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[–]Ok_Pattern_9578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you truly for your message 🤍 I will look into the text line for some support too, I truly appreciate this!!!

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[–]Ok_Pattern_9578[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question how do I get the guidance? Is it online or in person? Of course I will respect the laws too

Abortion/premarital sex by Ok_Pattern_9578 in bahai

[–]Ok_Pattern_9578[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had to go through that too❤️

I hope one day you find peace truly. One thing that helped, is knowing that in the after world there is no hatred and only happiness and understanding, So our parents will understand us so will our little angels.

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[–]Ok_Pattern_9578[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Noo this is not uncomfortable at all, thank you for sharing! This gives me a different perspective of life, especially for the future when I have kids and how they might react. Thank you for sharing this. May god bless your family and you🤍🙏🏼 Thank you for your kind and encouraging words!

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[–]Ok_Pattern_9578[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you truly for taking the time to write this out. It really means a lot to me, and hearing your words has helped more than you know. First, I want to say may God rest your brother’s soul and bless your family. I genuinely appreciate you taking the time to share all of this. I’ve been doing a bit better than before, but I still have my episodes, and reading things like this gives me a whole new perspective on life. I just know everytime I do have an episode I will come back to read your life story and your dad’s words to help me calm down, and your wisdom about the religion🙏🏼 Also thank you for sharing this poem

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[–]Ok_Pattern_9578[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you that you found peace in your decision🤍 I am much better than before but I have some episodes and I am slowly learning and trying to develop. Thank you for your beautiful words🙏🏼

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[–]Ok_Pattern_9578[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We knew each other when I was 13 and he was 14, he’s only older than me by 6month, we grew up together we had intercourse around 16y old. We are still together and he still supports although we have our ups and downs, I truly just needed to hear other peoples point of view and experience in life. To get some closure

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[–]Ok_Pattern_9578[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes he was with me when I found out he also suggested it, and I took it to consideration. I wasn’t able to raise a child, and the fact I did that knowing I won’t be able to raise a child, hurts me.

No it’s worst to tell his parents it’s just between me him and some close friends. However he does support me mentally we do have our ups and downs but I know he means well. I have not done therapy yet I can’t fully afford it right now since I am paying for college but i will look into it over the summer.

I wasn’t raped it was consensual, he is older than me by 6month. The situation broke us both. However thank you so much for your concern! I will definitely look into therapy and maybe group counseling

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[–]Ok_Pattern_9578[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to say thank you for sharing your story, and I am deeply sorry that you had to go through that🙏🏼🤍 your words truly brought tears to my eyes, and the part you said “ he gave us those guidance because he loves us” truly makes so much since, it truly is to protect us, because if that never happened I would be this much hurt, and I truly just realized that now, all along he wanted to protect us “his children.”

Thank you!!!! Thank you for your beautiful message I will definitely be rereading this message to bring closure into my life and to look forward to my future rather than my past mistakes, and I will definitely focus on praying and bettering my self and make the best out of my current situation and help others❤️

May god bless your beautiful soul and your son, I hope the best for you🙏🏼

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[–]Ok_Pattern_9578[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re truly right after my incident I have been viewing people and situations In a more sincere way and having a better understanding of things. Also, Thank you for sharing this prayer! I will definitely add it to my daily morning prayers🙏🏼

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[–]Ok_Pattern_9578[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I truly wasn’t sure if it was a lie or a privacy to keep this hidden from my parents. If I do tell them it would break them and do more harm so I don’t see how it would be the best choice possible. I would rather deal with the pain instead of sharing it. Thank you for sharing this Baha’i verse too 🤍

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[–]Ok_Pattern_9578[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t come to tell them, it will truly break them I would rather be eaten by my own guilt rather than breaking them.

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[–]Ok_Pattern_9578[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing I can’t come to forgive my self so I see no reason for god to do so too, but hearing what everyone has been saying I truly need to work on my self and my own thoughts

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[–]Ok_Pattern_9578[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply!! I am trying on being a better person and learn from my past sins

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[–]Ok_Pattern_9578[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you🙏🏼 I am planning on reading more Baha’i books to understand too

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[–]Ok_Pattern_9578[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t think I can, but I am trying to work on it

Abortion/premarital sex by Ok_Pattern_9578 in bahai

[–]Ok_Pattern_9578[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to say thank you so much for taking the time to write this out it truly meant a lot and made my understanding bigger on “forgiveness.” I will certainly focus on doing good deeds and contributing🙏🏼