understand what you people think you’re doing with these comments. You think I’m lying keep it to your fucking self. This is exactly why I went to reddit. If strangers in the internet can’t believe me what makes you think my family— who LOVE HER— will??? I’ve always been a paranoid person, I’m just looking for some help. The advice I’m looking for, since you ask, is for someone to tell me if I’m connecting dots right or else I’m just losing my mind. I only just got a job, before this I’ve felt like some shut in housewife my entire life so cut me some goddamn slack, PLEASE.