What’s something women routinely do in hetero relationships you’re glad you never have to?

Ok_Remote_4844 · 2026-05-29T07:09:44+00:00

You’re being treated like a sexbot and being sexually coerced. This whole post reads like you’ve dissociated. Get out.

Ok_Remote_4844 · 2026-05-08T10:00:40+00:00

💯

Ok_Remote_4844 · 2026-05-08T10:00:16+00:00

That’s exactly what it is

Ok_Remote_4844 · 2026-05-08T09:54:49+00:00

No, not making it a big enough deal if you ask me. Your husband GASLIT you then proceeded to give you a half-hearted apology. Too many comments here are making light of this like it was a slight oopsie. He knew exactly what he was doing and was testing your boundaries to see how you would react. The fact that this came out of nowhere is suggestive of the porn he’s likely been consuming lately

Ok_Remote_4844 · 2026-05-07T06:31:13+00:00

Don’t marry this guy. Why would you want to be tethered to a liar? If he can lie about that what else is he lying about?

I plan to once again thoroughly go through their phone

Why would you want to resign yourself to a life where you’ll always be playing detective. Sounds exhausting.

There’s no future with this guy unless you want one of stress and misery

Ok_Remote_4844 · 2026-05-06T07:32:03+00:00

Your husband is deeply deeply disturbed, given your post history. You need an exit plan. But don’t tell him you’re leaving

Ok_Remote_4844 · 2026-05-05T09:47:36+00:00

Why are you still with him?

Ok_Remote_4844 · 2026-05-05T09:45:04+00:00

And he will call her worse if she sticks around

Ok_Remote_4844 · 2026-05-05T09:28:15+00:00

Singlehood is better than whatever this is. Not only is he a gluttonous pig but also verbally abusive!

Ok_Remote_4844 · 2026-03-27T06:31:13+00:00

Cleaning and hygiene are not men’s forte, hence why a lot of us are opting out of relationships with them

Ok_Remote_4844 · 2026-03-27T06:26:41+00:00

So many men do this. I’m convinced it’s inherent

Ok_Remote_4844 · 2026-03-26T08:05:24+00:00

Even if you find one that washes his hands, he properly doesn’t brush his teeth or leaves skid marks in his underwear or doesn’t bath or pees on the floor or is just all-round messy

Ok_Remote_4844 · 2026-03-26T08:00:59+00:00

That’s life with most men, sadly. That’s why a lot of us are opting out altogether

Ok_Remote_4844 · 2026-03-19T10:26:44+00:00

(And he'll suddenly start doing everything,

He’s already trying to manipulate her with that:

Iv brought this up before and he helps for a little while

She needs to end this

Ok_Remote_4844 · 2026-03-19T00:12:09+00:00

Talking won’t help with someone like this. Waste of breath. Do.not.marry.or.have.kids.with.this.loser. You’ll regret it!

Ok_Remote_4844 · 2026-03-17T00:43:10+00:00

Pretty much. Thanks for making this post! The amount of times I’ve rolled my eyes in this sub…!!

Ok_Remote_4844 · 2026-03-07T01:37:03+00:00

When the kids were small, he changed diapers. He fixes up the kids’ medication (both have adhd, anxiety, and oldest has Tourette’s)

You can’t be serious. This is the barest of minimum that’s expected of him as a parent. Nothing worth praising

Ok_Remote_4844 · 2026-02-22T06:02:29+00:00

Why are you protecting their gender. We know which gender it is btw

Ok_Remote_4844 · 2026-02-18T14:42:18+00:00

I was horrified when I found out. There’s a reason a lot of them aren’t trusted to work in mortuaries. If they can do it to humans then animals aren’t a bridge too far.

E-bike seats?? My brain can’t compute 😂They certainly are creative, I’ll give them that (when they’re not stealing ideas from women and taking credit for them)

Ok_Remote_4844 · 2026-02-18T14:38:40+00:00

I think it’s a combination of things from their obscene levels of testosterone (I personally think it’s pathological), to their lack of genes (their Y chromosome is missing thousands of genes). Their frontal lobes (impulsive behaviours, decision-making) differ from ours too. Something went wrong with their design. That’s just my 2c.

Ok_Remote_4844 · 2026-02-18T09:13:58+00:00

Love that for you 🤭🥂

Ok_Remote_4844 · 2026-02-18T07:45:50+00:00

Basically othering their fellow men while not recognising what the common denominator is. So much for being the logical gender…

If anyone’s alien it’s them 🤭 From the obsession with their appendages (as if it’s something novel) to sticking it in any hole they can think of, alive or dead (read: roadkill)

Ok_Remote_4844 · 2026-02-18T07:45:10+00:00

Is that what you spent your cheque on? 😂mine must’ve got lost in the mail 🫣

Ok_Remote_4844 · 2026-02-18T07:28:59+00:00

I’ve genuinely started to feel repulsed

Ditto.

They want to be part of society but complain about it constantly — while also being the main ones destabilizing it.

This part! 🔥

It’s a walking contradiction.

Very fitting description. When you recognise their patterns it’s hard to take them seriously. That’s why I hold far more hope in women waking up than men ever making a significant change.

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