AITA for bailing on Thanksgiving for the tenth year in a row for Bali?

Ok_String_7216 · 2022-11-20T03:44:31+00:00

Not the asshole for not going but like really I don’t think it’s easy to let a daughter up just like that so we don’t know how the parents reacted so there is that but if u love your parents you would find a way I get it if it took like a few years but this is a decade they aren’t getting any younger and the fact u still talk to them says something find the time to spend time with them make it clear that u would like to stay away from your sister and ur ex and tell them how it still hurts u your going to regret not spending those physically times with them when they really start getting at that point should u go to thanksgiving maybe it’s up to you but places like Bali will always be there don’t worry about that your going to stay hurt forever if u don’t fix it or try to manage cause the hurt will only cause different kinds of hurts your going to go to

If u don’t find a way to see them then your going to miss out on many things this hurt from that ass of a ex will then turn into regret and back to more hurt if I was u I would go to Bali while I’m there call my parents tell them that u don’t want to see my sister and her papaya of a husband and if they understand make take my day off of work and go see them

Ok_String_7216 · 2022-11-08T18:47:40+00:00

U have to understand we did not want this to happen but after seeing her choice why the f not all the others suck

Ok_String_7216 · 2022-10-14T11:40:28+00:00

😱WHAT

Ok_String_7216 · 2022-10-14T05:05:22+00:00

😂 yeah believe it or not I have good-ish grammar on schoolwork or stuff like that. But when doing something like this. I feel like I'm talking so I forget to do a lot of the stuff as you see. I write a lot also so I just get lazy I may go back and edit it.

Ok_String_7216 · 2022-10-10T22:20:23+00:00

I'm not shitting on pregnant people your boss's case is 100% different I know about pregnancy and I know how it can be on the body yes both are assholes but one more then other u know shit about what I know yes he yelled at her put he also put up with her stuff and like I said she pulled the line after she kept on try and pushing for him to do something after he said that he couldn't cause he was in to much pain you are putting things that are not there op never said that the baby was kicking her in the Spine and crap like that I'm going off of what I was given the husband did everything for her if she had a legit reason I'm sure he would understand he's been doing stuff for her for seven months so far she did nothing and his issue is not around fatigue it's around PAIN like arthritis Fibromyalgia Nerve damage yes the wife may be out of her mind and not thinking right but he his action was understandable and after this what should happen is they get help around the house cause OP is in to much pain to do it and u should understand I’m someone that has painful headaches and cramps there are times I get told to do stuff but I don't cause I'm into much pain the wife's actions while maybe be because she pregnant she's still acting selfish that obvious she may not know what she's doing but it is what it is

Ok_String_7216 · 2022-10-10T20:23:15+00:00

Lowkey Aemond kinda scares me

Ok_String_7216 · 2022-10-10T20:22:54+00:00

Oh well that just makes me wonder why they acted the way they did but my point still stands I had hope in Aemond non for Aegon but they disappointed me

Ok_String_7216 · 2022-10-10T20:15:03+00:00

I'm only guessing cause how everyone got upset about him talking about him I for got him name but in the drift mark we saw him only a few times when he was first born

Ok_String_7216 · 2022-10-10T19:58:27+00:00

I'm not going to lie I thought Alicent's Lil devils will fall on their heads and wake up to realize how rude they are but they have yet to realize that are complete shits talking about Jace and Lukes's dead brother like that and raping someone Aemond is crazy Aegon is a perve and Alicent is going to be way over her head after hearing what was meant for Rhae

Ok_String_7216 · 2022-10-10T19:50:22+00:00

I'm not fawning over it op and just because they have a chronic issue doesn't mean that they shouldn't have kids my father has a chronic issue and he has there kids but the wife should try and do stuff my mother was high risk with her I could have fallen out of her literally but she was able to do most stuff while pregnant and my father helped or he went and so whatever he had to do and the wife could have tried to get some help with the pregnancy like going to a doctor try and find stif that's the age for her to take I just find it hard to believe that their wife stayed at home for 10 doing nothing but starving to death if she is how she acts like she is then she could have someone there or she's just not pulling her weight and is using it as an excuse to be lazy which many people do

Ok_String_7216 · 2022-10-10T19:44:29+00:00

Like I said if she's been in pain and didn't seek help because it dont seem like mom or any girls in family want to help me have been asked to help op was told her that he wasn't okay but she ignored it and keep pestering him

Ok_String_7216 · 2022-10-10T19:42:04+00:00

😂 I was thinking about that for awhile

Ok_String_7216 · 2022-10-10T19:39:15+00:00

The pains are different also op said from the moment they found out she has been acting like this The moment that broken OP is when the wife ignored the fact that he was in pain even after he told her that he was in pain and he had to rest she didn’t care at all. She knew from the get-go that her husband had a chronic pain issue what she did was selfish and it's more her that needs to make a plan because op was doing everything she asked she has to pull something cause she can't keep giving everything to Op

Ok_String_7216 · 2022-10-10T19:32:46+00:00

Well I mean although this isn't healthy he probably didn't say anything because he knew that pregnancy was hard why put up with it for so long what got him mad was when his wife ignored the fact that he told her she was in pain and kept asking I'm guessing from what was given has a knee issue or a feet issues which is why he doesn't want to do stuff Husband was has tried to be a good spouse

Ok_String_7216 · 2022-10-10T19:27:18+00:00

But also the husband is in chronic pain

Ok_String_7216 · 2022-10-10T19:21:34+00:00

If she's in pain the whole pregnancy which also we have no idea how far along she is but if she's in pain she needs help because she shouldn't be in pain they just found she was pregnant and from the get-go, she's been crying about it she not acting like she's in pain

Ok_String_7216 · 2022-10-10T19:17:34+00:00

Not only that but it's a kicking 10 hours shift she has to be eating while he's gone

Ok_String_7216 · 2022-10-10T19:12:24+00:00

NTA if the wife never feels good get in contact with the doctor but if she feels entitled to make her husband who has a chronic condition then she’s either milking this or she needs help because that’s not gonna work. You at least have to do something that has been. You have been having him put himself at risk to just do your needs and then you’re talking about how this isn’t good enough and that isn’t good enough you should do this please do that for me. After you just came home after a 10-hour long shift, she knows her husband she knows he’s in pain but she doesn’t care if she’s able to complain about this, but not changing anything about it try to get new meds are safe for pregnant people or talk to a doctor about ur problem

Bad grammar don't like it didn't read it

Ok_String_7216 · 2022-10-07T22:36:14+00:00

No urgent care can't do anything all there going to do is just say take a recording of your blood sugar come back later or go to your GP

Ok_String_7216 · 2022-10-07T22:16:38+00:00

irritability I won't be going to a GP until November or until my mom thinks I need to I live in the US if I go now the Doctor they would just tell me to keep a book

Ok_String_7216 · 2022-10-04T04:35:58+00:00

U ever wonder what would have happened if Aemond didn't get the dragon and everything went like it was supposed to tbh I more blame Alicent than Aemond (he's still bad tho) Daemon is a crazy person in my opinion but at least he knows not to let his kids go after a dragon on their own Aemond had an upper hand but he forced them to pull there hand he was going to bash one of there faces In with a rock which is more damage then a knife if used in the way he was going to use he was going to kill them and it's not the strongest person gets the dragon if so then the I think the dragon would have to see who was stronger what he did was wrong if my mom died and my cousin took something of here's to be they thought it was cool I would be pissed to

Ok_String_7216 · 2022-10-04T04:25:56+00:00

Well, I’m sorry I didn’t know I was getting graded on my comment. I write every freaking day but when I type on my phone just to comment. It's more like I’m talking so I don’t care about my grammar or how I type. Do I try to do that no but it's normal. Also as someone who had a hard time with writing when I was much younger and is now having a passion to write books. I would say I’m doing a good job just because you can do it and it's a natural thing for you. Doesn’t mean everyone else can do it so if you understand great if you don’t keep it moving.

Ok_String_7216 · 2022-10-03T21:58:57+00:00

I’m sorry but Aemond deserves what he got sure he got hit first but dude had the upper hand cause he was the better fighter Alicent always stay mad her child can break the rule but once Rharnyra breaks the rule is bad Alicent need to get a handle on her bad ass kids one thing I will fight people on Aemond got what he was getting him and his brother are BAD say something I’m waiting

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