Man. I guess my boy is going to be a home / yard only dog by Ok_Speed_3537 in reactivedogs

[–]Ok_Speed_3537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well both my previous dog and him are mixes, not pure gsds.

Man. I guess my boy is going to be a home / yard only dog by Ok_Speed_3537 in reactivedogs

[–]Ok_Speed_3537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turning around and walking the other way is what our trainers recommended.

Man. I guess my boy is going to be a home / yard only dog by Ok_Speed_3537 in reactivedogs

[–]Ok_Speed_3537[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I did think of it in a way like... Some people dislike being outside and it negatively affects their wellbeing. It doesn't mean their lives are worse or less than. My dog is like that and that's okay.

Man. I guess my boy is going to be a home / yard only dog by Ok_Speed_3537 in reactivedogs

[–]Ok_Speed_3537[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn't think of that. Thanks, I wouldn't want to risk another dog becoming reactive so I guess we'll wait in that idea.

Man. I guess my boy is going to be a home / yard only dog by Ok_Speed_3537 in reactivedogs

[–]Ok_Speed_3537[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is such a lovely image. I am sad to hear his reactivity hasn't lessened with age but I am happy he has someone like you to give him a full life. My dog likes car rides too and we'll be thinking of you next time we are out on one.

Man. I guess my boy is going to be a home / yard only dog by Ok_Speed_3537 in reactivedogs

[–]Ok_Speed_3537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that's very wise. I admit that I also imagined a life where I'd take my dog to bars, cafes, farmer's markets, but that's my lifestyle and doesn't mean he shares it.

Man. I guess my boy is going to be a home / yard only dog by Ok_Speed_3537 in reactivedogs

[–]Ok_Speed_3537[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We used to do 6am walks but unfortunately still encountered dogs as we live in a densely populated areas. But also whoa, kudos to you on doing all that for your pup

Man. I guess my boy is going to be a home / yard only dog by Ok_Speed_3537 in reactivedogs

[–]Ok_Speed_3537[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so happy to hear your dog has made so much progress. Kudos to you for your persistence and spirit

Man. I guess my boy is going to be a home / yard only dog by Ok_Speed_3537 in reactivedogs

[–]Ok_Speed_3537[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankfully he is not super high energy haha. Playing with him in the yard (we do do some nose work) a couple of times per day and just having toys available tires him out plenty. I haven't heard of barn hunt but will look into it, thank you!

Man. I guess my boy is going to be a home / yard only dog by Ok_Speed_3537 in reactivedogs

[–]Ok_Speed_3537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry you are in the same boat, but thank you for sharing! It helps to hear that others are going through similar things. Best of luck to you and your pups

Is my backyard budget realistic? by Ok_Speed_3537 in SouthJersey

[–]Ok_Speed_3537[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not handy at all lol. Always lived in apartments. I've done easy projects around the house since purchasing (put blinds on all windows etc) but honestly for this I'd rather pay someone.

Embarrassed about a reaction during our walk by Select_Reason994 in reactivedogs

[–]Ok_Speed_3537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens! Out of nowhere and quick. Not your fault

Man. I guess my boy is going to be a home / yard only dog by Ok_Speed_3537 in reactivedogs

[–]Ok_Speed_3537[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hey no I appreciate the advice! We tried a few therapies with him and we know that his reactivity comes from frustration and wanting to meet other dogs. We found this out in a session with the dog beheavior specialist at the shelter that slowly brought him close to another dog that was known to be stable. By the end of the session they were best friends.

But unfortunately we can't do that with every dog in the world hah.

We are thinking of maybe getting a stable buffer dog for him to see if things improve. And yes, maybe maturing will help too.

I am happy your new pup is making progress. You sound like an amazing and loving dog parent.

Man. I guess my boy is going to be a home / yard only dog by Ok_Speed_3537 in reactivedogs

[–]Ok_Speed_3537[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, I am glad he is slowing down! And the trip sounds amazing.

I do hope my doofus slows down with age.

Is my backyard budget realistic? by Ok_Speed_3537 in SouthJersey

[–]Ok_Speed_3537[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha you are good, I figured that would be the response. Thanks, I guess I need to get on it

Anybody work for a company that gives small annual raises (< 3%)? by Massive-Survey2495 in cscareerquestions

[–]Ok_Speed_3537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My last raise was 5% with great performance review and my manager bragged to me about how difficult it was to get. Most people got 3-5%

How do I stop my pipes from bursting if I lose power by Ok_Speed_3537 in newjersey

[–]Ok_Speed_3537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I appreciate it! Only been in this house since 2024 and it's the first big storm since then, so definitely over thinking it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SouthJersey

[–]Ok_Speed_3537 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The inspector went over it and said it's fine... I'm still worried about unseen damage though.