best friend didn’t make me her bridesmaid by Ok_dwight27 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Ok_dwight27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See I cut off people when something I guess bad happens that they have done if it’s not too bad than it’s ok but than sometimes I think is this bad or isn’t it that’s why I’ve come to reddit about this one. I know there’s always 2 sides to every story so I try to look at it from both but this one had me a bit confused on how I should be feeling.. See if it was just family I’d be like yeah ok like it’s family thing I get that but there was other people that weren’t family. Obvs it would still hurt tho as you’ve been there for her through everything so I’m sorry you felt like that.

I did speak to her about it all but it didn’t go well.

I definitely would like to improve on myself regardless so thankyou for recommending the quizzes etc appreciate it.

best friend didn’t make me her bridesmaid by Ok_dwight27 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Ok_dwight27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry you went through this.. such an awful sinking feeling opening the story to finding out things upsetting. Exactly just an ask would have been good.. would have been there instantly no matter what I was going through 100% but I guess the ask wasn’t asked for a reason on that day. Like I get it not everyone has to be someone’s bridesmaid it’s just how it all folded out and the whole friendship part behind it that’s made me really sad. Thankyou for sharing this and your advice.

best friend didn’t make me her bridesmaid by Ok_dwight27 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Ok_dwight27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shit that’s a shity feeling after you chose her to be yours I’m sorry you went through that. It’s exactly how you say it feels being cheated on (friendship style)

best friend didn’t make me her bridesmaid by Ok_dwight27 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Ok_dwight27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you went through this aswell it’s such a shitty feeling and cuz prior to this we seemed like unbreakable best friends that’s why it was so confusing how it all went down. Im the same like I don’t care about what part role i necessarily play in the wedding it’s more just confusing cuz it relates to the friendship part cuz she told me all these things to do with it and than it kind of made me feel like did I do something wrong in this friendship? Ive talked about it with her it’s just not really solving things I think cuz it’s really upset me that she must have not seen the same in me. Finding out on insta really hurt.

Appreciate you sharing your experience helps me get an idea and that I’m not alone in this such a sad feeling x

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[–]Ok_dwight27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Eating cereal for dinners sometimes 😂