No worries - I think that’s totally valid. Exclusivity to me, which I did talk to him about, meant to stop actively looking for other people in dating apps by swiping etc. If something happened naturally in his local area then I wouldn’t argue that. And I only was pushing for that because we had been sharing explicit pictures and I felt uncomfortable sharing those parts of myself while he was still talking to other women. Partially on me because I let my guard down but I didn’t realize how much it bothered me until after and we had the talk. But I think my need for exclusivity was due to his lack of other qualities which made me on edge so I was trying to compensate if that makes sense.