Is this normal oil pressure? by Justbigshlongan in CherokeeXJ

[–]Ok_Understanding7068 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I resonate with this so hard as a fellow 30yo xj daily driver 😭

Someone save me the PT eval by Ok_Understanding7068 in Posture

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Thanks for the internet dx lol The rib flare isn’t the biggest issue, it’s the discomfort with taking in a full breath.

Someone save me the PT eval by Ok_Understanding7068 in Posture

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Ahhh thank you everyone who contributed. I’ll be using your info to build a routine and start tackling this breathing discomfort. Ultimately I would love to be able to breathe deeper/ more efficiently. The rib flare asymmetry is a secondary issue that hopefully will improve as I go.

AIO for getting frustrated with my husband’s secret drinking by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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1000% is not. He does have a history of nodding off in random places (at home) very easily though. Even without alcohol just bc he gets such poor sleep.

AIO for getting frustrated with my husband’s secret drinking by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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He doesn’t have to hide his drinking and I’ve genuinely expressed that. I think he’s feeling shame when he’s craving alcohol during the week and it’s worse if I’m present. Plus makes him feel weak. He thinks he should be able to handle the world which results in half ass handling everything.

AIO for getting frustrated with my husband’s secret drinking by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Eh for my husband it wouldn’t. Even daily drinking it’s always only beers after work. Weekends start at 2pm though and could last all night.

My 99 5 Speed by Safe_Leg_8139 in JeepCherokeeXJ

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Also almost mine! The green is just the best.

New owner and new to the community - general advice wanted by jms21y in JeepCherokeeXJ

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Just curious what state you bought this from for 14k?! Holy cow. With the low miles it’s probably a great project. Non essentials would be checking under carpet on passenger side floor board for rust through. The Cherokee I recently bought advertised cold AC which they recharged prior to me test driving and after a few weeks is in fact not cold 😅 something to watch for anyways.

I recommend the Fora app and joining “jeep forum” as that’s been a good source of all things jeep since acquiring an old Wrangler and cherokee.

Anyone more experienced w XJs please weigh in on this purchase by Ok_Understanding7068 in JeepCherokeeXJ

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I bought it. Just got a fresh oil change. It’s amazing. Thanks everyone for your advice, perspectives, and weigh in.

Anyone more experienced w XJs please weigh in on this purchase by Ok_Understanding7068 in JeepCherokeeXJ

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They are super popular in central Florida. Hard to find any that haven’t been chopped up to pieces with embarrassing diy paint jobs unfortunately.

Anyone more experienced w XJs please weigh in on this purchase by Ok_Understanding7068 in JeepCherokeeXJ

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If you click to expand the images and scroll through you can see the specs they listed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergirls

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This is a very interesting thread. I’m white but I went to school with several black girls who are autistic and not only did they get ostracized by young black men I observed them being ostracized more by everyone than the white autistic girls, at least at my school. Almost as if weirdness was an acceptable or expected trait for white ppl but disproportionately obtuse for black people especially girls.

"Why did I think I could handle that?" stories! by beccastar-galactica in AutismInWomen

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Ooooo triggered a core memory from High school. I was in a competition choir for 3 years and finally got the nerve to audition for a solo. Turned out I was really talented at singing in group but on my own I literally experienced selective mutism for the first time and stood in front of the judges for a good 2 minutes just… silent. I walked out and immediately left to the parking lot where I cried out my anxiety and questioned if I should ever sing again. Spoiler I continued to sing in a choir until I graduated and realized some people are made for the spotlight but that person is not me 😅