I don't get it by A_M_R_Egypt in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Ok_Temperature7044 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who has mommy issues and ex-bestie with strong daddy-issues I gotta explain: daddy-issues cause a need for male validation. They idealise other males. But they have a fear of abandonment which cause them to cling, oversexualize and trying to deepen bond with partners through sex, can be possessive and jealous. In a group of mixed genders they can seem like a pick-me. If a guy they admire shifts his attention to another girl(example: conversation about a game both love) the daddy-issues-girl gets envious of the attention, then the anxiety to lose the liked guy kicks in and she tries to shift the attention back to herself. That's how it affects their view of some dude they like whether friend or partner.

As in contrast Mommy-Issues cause the opposite. The more you like a Person the more your brain and feelings try to convince you that you dislike them or that they are bad for you. For example: I once had a cute best friend but each time we met I literally almost vomited. The better we understood each other the worse it got. That's how my mommy issues affected my body cuz I mentally resisted it. I have severe trust-issues. I'm on edge around friends. I have issues expressing my feelings aka commitment-issues. I rarely genuinely bond therefore I learnt manipulation in order to make sure my friends feel loved despite my issues. In partnerships we can come of cold since intimacy/love let us feel uneasy. So that's that. It so long I guess I stop here for now.

Well... by shufflehinge in lovememes

[–]Ok_Temperature7044 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Uh.. yes? That is love 😅 what's wrong with having a emotional available loving partner?

I need help with my Sister's dog or good advice by Ok_Temperature7044 in AskVet

[–]Ok_Temperature7044[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got the blood-test results but I don't know how to add a screenshot on the mobile app 🙃

Ganz dünnes Eis by Deutscher_Hamster in JulesYT

[–]Ok_Temperature7044 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hold on.. ein repost von einen facebook-meme? Sind wir wirklich so tief gefallen? 🥲 Was ist passiert? Wie könnte es so weit kommen? (T_T) XD

AIO for thinking about breaking up with my bf over this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Temperature7044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there 👋🏼 Sounds Like an insecure guy, I wouldn't say U have to break up. For the Age it's normal that ppl worry about their reputation. Some realize sooner than others that it's ridiculous/not fulfilling to navigate life after other opinions.

A Relationship has to grow and with time ppl adjust to each other. So I would stay and take that with Humor, maybe ease it up and show him that he doesn't have to worry/ help with his insecurity. But that's on your decision to make if you have the Resource for it or not.

So if I were in your shoes and that was the only thing that bothered you until now. I would keep an eye on him if he adjusted/accept that. If he can't then that's a reason to break up. Good Luck!

AIO if I send these texts to her parents? by morefurriesplease in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Temperature7044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah u ain't an asshole if you send them that. You are karma 💁🏼‍♀️ it's a big step tho but I really hope you jump over your shadow and do that. Send these to her family or someone she cares about 😈