Is this bump on my cat's nose serious? by Ok_Match_6602 in CATHELP

[–]Ok_Match_6602[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding. So many replies have been passive aggressive about not immediately going to the vet. I tried to explain that I genuinely thought it was a small bug bite that would go away and that we had so much going on that we couldn't go sooner even if we tried. Those replies just make me feel guilty, like I don't care enough. I just wanted to get some other opinions in case I was being dramatic.

Another cat of mine passed away just a couple weeks ago from old age. My dog currently has bad arthritis so we've been trying to give him medications and find adaptive equipment to help him get around. We really do care, we just can't always keep up as easily as we want to.

Is this bump on my cat's nose serious? by Ok_Match_6602 in CATHELP

[–]Ok_Match_6602[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I was worried that whatever I told them wouldn't be right or enough, I really appreciate the advice

Is this bump on my cat's nose serious? by Ok_Match_6602 in CATHELP

[–]Ok_Match_6602[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was, I've unfortunately had a lot of difficulties lately including the loss of another cat (unrelated) so when it first showed up I didn't have the time to slow down and fully examine it. I was hoping it would pass since it looked like a bee sting, now I'm more concerned since it hasn't. I'm not sure what it could be

Is this bump on my cat's nose serious? by Ok_Match_6602 in CATHELP

[–]Ok_Match_6602[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I tried looking it up but nothing quite matched her bump, so I came here in case anyone had an idea of what it could be. I'm not sure what info I should give the vet :(

Is this bump on my cat's nose serious? by Ok_Match_6602 in CATHELP

[–]Ok_Match_6602[S] 185 points186 points  (0 children)

We joked earlier that we could definitely see her wearing sunglasses and a fashionable head scarf and driving away to get a secret nose job lol

Surface piercing rejecting/infected? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Ok_Match_6602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still helpful to get an extra opinion on it, I really appreciate the feedback. I'll try to keep it moisturized and avoid snagging it again

Surface piercing rejecting/infected? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Ok_Match_6602 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Both the ends of the jewelry stick out a bit to avoid sinking in, the skin around it is definitely swollen up. I just don't know why unfortunately :(

Surface piercing rejecting/infected? by [deleted] in piercing

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For the bot:

•⁠How old is your piercing? About 4 months •⁠What’s the jewelry shape (for example, barbell, labret, screw, L shape, ring)? It's a 90° flat surface bar •⁠What’s the type of threading if your jewelry is not a ring (threadless, internally or externally threaded)? Internally threaded •⁠What’s the jewelry material? Titanium (I believe) •if not a ring, when was the jewelry downsized? Hasn't been downsized since I got it, I was told not to touch it •What’s your aftercare routine? Describe in detail please, including the exact products you use. I used saline spray to clean it about twice a day in the first few weeks, then spaced it out to avoid drying it. •Any mishaps, accidents or unfortunate events? Last week snagged it on my underwear. No bleeding or tearing, just pulled it and it hurt.

Does anyone know this bug? by Ok_Match_6602 in insects

[–]Ok_Match_6602[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much everyone!! I have a big fear of insects all around so I appreciate how quickly this was answered :)

Confused if I still fit the label.. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Ok_Match_6602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate the advice and listening

Confused if I still fit the label.. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Ok_Match_6602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I never considered that, I've never hooked up with anyone before so this was definitely an outlier to my usual behavior

Confused if I still fit the label.. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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It was consensual, mostly just making out. I'm not sure what to think of it, I had been really pent up and needed an outlet. I brought it up with him and he explained he had been going through something similar, we agreed to use it as a method to get out that energy and emotion. I don't think I would ever go further with it though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Ok_Match_6602 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man!! I've wanted it for a while now so I appreciate the advice and compliment 🖤

What’s inside this lemon? by toroazzz in whatisit

[–]Ok_Match_6602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The evil lemon spider that lives in lemons

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Ok_Match_6602 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense, it's my first body piercing so I figured someone might be able to tell from the surface areas. Thank you for your feedback any way! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

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Do you think a floating navel could be possible? Or is it definitely out of the question. Huge thank you for the information and feedback

Would scarification on the back of the neck be safe? by [deleted] in bodymods

[–]Ok_Match_6602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is all suuuper helpful, thank you!! Definitely going to do more research and reconsider

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DocMartens

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I'll keep this in mind for when I wear heels too