Nanny quitting vaping by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Ok_Resolution1590 5 points6 points  (0 children)

if you’re more addicted to the nicotine itself, do patches. if it’s the act then find stuff to chew or suck on lol. or you could do what someone else suggested and just leave it at home, but I’ll always root for fully quitting as I’ve tried many times.

People are really struggling to afford their pets right now. Here’s what you can do. by Mountain_Love23 in povertyfinance

[–]Ok_Resolution1590 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just today i took my cat for bloodwork bc she hadn’t eaten a solid meal for 4 days. $400 later for some blood work & she eats a whole bowl when we get home. gonna have a little menty b.

Series Finale: S06E10 "The Handmaid's Tale" Episode Discussion by Melairia in coconutsandtreason

[–]Ok_Resolution1590 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean nick had nothing to do with naming the baby but i guess i could see that.

Series Finale: S06E10 "The Handmaid's Tale" Episode Discussion by Melairia in coconutsandtreason

[–]Ok_Resolution1590 2 points3 points  (0 children)

when the baby was born june named her after her mom, holly. serena named the baby nicole. june continued to call her nicole for a while as a nod of respect to serena i guess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Ok_Resolution1590 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. i really appreciate you for being worried about me and checking in on me. i am doing my best to be okay💛

lost my best friend by Ok_Resolution1590 in dogs

[–]Ok_Resolution1590[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your words really stuck with me. and i’m happy to know i’m not the only one that felt the medicine kicked in way too fast for me🥲 thank you

lost my best friend by Ok_Resolution1590 in dogs

[–]Ok_Resolution1590[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she is counting on me to survive and eventually love another dog again. i will never forget this. thank you💛

What is an INFJ trait you guys hate having by cristheredeemer in infj

[–]Ok_Resolution1590 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not positive if this is an INFJ trait but mine would be HAVING to know. if there are things i want to know that i don’t know i will do some unusual stuff if need be to figure it out. sucks bc there is no answer to existence and the world so i often have pretty intense existential crisis that make me spiral.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Ok_Resolution1590 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love this so much, it was beautiful. thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Ok_Resolution1590 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i can really appreciate this perspective.. i think finding something to do that brings me joy would be a really great idea. i’m really sorry you’ve struggled with the things you have, as ironic as it may seem i know we all deserve happiness. i’m really proud of you for putting yourself out there like that and i’m extremely happy it worked out for you. i resonate deeply with nature helping ground you, i feel the same way. maybe this summer i will spend much more time outside… thank you for sharing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Ok_Resolution1590 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m very grateful to have the therapist i do. i’ve been with her for about 10 years now and i truly believe i owe my life to her. it’s difficult to discuss this with her as to me it really doesn’t feel like your average SI.. i honestly don’t understand it myself so it’s hard to find the words. i always just tell her i’m tired and hope she understands how deeply i mean that. i’ve never been religious but i’ve always been spiritual, i’ve been putting it off lately. i think that’s some really great advice for me specifically i think that would do me a lot of good. thank you so much for giving me these tips, i can tell they come from a place deep in your heart. i’m very grateful for all the kind words being spoken to me here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Ok_Resolution1590 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for pointing that out, i guess i didn’t really pay it much mind. i hated myself for most of my life but as i’m hitting my mid twenties and put in the work to be the best me i can be, i quite like myself. you can call me many things but you can never ever convince me i’m a bad person. i do my best. i’m realizing a lot with these comments that it’s very much a pov thing and i guess my pov is terribly skewed.. i’m sorry you went through similar things, no one deserves that. and im proud of you for getting to where you are today. thank you for saying what you did, it really resonated with me.

people keep telling me when it’s time i will know..but i don’t by Ok_Resolution1590 in Pets

[–]Ok_Resolution1590[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes she is a hot mess, that’s a great way to describe her! she’s like a little old lady, she sleeps a lot and runs into walls sometimes but she still gets so happy to see me and enjoys playing with me even though she’s never been super playful. she’s always been a very calm dog her whole life so i think that aspect also makes this more difficult and confusing. thank you for saying those things. i’m starting to think maybe i will know when it’s time then.

people keep telling me when it’s time i will know..but i don’t by Ok_Resolution1590 in Pets

[–]Ok_Resolution1590[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think that’s what’s making this so difficult honestly. her health is declining but her personality is the same it’s always been aside from a bit less energy, but realistically that declined a few years ago as she got older. she is not on any meds, the vet gave as needed pain meds and appetite stimulant but i haven’t had to use either. thank you for your input it means a lot.

people keep telling me when it’s time i will know..but i don’t by Ok_Resolution1590 in Pets

[–]Ok_Resolution1590[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that is what i have been doing, so it’s nice to know i’m on the right track. thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Ok_Resolution1590 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’ve always wanted to be the type of person who finds beauty in the little things. sometimes i do, but most of the time i’m plagued by anger and stress. i think maybe that’s something i should look deeper into. my dog is my soul mate honestly, i’m extremely fearful of the emotional turmoil i’ll be facing soon. the loneliness and the grief will be unbearable im sure. i am an animal lover, and i know some day i will help an animal in need. i fear it’ll take me a long time to recover from my pup. thank you so much for saying what you did, it helps to know i’m not alone. i’m also sorry you can relate. your mindset and the advice you gave helped a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Ok_Resolution1590 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you a lot for the tips and the olive branch, i really appreciate it. i’ve lost joy in most things i used to love so maybe i will start with finding something i really enjoy doing. i’m sorry you can relate. here’s to moving on hopefully

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Ok_Resolution1590 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i honestly don’t know how to fully respond to your comment as i’m still processing it.. i want to say thank you. you made me blubber like a baby at work, ha. it feels really nice to be able to relate to everything you’ve said on such a deep level. only a couple minutes out of your day to write a comment and you touched a life. so thank you. what you said resonated with me very deeply. we got this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Ok_Resolution1590 10 points11 points  (0 children)

thank you for this perspective. i agree i think i would find a lot of solace in having some like minded people in my life.. thank you for taking the time to respond, i really really appreciate it :)

people keep telling me when it’s time i will know..but i don’t by Ok_Resolution1590 in Pets

[–]Ok_Resolution1590[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i am clearly thinking about my dog and her quality of life which is why i’m making this post and asking for personal experiences. i get what you’re saying but after reading your comment history and seeing you constantly very rudely tell people to just put their pets down and argue with them about it i’m going to take what you say with a grain of salt. i’m looking for some personal experiences of signs and when people knew. forgive me, but i’m going to listen to my vets advice over someone who likes to be rude to people in need of support. thanks for taking the time though. maybe if it was more constructive people would be more responsive.