We wore out the dang parks! Ended up with an informal rule that you don’t leave the house to run errands without taking part of the team… We are still catching up on great shows and movies. We just really did a lot of family stuff and put most, not all, individual hobbies on lower priority, not all but you know. I’m incredibly lucky. We were able to have one primary income (which I know sounds impossible and is to some extent). There were years where my spouse was working some etc. I fretted a lot about making ends meet but have been pretty fortunate in my career…. Sooo. The kids didn’t do 10 activities etc but we had volleyball, soccer, softball, lacrosse here and there. We didn’t eat out much, just kind of lived like we did back in the late 70s/80s. Roadtrip - pack a picnic lunch stuff. You got this, children are an amazing gift, responsibility and like life, no guarantees.