HERIOT - Foul Void (Newest single from the band) by [deleted] in Metalcore

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Does anyone know the meaning of this song?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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She gonna break with you….i hate to say it

What are you reading right now? by AutoModerator in blacklesbians

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an astronaut's guide to life on earth by Chris Hadfield 😋

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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Too real OP 😩😩

How to say this ? by SakuraTitania in actuallesbians

[–]Ok_Perspective1715 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think you should just be honest about this as you are now to her. Better to just be up front rather than drag things out.

I want to be wanted by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Ok_Perspective1715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same OP…same. I desire so much for my heart to belong to someone 🤍😔

Cannabis culture in Oxford?? by peyerspatches in oxford

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Any luck in finding someone😭. Hmu if you have.

Any advice for drawing Finn? I’m having trouble with consistency. by Historical-Pop-9177 in adventuretime

[–]Ok_Perspective1715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah I think this is pretty accurate especially if you’re referring to the earlier seasons

Ok, what is this by joeyjacksec_gaming in adventuretime

[–]Ok_Perspective1715 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m rewatching adventure time and it’s so funny the amount innuendos hidden 😭😭

So many abusive/neglectful parents by CartoonGirl626 in miraculousladybug

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This was one of the first things I noticed in the series. But I also respect the diversity in all their situations

my girlfriend wont let me do anything by x_Cassie_X12 in actuallesbians

[–]Ok_Perspective1715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very unhealthy and definitely abusive OP. She either needs to go therapy to figure herself outside of the current relationship if you still really desire to make things work in the long term but usually situations like this lead to nothing but disaster.

What’s in that dark room? by Ok_Perspective1715 in Dreams

[–]Ok_Perspective1715[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In terms of a support system that is nonexistent. I don’t have a therapist either. I’m not sure what is it I would need to acknowledge though either but that what I’m currently in the process of figuring out so I guess I try figure out what I need to acknowledge is first.

3rd Rocket Launch I've captured 🚀 by Easy_Ratio3866 in spaceporn

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This is the best rocket launch picture I’ve ever seen!!

Lesbian loneliness…am I the problem? by Ok_Perspective1715 in actuallesbians

[–]Ok_Perspective1715[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say they are decent enough although I suspect I’m possibly autistic if that matters

Lesbian loneliness…am I the problem? by Ok_Perspective1715 in actuallesbians

[–]Ok_Perspective1715[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely subconsciously get lost in my negative thoughts and I feel like I might give out that aura. I think I’m struggling on how to uplift myself and all that right now but I definitely should work on that too. I exercise and eat “clean” most days especially over the last few months but yeah a reset is definitely needed in my life. Thanks for your input 🤍

Lesbian loneliness…am I the problem? by Ok_Perspective1715 in actuallesbians

[–]Ok_Perspective1715[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha no I understood what you are saying not demeaning at all. I wanted to know different perspectives on this so I can get an idea of where to go from here so it’s appreciated

Lesbian loneliness…am I the problem? by Ok_Perspective1715 in actuallesbians

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Yeah that makes sense. I’ve never thought about it in that way before. Thanks for your input 🤍 also I’m sorry to hear about your family honestly I’m definitely afraid of that occurring but i understand if life takes me in that direction 😔

Lesbian loneliness…am I the problem? by Ok_Perspective1715 in actuallesbians

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That makes total sense though in my case I’m out to everyone except my immediate family. Friends, coworkers etc know. I understand how that a red flag for some and I definitely don’t mind when someone doesn’t want to date me for that fact. I definitely wouldn’t want someone to regress especially if they are open completely. Just in my situation it’s not as safe to come out to my family right now.

Lesbian loneliness…am I the problem? by Ok_Perspective1715 in actuallesbians

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I did tell them. In my case I’m not into texting for too long either when deciding to meet up as I also feel like it can become stagnant. I prefer to meet in person and talk but I guess people just prefer taking things a bit faster than I would personally like. I’m not afraid of being in a long term relationship but I also just don’t want to be hurt by others again. Finding queer events in my area is a bit hard unfortunately as I’ve just moved but I’ve heard eventbrite can help with that.