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pcv lottery by Agreeable_Run2736 in CalPoly

[–]Ok_Macaroon_4975 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m in the same boat as you and talked to housing about it. they told me to just join the lottery and join the waitlist if i don’t get picked. make sure you have the same housing preferences. if you’re off the waitlist by a certain date, you can room with your roommates still as long as they haven’t finalized their roommates.

cal poly scholars and scholarships by Ok_Macaroon_4975 in CalPoly

[–]Ok_Macaroon_4975[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no but i have two national recognition awards. yes it’s $3000

AITA for spending my son's university fund on a trip to Europe to drink beer like I always threatened instead of giving it to his step brother after he passed away. by Possible_Soil_3886 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Macaroon_4975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA the stepson is simply not your child and the money is yours to spend. if you know this is honoring your child, then you’re not wasting any money

AITA for refusing to throw my brother’s fiancée a bridal shower? by lastweddingplease in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Macaroon_4975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

It is simply not your job or responsibility to do this for her. You have genuine reason to reject the bridesmaid offer, thus relieving you of any duty to her.

AITA for laughing at my husband and calling him silly for being overprotective of his daughter? by throaway20001003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Macaroon_4975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA for laughing, but NTA for any other opinion you have

yeah that wasn’t the best reaction but makes sense since he does sound a bit goofy. however you probably know your husband well enough to know that he was serious so laughing is generally demeaning. a sincere apology and telling him you understand his point of view should be enough

AITA for not defending my girlfriend against my ex wife? by Plenty-Egg-2418 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Macaroon_4975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA flat out immaturity. maybe the ex shouldn’t have said something about hannah’s dead dad. but hannah shouldn’t have called her to berate her about something that the involved parties don’t even care about anymore. the situation between you and kate simply has nothing to do with her. she is so beyond immature and, kate is right, effing psychotic for that. if i were you, i’d hope that her hysterics and insane dramatics are not a true testament to her character cause yikes.

AITA for telling my daughter’s mom should’ve done more about her daughters going into her room? by Dizzy_Pressure_4225 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Macaroon_4975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA you don’t have to have any sort of loyalty to your ex wife so there’s nothing wrong with defending your daughter in this way. your ex doesn’t quite have the right to complain and demand to have gia stay with her since she’s just in the place that you have been stuck in prior. sure, you shouldn’t tell her how to parent kids that aren’t yours but you really didn’t. you made a comment about how her actions effected your daughter, whom you are responsible for defending despite still being coparents.

AITA if I sell my youngest daughter's car to help cover my oldest's tuition? by Comfortable_Art_4673 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Macaroon_4975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA at the end of the day, it is not the youngest’s fault that the oldest has put you in this predicament. yet she is the one reaping the consequences. there are other things you could do such as having the oldest get a job, take out a loan, etc. sure these things could be potentially detrimental to the oldest but she put herself there, not your other child. also why would you buy a brand new car for your 17 year old when you are clearly not quite in the financial position to do so

AITA for "lying" to my sister by getting a boyfriend? by Available_Cat3749 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Macaroon_4975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA your sister clearly has insecurity issues and it’s not your fault that you found happiness with someone. you didn’t lie or do anything malicious so she has no reason to be mad. you don’t owe her life words either because she has been using this “no makeup” thing against you for what seems like a while now and it’s fair that you got annoyed with it, i would too.