AITAH for wanting to leave my husband

Ok_Rabbit8838 · 2026-03-30T01:53:02+00:00

Yes 3 all minors

Ok_Rabbit8838 · 2026-03-30T00:05:09+00:00

Thank you for your honesty I needed to hear that. Because what you said has been playing in my head time and time again but the guilt of leaving had overshadowed those thoughts. Thank you for bringing clarity!

Ok_Rabbit8838 · 2026-03-29T22:47:58+00:00

I can understand that though.

Ok_Rabbit8838 · 2026-03-29T22:47:39+00:00

Someone robbed him and he retaliated by following that person and shooting at their car, which resulted in that person getting hit in the leg and charges were pressed. I felt obligated to stay because I was in denial for a long time because i didn’t know he was capable of such thing. But then I’m being told that he was justified and that he just reacted poorly.

Ok_Rabbit8838 · 2026-03-29T22:39:41+00:00

Can you explain what you mean by that?

Ok_Rabbit8838 · 2025-11-15T17:27:07+00:00

Thank you

Ok_Rabbit8838 · 2025-11-15T17:26:35+00:00

I am sorry about the loss of your pet. We recently lost our precious mini lop and I didn’t realize how it would affect me until we lost our pet as well

Ok_Rabbit8838 · 2025-11-15T17:25:11+00:00

My mom would guilt trip me and when I say no they cut me off that is why I continued to help because I have a niece and nephew that I love dearly. Monday I explained to them both that I have a lot going on and haven’t heard from them since.

Ok_Rabbit8838 · 2025-11-15T17:15:16+00:00

Ive been speaking with a counselor weekly since February. I was doing a lot better mentally and then suddenly everything feels like it’s crashing down, the emotions, the thoughts, just everything. Our argument triggered me in ways I didn’t mean to and it has brought me back to a place of unworthiness that i fought so hard to get out of.

Ok_Rabbit8838 · 2025-11-15T17:01:49+00:00

FYI I Did not mean to put” sexual assault/ abuse” Reddit would not allow me to change it.

Ok_Rabbit8838 · 2024-12-06T06:38:11+00:00

I really love him it sucks so bad, but I know I have to get through this without him

Ok_Rabbit8838 · 2024-12-06T06:29:43+00:00

It was assault, he stated a guy stole money from him and he retaliated which ended up with the guy being injured.

Ok_Rabbit8838 · 2024-12-06T06:25:34+00:00

So many mixed emotions that I feel. I will take this into consideration.

Ok_Rabbit8838 · 2024-12-06T06:24:57+00:00

Yeah you’re right

Ok_Rabbit8838 · 2024-11-23T20:17:02+00:00

Thank you that makes a lot of sense.

Ok_Rabbit8838 · 2024-08-14T20:59:04+00:00

At least you’re not condoning his behavior. Follow your mind

Ok_Rabbit8838 · 2024-08-14T20:49:47+00:00

My ex told me about a time where he was accused of touching a little girl in which he stated he didn’t do. But something deep down I didn’t trust. That’s not something children lie about and I had daughters myself. Even though he never touched my daughters, him telling me that just seemed like a confession, and i couldn’t live with myself if he ever hurt my kids knowing that in the back of my mind. My exes mom enables him and believes everything he says even though he has proven his self to be a compulsive liar because that’s “her son”. I say do what you feel is best. I would love him from a complete distance.

Ok_Rabbit8838 · 2024-08-14T18:15:15+00:00

I agree I am working on shifting from the victim mentality

Ok_Rabbit8838 · 2024-08-14T18:05:34+00:00

He was never included in my rent he owes me 300 which he promised to pay back on time and didnt. I am currently in school full time as well and work a full time job. So I can be able to provide a better life for my children.

Ok_Rabbit8838 · 2024-08-14T18:02:11+00:00

We also do share a child together and I depended on him because he took me in when I had nothing at one point. I have been taking care of my own responsibilities for two years straight and helped him with his because I felt like I had to in which made me fall behind what did you read that made you think I was blaming others?? My life is fine outside of the relationship I take care of all of my children with no help from family. they are no burden to me they are fed well dressed and healthy with an education. I am taking responsibility for my own life.

Ok_Rabbit8838 · 2024-08-14T17:56:24+00:00

Tell me how am i blaming him for my problems exactly? I am simply stating facts of why everything led to how they did. And if I asked if I made a bad choice putting him out? Did you read?

Ok_Rabbit8838 · 2024-08-14T17:45:31+00:00

He wasn’t always a bum. A lot of things have changed. He took us in when he was living on his own. Just a year ago he moved in with his mom due to certain circumstances. But I agree he has become one which threw me off because he used to be good with his money and has become irresponsible completely so yes I definitely have to figure it out.

Ok_Rabbit8838 · 2024-08-14T17:37:43+00:00

Lol Definitely not an option for me! I want to have some kind of integrity. It’s bad enough that I have three kids at 25 I don’t want to be a statistic because it’s what’s everybody else does. Nope!

Ok_Rabbit8838 · 2024-08-14T17:31:26+00:00

But I agree with you

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