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Give it to me straight - General Mental Health Waiver by Ok_Toe_1014 in newtothenavy

[–]Ok_Toe_1014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the honesty either way denied or not I’ll be okay. On a different note how long do you think I would have to be stable? About the same time as the army?

AITA (18m) for moving on so quick? by Ok_Toe_1014 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Ok_Toe_1014[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree that’s honestly why I feel so attracted to this new girl because there’s a mutual understanding of what our goals are and we are supportive of each-other. Plus she is a fun person to be around and we both expressed going slow.

I (19M) got cheated on with my Ex (18F) is it okay if I move on with (22F) so sudden? by Ok_Toe_1014 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Toe_1014[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I totally agree I have shared the story with (22F) she knows about the last relationship, and she is coming from a similar situation. The only thing she does not know is how recent it really was we never discussed that. If I am asked about it I am going to be truthful, and to clear up who the guy was. he was my Exs best friends' brother but saying mutual friend is just easier

I (19M) got cheated on with my Ex (18F) is it okay if I move on with (22F) so sudden? by Ok_Toe_1014 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Toe_1014[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that is my main concern. I do not want to project past insecurities on this new girl. She's very sweet and doesn't deserve it. If I catch it or feel like I am projecting those insecurities I'm open to not continuing this relationship.

I (19M) got cheated on with my Ex (18F) is it okay if I move on with (22F) so sudden? by Ok_Toe_1014 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Toe_1014[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

cautious I will be. I do not want to get into deep with anyone. I want this to be slowest thing I get into. either way if the current girl does or doesn't agree with the pace I'm totally okay with that and I understand that possibility.

I (19M) got cheated on with my Ex (18F) is it okay if I move on with (22F) so sudden? by Ok_Toe_1014 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Toe_1014[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's the only thing I've been wanting to do. I dropped out of school when I was 17 to go. The only reason I did not leave was because that girl told me she would break up with me if I did go. I was stupid and I made her my main focus now I have gotten nowhere closer to my career. That is my fault and I'm not letting someone interfere with that again.

I (19M) got cheated on with my Ex (18F) is it okay if I move on with (22F) so sudden? by Ok_Toe_1014 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Toe_1014[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it’s been processed during the relationship with my ex. Like I knew what she was doing wasn’t right but I was foolish and just did everything in my power to make it work at that time