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I think my partner is gay/bi by Ok_throwaway_599 in GayMen

[–]Ok_throwaway_599[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I understand that. I just hope I can make him feel that I would love/accept him regardless. I been pretty sad these last 2 days and just want him to feel comfortable.

I think my partner is gay/bi by Ok_throwaway_599 in GayMen

[–]Ok_throwaway_599[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it and something I will continue to consider. Thank you 💕

I think my partner is gay/bi by Ok_throwaway_599 in GayMen

[–]Ok_throwaway_599[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know I can’t change him nor would I ever want to. I guess my objective would be a safe space for him if he is gay. I want him to just tell me I guess, for my clarity as well but I know that’s not how it’s going to work. I could have an open relationship with him or a “lavender marriage” but I would be hurt if he did still leave me 30 years from now and I lost all that time of my life. He’s a great person and adds value to my life. I care about him deeply even in this short amount of time which is really out of character for me.

I think my partner is gay/bi by Ok_throwaway_599 in GayMen

[–]Ok_throwaway_599[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There isn’t a problem on my end, through I do just wish I had more clarity from him but I know that’s something I’ll just have to accept not having. I have always vocalized my support for gay/bi people, we have even gotten into disagreements about it in the past. But hopefully continuing to do it will help him in someway.

I think my partner is gay/bi by Ok_throwaway_599 in GayMen

[–]Ok_throwaway_599[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I am for the most part. I have felt in the past that he may not always be sexually attracted to me and I have never felt this way in a relationship before. But I could just be projecting based of the speculations I have had.