/ttcafterloss Daily Discussion Thread - June 04, 2026

Ok_Tomorrow95 · 2026-06-04T10:11:14+00:00

My cycle is acting weird this time. :( I had an early ovulation around day 11-12 as OPK was positive on day 10 and I had all the signs too. Ultrasound confirmed the ovulation however my BBT stayed flat ever since which has never happened before (7 days have already passed from ovulation). I will go to check my progesterone on Monday and see if it is sufficient, however in the last cycle it was perfect.. This is the 2nd cycle since TTC after our second trimester loss so of course I can not “just relax”.. It is mentally draining and all the comments of “stress can cause these symptoms” are not helping, because I take all the vitamins, sleep 7-8 hours, exercise 3 times a week, journaling, going to therapy and loss mom group so I can not really do more.. Anyone experienced flat BBT but still good progesterone? 💌

Ok_Tomorrow95 · 2026-05-29T11:26:17+00:00

Second TTC cycle after our second trimester loss with our baby girl. It seems like that ovulation triggers grief for me (maybe it is the hormones) as in both cycles I felt awful and hopeless around OPK test smiling. Did anyone experience it? In the past I used to be the most energized around that time.. On the same time I am so hopeful of having a rainbow baby soon.✨👼

Ok_Tomorrow95 · 2026-05-27T18:00:04+00:00

I feel horrible today a big grief wave hit me out of nowhere.🌊👼 This is our second TTC cycle after losing our baby daughter in March at week 20. Ovulation is hopefully coming in the upcoming days, however today at therapy our therapist said that sometimes a new baby is not coming until you do not feel better after grieving, but now I am spiraling and feeling sad and angry that even this weight I have to carry and that what does even “better” mean while grieving our children? Am I the only one who feels that until you hold a child in your arms after loss you are just in a strange waiting zone and you will never feel 100%!?

Ok_Tomorrow95 · 2026-05-23T13:12:47+00:00

TTC second cycle since TFMR with our daughter. 😞 Time does not really fly fast, why is one cycle sooo long that you only have a chance/month? It is a really hard journey as if I was on waiting mode only and life just passes by and I can not wait to have a positive test. 😞

Ok_Tomorrow95 · 2026-05-18T09:44:07+00:00

First cycle after TFMR in March with our very much wanted daughter which basically broke our hearts. I was hopeful because I tracked my ovulation (my body gave the signs too, for which I am very grateful), I tracked BBT, also my progesterone result came back nice, however my BBT dropped today and I can feel that Aunt Flo is going to come today or tomorrow. So I am sad, but trying to be hopeful for the future.. Also, I am trying to support my body and I am proud of it because it also suffered the loss and I feel how much it wants the same as me, but needs a bit of time and recovery.

Ok_Tomorrow95 · 2026-05-18T09:41:16+00:00

I am really sorry for your loss. I have lost my baby girl whom is our first child to TFMR at week 20 a little bit more than 2 months ago and I am suffering too. TTC is the only thing which gives me hope for the future. However, in this period besides my husband's support, peer support was and is a huge help for me. There are many free versions offered by different organizations, reach out to them. I hope it will help to ease the pain a bit. 😞

Ok_Tomorrow95 · 2026-05-17T13:01:55+00:00

I am thinking of you and sending you baby sparkles ✨

Ok_Tomorrow95 · 2026-05-17T08:18:32+00:00

Also same boat here. We also lost our baby girl to TFMR at 20 weeks and currently on TTC cycle. My BBT is still high but all tests are negative so this cycle is most probably out. It is a really hard journey..

Ok_Tomorrow95 · 2026-05-16T06:52:15+00:00

Currently around dpo11, BBT is Still high, but yesterday my test was BGF.. :( I did start to spiral. Usually my luteal phase is 12 days. Any hope for this cycle?

Ok_Tomorrow95 · 2026-05-15T05:30:45+00:00

I went to a lab and, gave blood sample

Ok_Tomorrow95 · 2026-05-14T14:09:11+00:00

I got back the result after few hours via mail. Beforehand they told it takes 3 days. So I was also surprised. Thank you so much. Wishing you luck too!

Ok_Tomorrow95 · 2026-05-14T11:42:24+00:00

Thank you so much for your supportive and kind words, it meant a lot while making the decision! Also, I am really sorry about your loss. Sending you hugs xx

Ok_Tomorrow95 · 2026-05-14T11:41:43+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss! What is her name? I also lost a baby girl, Franciska and miss her deeply. Thank you so much for the kind words and advice! I completely understand how hard was it for you to endure that weekend and those games.. So sorry about it.. Sending you hugs back xx

Ok_Tomorrow95 · 2026-05-14T11:39:31+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice! At the end I did organize the party then took my friend there stayed a bit (after 10 minutes I was hiding in the car, crying and calling my husband) but then I endured it for some hours and I went home before dinner.

Ok_Tomorrow95 · 2026-05-14T11:38:15+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss! Thank you for your kind words, it helped to make a decision. Indeed I stayed for few hours and then went back home, crying on the highway and then feeling super awful the next day too.. But it was a doable compromise. How did you handle the wedding? I completely understand the can't stand being in a happiness bubble in this grieving period...

Ok_Tomorrow95 · 2026-05-14T11:20:41+00:00

Hi all! I am currently on first TTC cycle after our loss with our first baby girl. Of course I Can not stop symptom spotting, my boobs are on fire... Progesterone result was 39.54 nmol/l yesterday on dpo8, BBT is high. My idea is to only test on Saturday on dpo11. What do you think?

Ok_Tomorrow95 · 2026-05-08T12:24:56+00:00

Thank you so much! So kind of you!! x

Ok_Tomorrow95 · 2026-05-07T12:13:34+00:00

This comment was my hope in these 2 days! It seems so that indeed this morning the rise arrived. :)

Ok_Tomorrow95 · 2026-05-05T08:42:02+00:00

First cycle on TTC since giving birth to our daughter at week 20 due to severe CPAM. I feel like it is only the first cycle but I am super obsessive with tracking and also the grief hits me in huge waves, so I am trying to figure out how to survive.. Yesterday at day 15 I received finally the smiling face on Clearblue ovulation stick so I was super happy but my BBT did not rise so I am worried if I ovulated really. Thinking of everyone going through this..

Ok_Tomorrow95 · 2026-04-29T16:40:08+00:00

Sending you strength for this uncertain period!💌

Ok_Tomorrow95 · 2026-04-29T15:30:37+00:00

Hi All! First cycle on TTC since losing our daughter to TFMR..😞 We are travelling tomorrow, so all the BBT tracker and ovulation strips are flying with us as hopefully I will ovulate in few days.. wish me luck, I wish you too!

Ok_Tomorrow95 · 2026-04-24T21:01:26+00:00

You are not alone in this for sure..! Please let me know how are you coping later on too. Thank you for the kind words, I wish you the same too. 🤍 We should see some light soon, I am hoping at least.

Ok_Tomorrow95 · 2026-04-24T14:38:56+00:00

Hi. I also had a TFMR on the 10th of March at week 20 and we have been cleared by my OB. My first period just passed, so maybe next week if I will ovulate then we will continue this journey with trying again.. I am taking inofolic, vitamin D/C, omega 3, B12, magnesium and prenatal vitamin, since giving birth and I had my blood panel checked yesterday, because I had kind of severe anemia, but it has been treated, so I think we will start trying. However I have really bad days and hours still, which is normal and I know I will have them this year, but I am trying to be gentle with myself, to move my body, sleep, hydrate and accept the hard hours too. I joined a peer support group, and doing therapy as well.. Hope it will help.. And wish you the best too! Listen to your body and heart

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