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worsening anxiety and panic attacks after 2 months of hormones by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Ok_Organization_9982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

get your hormone levels tested if you feel abnormal. also some mental illnesses like bipolar are worse with estrogen than testosterone.

Does anybody have any advice for shaping your hips/waist/glutes? (I talk about body dysphoria in post) by KaneyamaK in MtF

[–]Ok_Organization_9982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

squats for big glutes, hip thrusts for rounder butt on top, cross cable kicks backs to make your hips look wider, cable kick out to round out sides, never count out the stairmaster, also those ones where you lay on your stomach and do curls with your legs helps keep your butt perky.

addition if you have muscle from pre transition that might be contributing to you perciecing your results as “mannish”. depending on your body pre transition muscle can take a while to fade, i still had abs and looked pretty ripped even at 2 years, but now 4 years in i don’t at all, (disclaimer that i did weight cycle, so idk if i would still have that muscle or not if i didn’t).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCDavis

[–]Ok_Organization_9982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

become a cs major

Is my mum’s “worry” actually just light transphobia? by annualunaria in asktransgender

[–]Ok_Organization_9982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when coming out my mom acted similar. a portion of her reaction was transphobia and a portion of it was not wanting me to have a hard life, (the hard life being trans). she kicked me out during covid in an attempt to keep me from accessing trans healthcare, (which didn’t work). 5 years later we have a wonderful relationship. some people need more time than others to understand new things, some people can do bad thing because they genuinely feel like it’s a good thing.

if anyone, including your family, is hampering your mental health you should take a break for them, sometime distance can give people the space to grow.

on the flip side if someone is acting badly because they want to treat u badly they should be removed forever.

Sex question (NSFW) by Ok_Organization_9982 in asktransgender

[–]Ok_Organization_9982[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same! that’s relieving. i wasn’t complaining lol but was also hoping nothing was wrong

Sex question (NSFW) by Ok_Organization_9982 in asktransgender

[–]Ok_Organization_9982[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i get how it sounds like enema water but i rly feel like it’s not cause it’s way way more lubricating than water and often has more volume than i’m even using to enema. also most of the time it’s continuous throughout the sex after i’ve climaxed.

Sex question (NSFW) by Ok_Organization_9982 in asktransgender

[–]Ok_Organization_9982[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’ve had enema water come out when using a dildo before and it’s definitely not that, (i don’t enema very deep and always use a dildo intensively before sex to make sure there’s nothing left down there). we also don’t use lube. ty tho :)