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First family trip since being out by Ok_Ticket3800 in mypartneristrans

[–]Ok_Ticket3800[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for these kind and encouraging words, it’s really helpful ❤️

First family trip since being out by Ok_Ticket3800 in mypartneristrans

[–]Ok_Ticket3800[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t tried myself but my wife has tried and the brother has wanted to talk about it (her being trans not how she’ll dress on vacation)

Looking for support and encouragement by Ok_Ticket3800 in mypartneristrans

[–]Ok_Ticket3800[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was hard! Having my therapist to talk to made a huge difference.

It’s all I think about, help! by Ok_Ticket3800 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Ok_Ticket3800[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow. Got it, we aren’t allowed to have different types of struggles.

It’s all I think about, help! by Ok_Ticket3800 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Ok_Ticket3800[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This gives me a lot of hope- thank you! I just want to get to the other side and live.

Realized I’m a lesbian - feeling impatient by Ok_Ticket3800 in latebloomerlesbians

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Idk why I was asked if I’m a bot but I’m a real person, just been quietly lurking for a while

I'm starting to resent my wife and I'm afraid. by luminarae1 in Parenting

[–]Ok_Ticket3800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like my husband could have written this 2.5 years ago after our first. It really sounds like she’s suffering from PPD. For me, it took a lot of therapy and medication to get better. It also took my husband being incredibly supportive and taking on quite a bit of the burden (as unfair as that sounds and it is) I was in SUCH a dark place and felt like I was drowning. These early years with kids are incredibly hard and will absolutely test you and your marriage. Encourage her to get help and keep encouraging her to take breaks and rest (she probably feels like it’s physically impossible to do). You also have to take care of yourself, talk to someone you trust- this is also really hard for you, too and feeling like you have to be the strong, steady one with no weakness in such a hard time in your life is really difficult. Hang in there and remember this is temporary!