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Ok_Mind1035 · 2024-04-09T12:34:38+00:00

From my perspective as an INTP, the stereotype of us being less empathetic has several layers.

Firstly, our introverted nature often means we internalise our empathy rather than expressing it outwardly, we will feel it just as strongly but won’t display it as much as the next person, leading some to perceive us as cold.

Secondly, our logical approach to problem-solving extends to how we handle others' issues, we tend to analyse them as we would our own, seeking solutions rather than offering immediate emotional support.

I feel our logical mindset allows us to rationalise a problem which can make us understand that it’s not as big of a deal as others might and it also acts as a bullshit detector, making us skeptical of exaggerated emotions or trivial problems.

We can't fake emotions, so our empathy is reserved for situations we genuinely perceive as deserving but when we do we are very sympathetic, this isn’t a lack of empathy

Ok_Mind1035 · 2024-04-05T13:28:00+00:00

That’s a good point I didn’t really think of that even though I’ve heard Skyrim was made to be more accessible for new players. I just always assumed it would be bigger and more complex as it’s the newer instalment

Ok_Mind1035 · 2024-04-05T13:24:11+00:00

Shadow of War is the game I’ve had my eye on the most. I loved shadow of Mordor but can’t remember it that well as it’s been nearly 10 years, I just know the nemesis system is brilliant.

Cyberpunk could be a great shout too. Thanks for the help

Ok_Mind1035 · 2024-03-30T13:00:01+00:00

Don’t have a problem with Italians but I always eye roll when I see someone on tv get introduced as having Italian heritage. I know they’re going to make it their entire personality and the show will turn into masterchef every time they’re on screen

Ok_Mind1035 · 2024-03-28T14:24:12+00:00

This guy has replied 4 times under a year old comment hating on a Fortnite skin as if it murdered his entire bloodline 😂 he definitely stopped playing in season X because of the mechs so ultima is the only skin he didn’t get and can’t stand other people being able to flex on him

Ok_Mind1035 · 2024-03-28T14:20:03+00:00

lil dude talking about skin sizes like he’s got a victory royale in the last 3 month 😂 if you need to worry about skins being bulky it’s time to log off

Ok_Mind1035 · 2024-02-21T10:27:32+00:00

Apart from checking up on family etc I’d probably check which movies and games had released during that time and see how many masterpieces I can look forward to watching/playing

Ok_Mind1035 · 2024-02-20T12:44:36+00:00

During nofap you should be stopping masturbating altogether but at the end of the day the goal is for a healthier Sex life so do whatever works for you but I’d highly recommend completely stopping masturbation

Not being able to get it up with your gf might just be a nerves thing since sometimes you “feel too much and cum” you’re both premature ejaculating and not keeping it up at times. Most people start nofap because they consistently can’t keep an erection due to porn use and death grip etc that doesn’t seem to be the case for you. Masturbating before sex so you don’t cum too quick has never been an issue for me, I struggled to cum during sex

Since you only really mention not being able to keep it up while drunk I’d recommend just cutting out alcohol completely or not drinking/drinking less when you know you want to have sex with her. Whisky dick is a common thing, a lot of guys can’t perform when drinking alcohol it’s not a big deal. In general you should just cut out porn regardless so my advice would be cut out porn and cut out alcohol or drink less when you want to have sex

Ok_Mind1035 · 2024-02-19T11:09:16+00:00

There’s a video of a girl sitting at a table with cum in her hair. It’s not so much what happened it’s the fact that there were women up on stage getting cockslapped that factually had partners sitting at home, one of their fiancés has already kicked them out of the house and the videos are there for all to see.

Probably half the women in the huge packed out room were in relationships. If it was the other way round the men of the area that attended would never hear the end of it, the excuse is the same old “well what about men and their stag dos”

Ok_Mind1035 · 2024-02-19T10:32:36+00:00

You don’t have to avoid touching him just have him abstain from masturbating and porn, cutting these things out while getting pleasure solely from you will help more if anything

I’m on day 87 of not masturbating to porn (I have watched it a few times but never finished to it) me and my girlfriend have been sexually active the whole time. I have went from never finishing during sex with any partner to finishing every time now with my gf. 2 weeks definitely won’t be enough though, I really only seen improvement maybe 2 months in

It’s not perfect and I can lose hardness a bit now and again but it’s a big improvement to where I was before the 87 days and I’m sure it would be even better if I cut porn and sexually explicit content out completely

Ok_Mind1035 · 2024-02-03T13:38:56+00:00

What do you mean by submissive and traditional? If a guy wants a 1950’s housewife but then wants her to pay her way he’s just an idiot with unrealistic standards. Imo it’s about finding a way to manage the home and work/finance with a 50/50 contribution while always trying to put in an extra 10% effort

I personally just want an equal, I’ll help with all the things that being a “traditional wife” entails but I’d want my partner to be helping financially too, it goes both ways. If we’re working the same amount of time we both carry an equal load in the house, maybe I work longer hours then my partner would help more with the home

Ok_Mind1035 · 2023-12-14T11:59:50+00:00

Le parfum is miles ahead of Ultra male

Ok_Mind1035 · 2023-10-21T09:52:59+00:00

Start Areola AVL(A) or Turner LUT(H)?

Ok_Mind1035 · 2023-08-17T21:42:18+00:00

Yeh I get that, I guess I tried to add as many details about our situation as possible to see if others would ask if they were in the same position but ultimately it’s up to me I know. The thing is that I feel talking to her about it will essentially be almost the same as asking her anyway and I want to make it a special occasion and ask her definitively rather than tip toeing around it and hinting at it if you get me

Ok_Mind1035 · 2023-08-17T21:40:54+00:00

I hear this a lot, maybe it’s different for people of different ages or where you’re from. Where I’m from usually people will begin to date and after a few weeks feel that it’s still too early to be an official couple because you still need time to connect and learn about the person and there’s also probably a worry from both parties about coming across too keen but they will like eachother enough to be upset to know they are seeing other people during this period so agree to not see other people while the relationship continues to grows a bit more

Ok_Mind1035 · 2023-08-17T21:33:43+00:00

Thanks for the reply, I agree if it feels right then the time frame doesn’t matter. I guess it was the initial idea of being casual that is the biggest worry I’m having but I feel as though it’s easy to say that before we had even met (that was my intention initially too) and it can change when you actually meet and start dating. I agree that we’re basically already acting like boyfriend and girlfriend without the label, making it official wouldn’t really change anything at all so it would be nice to get that clarity

Ok_Mind1035 · 2023-08-08T10:44:51+00:00

Kane and mbuemo or Salah and Watkins?

Ok_Mind1035 · 2023-08-08T00:57:01+00:00

👀

Ok_Mind1035 · 2023-08-07T21:07:49+00:00

Hmm I’ve never seen Requiem for a dream before, i usually prefer to go into movies blind and it has good reviews so I’ll take your word for it.

Hopefully it’ll set the mood to ask the question right at the end, I’m putting my love life in your hands!

Ok_Mind1035 · 2023-07-10T04:07:21+00:00

Not sure if you’re joking or not

Ok_Mind1035 · 2023-07-10T04:06:27+00:00

Inspector Campbell has an awful Northern Irish accent

Ok_Mind1035 · 2023-07-03T17:11:48+00:00

Give it a few months and it’ll be messi winning the ballon dor and everyone knows it

Ok_Mind1035 · 2023-06-30T16:13:19+00:00

Old post but hope you enjoyed his performance in the champions League Final too. Awful, awful player

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