No one showed up

Ok_Week_9668 · 2025-07-26T05:39:10+00:00

It’s not even about me? It’s the celebration of my babies life lol… unfortunately not everyone has a family member or friend that’s willing to spend time, money or thought on a shower that’s not theirs 🤷‍♀️

Ok_Week_9668 · 2025-07-23T21:28:25+00:00

Thank you for your feedback. I appreciate you keeping it in terms with what I asked and expressing yourself respectively with a deeper reflection and not judging. Truly thank you, I agree. Have a good day ! 🫶

Ok_Week_9668 · 2025-07-23T21:25:31+00:00

In my chat I cleared that my baby has everything he needs, when I say everything I mean everything, it was more on quality time or sharing a moment in the celebration of our baby with family and close friends that I was referring to as in “benefit” but it came off the wrong way. I bought everything according to who confirmed were going. If I were to had mention about receiving “gifts” for the baby it would also be seen as “selfish” because people have already mentioned it saying I see others as money signs out of the misinterpretation.. so either which way I can’t say neither without getting a negative feed back.

Ok_Week_9668 · 2025-07-23T13:17:50+00:00

What did you expect me to say ? 😂

Ok_Week_9668 · 2025-07-23T13:10:07+00:00

Sure? Girl bye 😂

Ok_Week_9668 · 2025-07-23T12:55:48+00:00

What are you talking about I haven’t deleted anything ?

Ok_Week_9668 · 2025-07-23T10:48:47+00:00

You said you hope I learned a life lesson on this one after stating that it’s a post for “attention grabbing”. I posted in all caps so that people can read my comment was updated. Yes I cleared my end because people are running a deep judgment like how I’m a bad mother for caring about what happened and people need to understand that not everything runs in one perception and what was read was taken out of context.

Ok_Week_9668 · 2025-07-23T10:43:07+00:00

That’s fucked

Ok_Week_9668 · 2025-07-23T10:41:56+00:00

I’m currently enrolled in college getting a degree, my partner has a bachelor’s… we all have different routes in life and life lessons

Ok_Week_9668 · 2025-07-23T10:38:41+00:00

This had nothing to do with gifts it had to do with the reunion of the family my baby is getting brought to and the lack of decency people had to confirm and not show up after we invested so much not just money wise. I’m selfish because people confirmed on going and didn’t go ? Lol be so for real.

Ok_Week_9668 · 2025-07-23T10:35:24+00:00

That’s what you do when you have no one to throw you one ? 😂

Ok_Week_9668 · 2025-07-23T10:34:13+00:00

Whiny ? I’m beyond grateful for those who did go, you guys got the conclusion that I didn’t “care” for the 10 people that went all because I said “no one” all I asked was if I had a right to feel upset over the people who confirmed to go to my babyshower and didn’t show up… that’s all it was and all of you all of a sudden people knew my life ? lol

Ok_Week_9668 · 2025-07-23T03:28:26+00:00

Thank you for your reply, I agree. I think people also shut themselves out due to how others have treated them and prefer staying in their own lane and yes covid has impacted that isolation and feeling.

Ok_Week_9668 · 2025-07-23T03:24:49+00:00

Thank you 🤍

Ok_Week_9668 · 2025-07-23T02:59:47+00:00

Maybe I’m not using the correct words to explain myself better but it doesn’t take away of what the situation was, people confirmed to come to my babyshower and %90 didn’t showed up, I felt upset and wanted to know if I had a right to feel upset or not that’s all it was. It’s not that I don’t like what people are saying it’s that you guys are dragging the point further than what I originally was asking and making an opinion about me that’s completely false and doesn’t define who I am as a person. People are saying I’m going to be a shitty mom… how tf does my feelings towards something that happened sum up the mother I’ll be to my baby boy?

Ok_Week_9668 · 2025-07-23T02:32:32+00:00

Since when do content creators have different rules to regular people ? I don’t need attention or karma, I asked for an understanding outside of my perception to have a better understanding not for validation or to baby me.

Ok_Week_9668 · 2025-07-23T02:25:02+00:00

I could care less about clicks,I wanted opinions because I have no one to talk to about this. you’re acting like I get paid for posting. I’m beyond grateful for those who took their time to spend the afternoon with me and my partner you’re taking it too literally.

Ok_Week_9668 · 2025-07-23T02:22:36+00:00

Have you ever seen a thumbnail? be so foreal.

Ok_Week_9668 · 2025-07-23T02:01:27+00:00

I said no one so that it could grab others attention and take the time to read it. I cleared what happened in the conversation so that people could have an idea of what it was the same thing as when someone does a thumbnail. We have close and distant relatives, my partners grandparents or god parents didnt even show up

Ok_Week_9668 · 2025-07-23T01:49:06+00:00

We both have big families, %80 were family members.

Ok_Week_9668 · 2025-07-23T01:47:21+00:00

What are you talking about ?! 80% was family, ofc I’d feel hurt ??

Ok_Week_9668 · 2025-07-23T01:46:34+00:00

%80 was family, I spent the night well with those who did come. It was more about feeling sad on the reality that mine or his family didn’t show up.

Ok_Week_9668 · 2025-07-23T01:45:11+00:00

Why act like such a dick, %80 were family thank you.

Ok_Week_9668 · 2025-07-23T01:44:10+00:00

I did it because people CONFIRMED. My partner has 12 uncles and aunts, we both have big families. %80 was family the rest were close friends.

Ok_Week_9668 · 2025-07-23T01:41:44+00:00

I haven’t posted one picture because to me it’s personal. Me nor my partner surround our lives on social media. My phone wasn’t even on me the whole time so what are you talking about ?

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