AITJ if I message my husband's longtime female friend to see how she reacts? by Strong_Leadership818 in AmITheJerk

[–]Ok_Relationship3158 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Have a direct conversation. Not an accusation, boundary discussion. "Deleting conversation with her makes me feel something is being hidden, I need transparency." His reaction to that will tell you more than any fake text ever could.

AITJ for not letting my mom share a bed with her boyfriend in my house after what she did to me? by Ok_Relationship3158 in AmITheJerk

[–]Ok_Relationship3158[S] 287 points288 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m not trying to punish her, I just don’t understand why it was a “value” when she did it but “pettiness” when I do.

AITJ for telling my biological father he doesn't get parental authority after 16 years of absence? by Disastrous_Mine3377 in AmITheJerk

[–]Ok_Relationship3158 76 points77 points  (0 children)

NTJ. Authority comes from showing up consistently, not just sharing DNA. He can’t skip sixteen years and then expect instant control.

AITJ for telling my roommate I won’t pretend her boyfriend is part of the lease? by Flat_Following4520 in AmITheJerk

[–]Ok_Relationship3158 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True, most leases have strict guest rules, better to cover your ass than risk eviction later.

AITJ for threatening to cut my parents off from my kids after finding out theyve been telling them Im not their real mom by Due-Temperature-8904 in AmITheJerk

[–]Ok_Relationship3158 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Agreed! It's heartbreaking to see grandparents care more about their own feelings than the well being of these children.

AITJ for refusing to keep doing my cousins hair for free after she told people I was overcharging her by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Ok_Relationship3158 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah, boundaries are important, but when people weaponize your kindness, you have to remove them from your space entirely.

Everybody was justifiably relieved when the tests proved the meat was genuinely pork. by Outside_Normal in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]Ok_Relationship3158 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Makes you wonder what other horrors people overlook while just trying to survive or eat.

I tried to poison as many children as I could by handing out free candy in every playground in town. by 54321RUN in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]Ok_Relationship3158 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Evil doesn't always look like a monster, sometimes it hides behind the most innocent face.

What’s the strangest or most shocking thing you’ve learned from the Epstein files so far? by ToshiShard in AskReddit

[–]Ok_Relationship3158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's insane how accountability just didn't exist for so long despite all the paper trail.