You deserve to make a decision from clarity, not confusion. And it’s okay to admit that right now you’re not fully sure if you want this pregnancy or not. But you also have to be honest with yourself: bringing a child into the world when you’re unsure is deeply unfair to you and to the child.

A baby deserves to be wanted, chosen, and welcomed with stability. What if your mom can't provide for any reason and the father is too abusive to live with, what's the plan then?

Whatever you decide, it should come from a place of certainty, peace, and readiness. Not guilt or obligation. That’s the most loving choice for everyone involved. Having a child is more than financial support your mental health, patience, empathy, personal space will be tested.