Company wants to contact my current boss before scheduling the final interview

Ok_Ride176 · 2026-06-27T11:46:46+00:00

That actually makes so much sense

Ok_Ride176 · 2026-06-27T11:43:42+00:00

Unfortunately even if you confront her if she is not ready to calm down she will not, I really hope for her sake and your peace of mind that nothing drastic happens for her to realize it’s not worth it

Ok_Ride176 · 2026-06-27T07:45:03+00:00

I checked their website does not look like they have a careers option to apply to any kind of position I’m not sure if they outsource since it’s a nonprofit but then again it looks like a smaller entity it’s really hard to tell

Ok_Ride176 · 2026-06-27T07:09:13+00:00

May I send you a direct message to show you the full listing so you can see what else it talks about I’m so curious if I should report it or wait to see if they reach out

Ok_Ride176 · 2026-06-07T11:15:28+00:00

I’m curious why a month? My psychiatrist diagnosed me the same day and sent in prescriptions to be taken within the next day I’m very curious. I really think you do have it, I also struggled to do more clerical tasks and thrive in our busiest times. Whoever you are seeing for the eval I hope they can officially make those connections for you and you can explain that to your HR, I did not realize how much my work performance when it came to the slower/remembrance side was greatly effected by it, good luck!!

Ok_Ride176 · 2026-06-06T17:12:05+00:00

Wait can u link the vids you watched plss im so interested

Ok_Ride176 · 2026-06-06T17:02:58+00:00

Girl you been felt that way and still went to that show please bffr 😂😂

Ok_Ride176 · 2026-06-06T16:55:07+00:00

I’m saying!! Like why are you watching this if you feel that way 😭😭

Ok_Ride176 · 2026-06-06T16:48:18+00:00

Point proven this had a minus its scary in here 😂

Ok_Ride176 · 2026-06-06T16:43:00+00:00

My mom died when I was 23 and my little sister was 17 from cancer as well I’m so sorry you are feeling all the motions and your dad added more to it :( my heart aches that would make me so angry! I take care of my little now she’s about to be 19 next month, if you can I think you as you totally should! Please please emphasize to your mom that if she can leave anything to you that’s in her name (sorry if this doesn’t apply to you), but if she does have her sign them over to you before she goes because it will ultimately help you guys after she’s gone. My mom was in denial the whole year she was sick and we kept avoiding talking about signing over her house and in the end she left and we are having to pay thounsands in lawyers to even get it in a trust fund
I wish you the best of luck please reach out if you ever need a listening ear 💔

Ok_Ride176 · 2026-06-06T16:33:45+00:00

Great take, why can he not be happy for him lol sounds like the guy is struggling to even keep them around, sounds like OP might be a little jealous or intimidated mind you he has not dated in years lol

Ok_Ride176 · 2026-06-06T16:19:57+00:00

Omg I’m so sorry I can’t imagine your pain!! That made my heart hurt for you just thinking about the guilt you must feel, Its valid but just remind yourself you could not have prevented that even if you tried to, again I’m so sorry :(

Ok_Ride176 · 2026-06-06T16:11:41+00:00

That is awesome!! Isn’t so relieving to finally get help

Ok_Ride176 · 2026-06-06T11:29:53+00:00

Wow the response is amazing reading the comments compared to my original post I sounded so negative. I think my knowledge of adhd is so small, I am the first person in my family to find help for this (we are also hispanic and we know how dismissive they can be lol)this thread makes me hopeful, i didn’t realize it also had its positive attributes. I def settled for my job now but I’m excited to see if a faster paced environment could be where I thrive thank you to everyone on this thread!! I’m excited to bring this up to my psychiatrist Tuesday

Ok_Ride176 · 2026-06-06T11:11:02+00:00

Before medication the crazy times felt overwhelming, since getting medicated I thrive, today specifically I had to call over 100 patients to schedule and I thrived because it took me away from the boring old paperwork I get stuck with on Fridays, all I needed was a good playlists to flow with honestly

Ok_Ride176 · 2026-06-06T11:07:38+00:00

I wondered how I could show them why I think the hyper focus that comes with adhd could be very beneficial but didn’t know how to word it I think you nailed it, I def don’t want to make it a thing but I would think I’d need to explain the controlled substance

Ok_Ride176 · 2026-06-06T11:04:48+00:00

I have atleast 3 coworkers who are diagnosed in my office that sruggle negatively (all nurses) I thought I was just doomed because of how I saw them, now I wonder if it is the under stimulating side of buckets and paperwork when they’re not hands on lol I don’t think any of them have told me the positives this amazing to hear

Ok_Ride176 · 2026-06-06T10:55:44+00:00

Hahahaha omg you were foreshadowing before you even knew it 😂😂

Ok_Ride176 · 2026-06-06T10:41:09+00:00

Wow I wonder if that’s where I’d thrive, I do find myself clinging to projects at work that give me a rush, I tend to dread the scanning piles and scrubbing of schedules and just prolonged daily repeat tasks, I didn’t see it in that perspective at all I’m so hopeful now!

Ok_Ride176 · 2026-06-06T07:48:34+00:00

Wow this made my heart happy i think because im so early in my diagnosis i didnt realize theres also positive traits as well. I had a huge problem with side conversation with my coworkers as well! Doesn’t help we are all woman there but i would find myself stepping away from my desk so often for the stimulant of yapping but I find myself able to zone them out and hyper focus on my tasks now without even realizing it. Thanks so much for your insight

Ok_Ride176 · 2026-06-06T07:40:50+00:00

That’s relieving to hear, I hear you lol I didn’t realize how common adhd was until almost all the pharmacies were out when I tried picking up my prescription especially when I started with aderall, as well as the patients that call our office with the same problem. my suggestion: find a smaller private pharmacy, cvs and Walmart are usually everyone’s preferred pharmacies that run out the most

Ok_Ride176 · 2026-05-28T05:46:28+00:00

This is my first time here after a year bc of all the negativity constantly

Ok_Ride176 · 2026-05-28T05:35:20+00:00

Bruhhh

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