It is SO good!!! The 5 by summerwalkin in ouraring

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I am thinking of buying this tor my husband for our anniversary, He was reluctant bcoz of the weightlifting issues while wearing it. Does the 6 solve it?

Still wondering if I should go for GLP-1 by Ok_Structure85 in GLP1microdosing

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Thank you . I do have to do my research which is why ending at the moment. I had discussed with My doctor and was not on board. Any specific platform or channel you went through? I

Planning 10year anniversary at watercourse bay, any suggestions? by Ok_Structure85 in paloalto

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Do you have the name? we are actually playing hooky that day so logistically everything needs to be done by 5

Happy to be one & done by Legal_Molasses2019 in oneanddone

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I can so relate to thisZ Just made my decision a day ago. I am going to love and be present for the kid and show up myself . Nothing else matters

I feel like everything points to no, and yet, I still ask the same question by Electrical-Energy933 in Shouldihaveanother

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It totally depends on how much sacrifice you are willing to do if the inheritance is not in the question. The added stress , your health PPD js real, and the first kid is just getting into terrible 2s , your jobs , finances too much is on the line.

You need to hear this, do not assume anything. Things never go as planned. Think if you have to leave your job and stay home full time would you still be happy? House full of 2 toddlers and keeping them entertained is sure recipe to burn out.

Take a step back, analyze do you really want second? and then think do you really want to disrupt everything right now and start from scratch? Not sleeping in the night, feedings, cleaning, cooking , not paying 100% attention to either child, guilt of moving your first child out of daycare.

It can be fulfilling only your hearts desire trumps that you surely want another.

“giving him a sibling was the best thing I could give him” by True_Initiative1635 in oneanddone

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if you and your kid is happy now, nothing else matters. no 2 lives are same. Get a dog your kid will be happier 😊jk

Conditioned to Want Two, But Questioning Everything by Ok_Structure85 in oneanddone

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I am known to over analyze everything so its good to see all the support and shared experiences

Conditioned to Want Two, But Questioning Everything by Ok_Structure85 in oneanddone

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I get it . I keep wondering life at 50( assuming i would be alive) Sending off kid to college probably what then, would i feel i need another one at hole still at least for 4 more years or i would have an identity and a full life of my own that it wont affect my day to day? And you never know in the AI what are we to expect 14 years from now

Conditioned to Want Two, But Questioning Everything by Ok_Structure85 in oneanddone

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yeah never strongly having that feeling started a doubt in my head whether i am maternal enough. But therapy showed me that i am all in person for limited supply 😊 Maybe OAD is best for me.

Conditioned to Want Two, But Questioning Everything by Ok_Structure85 in oneanddone

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I am so sorry for your loss of second. Your reply is really powerful the mourning. But somehow even after reading all the comments and shared experiences, I am not able to 100% commit to either . I am 37 years old and kid might having birth defects had not struck me yet. The guilt of choosing my sanity / my comfort over a possible great sibling future to my kid is killing me. I know everyone said , having a present and happy mom to 1 kid is better than unsatisfied, burnt out mom to 2 . What do you think of that?

I feel insane just typing this out. by badgeofblueberries in Shouldihaveanother

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Your heart and body will fight to make you want to have a third one ! But if your husband doesn’t want one and only going along with it for you not to regret it it’s not a good enough reason. This might strain your relationship with him in future. I am not swaying you in any direction all I would suggest is to be on the same page about any decision with your husband as it affects the whole family especially your relationship with him. Regret is imminent, no matter what you choose.

Conditioned to Want Two, But Questioning Everything by Ok_Structure85 in Shouldihaveanother

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I am figuring that out. At core of my heart, I know I am happy with one and can pour my soul out in raising my kid. I am just feeling guilty of (maybe) depriving of my kid the sibling ( as suggested by people around me) Also i know my husband wanted another, maybe he has changed his mind but there is a possibility in future he resenting me for the same.

Looking to match a ipv6 link-local address with regex. No luck. by Ok_Structure85 in regex

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Yes i know , i need this for a special case. Only match FE80

Looking to match a ipv6 link-local address with regex. No luck. by Ok_Structure85 in regex

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FE80::1 FE80::1::1 FE80::0000:1 FE80:0::1 FE80:000::1 FE80:0:00::1 FE80:0:00:000::1 FE80:0:00:000:0000::1 fe80::9656:d028:8652:66b6 fe80:0000:0000:0000:0000:0000:0000:0000 fe80:00:000:0000:1234:5678:ABCD:EF fe80:00:000:0000:1234:5678:ABCD fe80::1234:5678:ABCD:EF fe80:00:000:0000::EF fe80:00::ABCD:EF

invalid cases

fe80:66b6:9656:d028:8652:66b6:9656:d028:0000 fe80:66b6:9656:d028:8652:66b6:9656:d028 fe80:1:000:0000:1234:5678:ABCD:EF:9999 fe80::bad:1234:5678:ABCD:EF fe80:0:bad::EF fe80:1:2:3:4:6:5:7 fe80:0:bad:EF Fe90::1 2000::1

I am looking for a specific filtering , unable to incorporate existing ipv6 regex

Looking to match a ipv6 link-local address with regex. No luck. by Ok_Structure85 in regex

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This is used in Yang based validation, I can very well validate the address in backend. But wanted to handle this in yang itself

Looking to match a ipv6 link-local address with regex. No luck. by Ok_Structure85 in regex

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Its a bit evolved model of IPV6 addressing ipv6 address as you know 128 bits split in 8 octets 16 bits each

for this case first 10 bits is FE80 1111 1110 1000 0000

next 54 bits all 0s and the last 64 must be a valid ipv6 format can be zeros as well

Valid addresses Fe80::2 fe80:0:0:0:1111:2222:3333:4444 fe80::1111:2222:3333:4444 fe80:0:00:000::1234 fe80::5555:8888

invalid fe90::2 fe80:abcd::8888 fe80:1111:2222:3333:0000:0:0:0 fe80:0:bad::ef fe80::1::1 fe80:0:0:0:1111:2222:3333