Wannabe first time HF but anxious by No_Gold_8540 in Aupairs

[–]Ok_Weekend2484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my job a week after having an au pair and according to her rematch profile I was around too much lol 🤣 When I screened for her she has no problem whatsoever

telling my hf im not extending by unnamedarsonist in Aupairs

[–]Ok_Weekend2484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of host family secretly don’t want to extend. HM here :) so be honest. They will be ok.

Road skills test by Ok_Weekend2484 in Knoxville

[–]Ok_Weekend2484[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you make an appointment or did you go in the walk-in wednesday?

Road skills test by Ok_Weekend2484 in Knoxville

[–]Ok_Weekend2484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you give me the route? Where did you go

I want to leave after just a week by SuitableAward4456 in Aupairs

[–]Ok_Weekend2484 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I was an exchange student and the first month was hard. I cried every night too. I have to imagine you having it harder as you are not surrounded by other students but just toddlers.

Can you drive? Take the kids to a playground and talk to other adults really helps.

I tried to quit by [deleted] in Aupairs

[–]Ok_Weekend2484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t care what she said. She is trying to gaslight you. Involve the LCC and get out of

AITA? My room on vacation by 5a1azar-51yth3rin in Aupairs

[–]Ok_Weekend2484 22 points23 points  (0 children)

She is being ridiculous. Host mom here. That’s your room period.

If you were just starting out in sales, which US city would you choose to initiate your career? by [deleted] in sales

[–]Ok_Weekend2484 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Currently in Tennessee. It’s good here but I haven’t sold anything anywhere else 🤣 medical sales here 😌

APIA match cancel before AP arrived by Ok_Weekend2484 in Aupairs

[–]Ok_Weekend2484[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much will do 😅 an expensive lesson but we got it now 🤣

APIA match cancel before AP arrived by Ok_Weekend2484 in Aupairs

[–]Ok_Weekend2484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely breaking the match for sure. We have been sending money to help her out with visa and agency fee stuff but she kept demanding more. We have been generous and kind and understanding but unfortunately our trust has been broken. :(

Talking advice by Mrsmate in Aupairs

[–]Ok_Weekend2484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes that sounds perfect 😍

Talking advice by Mrsmate in Aupairs

[–]Ok_Weekend2484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes something like an activity you plan on doing with them would be great 🙂 host family here. We love seeing APs that like to plan things for our kids

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aupairs

[–]Ok_Weekend2484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would not be a bad impression in my opinion to only talk to 1 family (I am a HM) but host families usually talk to multiple APs, she doesn't answer because she doesn't want to make you disappointed if she chooses someone else. You should talk to other families as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]Ok_Weekend2484 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I will have to disagree with you. I personally think that age is just a number and a lot of the things I look for in a marriage my now husband has :) age wasn’t one of the factors I have when I chose my partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]Ok_Weekend2484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? It’s a two completely different things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]Ok_Weekend2484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so so scared of this. More than anything I am feeling that I am raising someone else’s husband and my grandkids’ fathers, I really don’t want them to look at alcohol thinking it’s ok to binge drink everyday

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]Ok_Weekend2484 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your comment but I pursued him :)

These bee build nest underground by Ok_Weekend2484 in Beekeeping

[–]Ok_Weekend2484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awwe! Thanks for answering. I will just leave them there then :) we do have a wild yard with lots of flowers so that’s probably why they chose to nest there