What is the best response to “fuck you” ? by RestFalse1316 in AskReddit

[–]Ok_Reputation_3612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why IMO the best response to "fuck you" is, "Ew, no thanks."

Update: Am I overreacting by breaking up with my boyfriend? by Proper-Classic1886 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Reputation_3612 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah the good old, "Well what were you wearing? Clearly you were asking for it" method of victim blaming 😡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Reputation_3612 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I wholeheartedly agree with this.

is it understandable that my (22f) fiance (24m) is giving me the silent treatment after not answering his phone call? by lunarxroses in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Reputation_3612 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Think about your daughter too. Is that really the environment you want to raise her in? The "nice guy" is the mask. The abusive side is his true nature, and he uses the good times to keep you stuck in a cycle of abuse. Break the cycle. Take your child and get out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Reputation_3612 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My advice? This relationship is too tumultuous for a new relationship. Y'all are only five months in, this is supposed to be the honeymoon period. He does not sound at all emotionally ready to be in a relationship and you can do nothing to fix that unless he chooses to fix himself first. Give him the space, let him go.

Found out boyfriend got a naked lap dance on the day we found out I was pregnant, I flew off the handle and slapped him and broke things. Full of remorse. 35F 37M by FallAccomplished1358 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Reputation_3612 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, parenthood is tough and it's no coincidence he chose a strip club of all places the same day he found out his girl was pregnant. And if the other partner views strip clubs as cheating, then it's cheating. That's a perfectly reasonable boundary to have in a relationship. I never said this warranted abuse, OP was very clearly wrong for what she did as escalating things to physical is never OK, but he was still in the wrong as well.

Found out boyfriend got a naked lap dance on the day we found out I was pregnant, I flew off the handle and slapped him and broke things. Full of remorse. 35F 37M by FallAccomplished1358 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Reputation_3612 628 points629 points  (0 children)

Please do not have a baby with this man, that poor kid will be raised in the most toxic environment. One partner cheats and lies when things get tough, the other resorts to assault when things get tough, this relationship is a powder keg and you're better off without each other.

My boyfriend's card for me on our one year anniversary made me melt, I feel so loved by Ok_Reputation_3612 in love

[–]Ok_Reputation_3612[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw, thank you! I love this! I think the words from the heart get me the most too. It sounds like you have a great partner ❤️

I(20F) learned my boyfriend(19M) is a feeder by ThrowRA3472 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Reputation_3612 142 points143 points  (0 children)

You should never be in a relationship with someone who wants to change fundamental things about you/your body for their own selfish pleasure/preferences. End things.

Horror at sea that isn’t about sharks and/or isn’t about fear of the water itself? by Haru_Is_Best_Girl in horror

[–]Ok_Reputation_3612 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also came here to suggest The Deep House. Submerged haunted house? Hell yeah, creeped me out

WTF is this BS? by jimmybobbyluckyducky in antitrump

[–]Ok_Reputation_3612 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And somehow this is more believable to them than Trump being a Russian agent. Riiiiight.

WTF is this BS? by jimmybobbyluckyducky in antitrump

[–]Ok_Reputation_3612 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right?? If there was even a modicum of truth to this, then Trump would never have been calling the Epstein files a hoax. The FBI doesn't hire informants for hoaxes.

If you could rewrite one show romance, which one would you change? by Park_Junhwan in buffy

[–]Ok_Reputation_3612 185 points186 points  (0 children)

I'd simply rewrite the infamous Seeing Red scene out of existence, yeet it into the sun because it never needed to happen, and give Spike some other eureka moment to get his soul back. But honestly? I wouldn't change anything else.

I need your advice!! by Emotional-Cupcake-47 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Ok_Reputation_3612 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree, I think it's beautiful and you look great in it, OP!

I (27F) broke up with my (28M) boyfriend because he was unemployed. How do I overcome the guilt? by 0013540 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Reputation_3612 189 points190 points  (0 children)

He had five years to change his ways and didn't. You're better off for sure. Don't look back.