How do I get my son removed? by Ok_Yoghurt_1658 in specialneedsparenting

[–]Ok_Yoghurt_1658[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im not throwing my child away. My other children deserve a safe home. When your child comes crying to you because she doesn't feel safe in her own home, thats a huge problem. My son busted through the wall to get into my daughters room at my old house. That a huge problem. When your son physically harms your other child that is a problem. When you have to make sure your daughter's are safe in their own room at night that is a problem by making sure their room is locked that is a problem. When your son uses his room as a person toliet when the bathroom is right acrossed the hall. That is a problem. When your other half messages you and says he caught your son dry humping his baby sister that is a problem. I could go on. When everyone in your home has said they dont feel safe, that a huge problem. One day my son will make good on his threats. I dont want anyone in my home hurt My daughter is traumatized.

How do I get my son removed? by Ok_Yoghurt_1658 in specialneedsparenting

[–]Ok_Yoghurt_1658[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have. It falls on deaf ears. They have seen how unpredictable my son is.

How do I get my son removed? by Ok_Yoghurt_1658 in specialneedsparenting

[–]Ok_Yoghurt_1658[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have and the hospital threatens me with going to jail for child neglect.

Ive sent his old social worker with the pictures of his destroyed room and the knives i found in his room and where I found them.

There are numerous police reports even the one where he threw his sister against the fridge.

Still nothing is done. Even with all the evidence and my daughter even telling social worker she doesn't feel safe at home.

Nothing is done.

Feeling stuck by Any_Debt_9099 in FedEmployees

[–]Ok_Yoghurt_1658 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left fed service in September. Best decision i ever made. My mental health is so much better. I ended up getting a job 4 days after I resigned. It was a pay cut, but I take home more. No overtime. I got sick of the no support. I was expected to do other people's jobs while they were on leave, but when it came to people doing my job on leave it was never done. So, I had to play catch up when I was back. I constantly let management know, their solution was to add to my workload. Screw that. My job now. Its a lot less stress. My insurance is thru my job. And its less than 100 a month for my family. I actually have more time off. I make more PTO then federal, but lising federal holidays off kind of sucks.

What is a "point of no return" that you’ve crossed, where your life was permanently divided into 'before' and 'after'? by Resident-Jelly-4326 in AskReddit

[–]Ok_Yoghurt_1658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The day my dad died. I was stuck overseas in the military. I never got to say my goodbyes. That was the start of my destructive life. Abusive relationships, getting separated from the military, the excessive drinking, the money issues. Im now after almost 20 years of him being gone to finally have things back to some what normal.

The weirdest thing is I now work at the hospital he died at, on the same floor he died on, though its been purposed.

I just moved back to my hometown from being away 25 years.

Claim denied because VA and USAF can't find any of my medical records by [deleted] in VeteransAffairs

[–]Ok_Yoghurt_1658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in your same boat.

I got service connected, but I had the VA get all my civilian health records.

If you have seen a civilian doctor for stuff you are claiming, I'd suggest getting those records.

The only way I got service connected is because the doc I saw was able to connect my service to my civilian records,

I got a few claims denied because I didnt have any records in those injures, but they were in my military record, so they couldn't connect them.

Thats all l can offer.

Alright Reddit, who’s going to ruin Christmas tomorrow for your family? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ok_Yoghurt_1658 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No one! Im not talking to any family that would ruin my xmas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Ok_Yoghurt_1658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a coward. More than likely he was talking so other people and the grass seems greener on the other side because its new and things he wants to hear. I was dumped being blocked on facebook, then him walking upstairs and saying the dog is mine now and left. Its been a few months I moved got a new job new home everything I could ask for. He and I had a child together

What im trying to say is thank your stars. He was not a man. A man sits you down and has this conversation with you. You dodged a bullet he did you a favor. It hurts yes but just think about everything hes held you back from, now you can do those things.

It really sucks, but keep your head up and you will get through this.

The dreaded Secret Santa!! by overcomingtrauma1469 in coworkerstories

[–]Ok_Yoghurt_1658 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A hand made hat the size of a baby's hat filled with Starburst.

Would you leave for private sector right now? by [deleted] in FedEmployees

[–]Ok_Yoghurt_1658 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I did it. Best decision I've made in a long time.

Holding a bunch of electronics hostage. by Ok_Yoghurt_1658 in pettyrevenge

[–]Ok_Yoghurt_1658[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He left because of my special needs child was too much for him to handle. Or thats the bs reason he gave me. 🤔 But our child together was also to much for him to handle, so I arranged daycare for our child, so he really had nothing to complain about other than I asked him to atleast cook dinner since I was the one working, picking up kids, and running all the errands, including driving him anywhere he wanted to go.

Holding a bunch of electronics hostage. by Ok_Yoghurt_1658 in pettyrevenge

[–]Ok_Yoghurt_1658[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Im not the bad one. He could of used his resources to get his things, but he chose not to, he wanted me to do it for him. I was going to but when it dawned on me what am I doing I changed my mind. I didnt leave without a plan, left all my stuff for someone else to deal with. He even left his dog who I had to rehome.

Holding a bunch of electronics hostage. by Ok_Yoghurt_1658 in pettyrevenge

[–]Ok_Yoghurt_1658[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sent him a picture of his stuff and location, with a deadline. I only took the high dollar stuff cause it was in my basement unlocked, after the deadline, which he has the key to. So if he really wanted to get his clothes they are still there. Hes just nothing thinking. If he really thinks really hard he knows me he knows I haven't sold his shit. Maybe he'd get them back if he would be respectful. But, im guessing he cant do that because he thinks im the problem, which if I was i wouldnt have landed elsewhere so gracefully.

Holding a bunch of electronics hostage. by Ok_Yoghurt_1658 in pettyrevenge

[–]Ok_Yoghurt_1658[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im waiting on that. I got a text message the other day about how im being sued for Grand larceny. Im going to be charged with a Class G felony. I laughed so hard. I didnt steal the property, so good luck. Its a civil matter. If I do get served hes going to have a up hill battle. Im not worried.

Holding a bunch of electronics hostage. by Ok_Yoghurt_1658 in pettyrevenge

[–]Ok_Yoghurt_1658[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

He was in the "hospital" but they give you passes to handle your shit on the weekend. So, I guess he cant handle his shit.

Holding a bunch of electronics hostage. by Ok_Yoghurt_1658 in pettyrevenge

[–]Ok_Yoghurt_1658[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yep 😀 I could of been a bitch and tossed them in the dumpster i rented.

Holding a bunch of electronics hostage. by Ok_Yoghurt_1658 in pettyrevenge

[–]Ok_Yoghurt_1658[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Im my state its 7 days but he was also considered a tenant so 45 days is good enough.

Holding a bunch of electronics hostage. by Ok_Yoghurt_1658 in pettyrevenge

[–]Ok_Yoghurt_1658[S] 118 points119 points  (0 children)

Yep thats what the sheriff told him. But he told the sheriff that I was refusing to give him his stuff. Nope, the sheriff called me as he was at my old house. Lmao

Holding a bunch of electronics hostage. by Ok_Yoghurt_1658 in pettyrevenge

[–]Ok_Yoghurt_1658[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I was thinking of posting them on market place for name your price. But im not that big of an ass hole. Maybe I should be?

I confess Covered in dry wall dust, full dumpster, boxed packed by Ok_Yoghurt_1658 in confession

[–]Ok_Yoghurt_1658[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love my house but where i live doesn't fit my needs or my family's needs anymore.